“這個月，是一個很值得紀念的月份”
第一次YT裡坦然地說出內心的黑暗
影片裡，赤裸的說明自己在憂鬱裡時常聽見的聲音
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開始敢開口說的緣起是在公司的會議
每一次開週會都會抽個題目，交流除了工作以外的事
那天的主題是：「人生最低潮的時候」
帶著有點畏懼的心裏表達了那份憂鬱
而他們所給我的回應 讓我覺得...
“這個月，是一個很值得紀念的月份”
第一次YT裡坦然地說出內心的黑暗
影片裡，赤裸的說明自己在憂鬱裡時常聽見的聲音
/
開始敢開口說的緣起是在公司的會議
每一次開週會都會抽個題目，交流除了工作以外的事
那天的主題是：「人生最低潮的時候」
帶著有點畏懼的心裏表達了那份憂鬱
而他們所給我的回應 讓我覺得很感動
獲得的不是同情憐憫 而是理解
理解這件事情就像感冒生病一樣
就這樣第一次找到了出口
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發這樣的影片前
心裏超級緊張害怕
害怕其他人用有色眼光看待
但在面對最脆弱的自己後，心情變得好豁達
看世界的角度不同了
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只想跟現在可能經歷憂鬱的你說：「不要放棄」
不會表達 藉由一些書籍去理解自己
想要尋求幫助 不一定要從最親近的人開始
有時候與比較陌生的朋友說起 更容易開口
找到一點點的出口，就可能讓自己慢慢好起來
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在最黑暗的時候 ，
覺得最常鬼打牆的部分 就是尋找生命的意義和價值
看到這句話之後 一切都得到了答案，想要與你們分享：
「人生的本質其實沒有任何意義,
每個人生下來，就已經擁有意義
所以是『我們』為人生賦予價值」
（不知道這樣翻譯對不對，但是應該可以大概理解的了？！）
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"One of The Most Memorable Month"
The very first time I faced my darkness publicly
Talking about the depression in my YouTube videos
It all starts with the regular meeting at work,
We always spend some time talking about life or something random,
There is one time the topic is : what is your most depress moment?
I talked about that crazy voice in my head.
And the response from my coworkers make me feel like a relief!
There are no pity on there face, instead, they shows there understanding
Knowing depression is like a illness same as getting cold.
Before publishing the video, I felt really nervous and scared.
Afraid of others are going to see me differently.
But after facing the most vulnerable of myself,
I started to see the world from the new perspective!
For anyone who is also going through this illnesses,
I would like to share some thoughts with you:
If you don’t know how to express yourself, please try to understand yourself from the books.
If it is hard to reach out, you can start with some friends that are not the close one! I find that is easier to talk with!
If there is a way, even the small ones, it is the chance to make yourself get better!!!
When feeling lost and depress,
We always try to find the meaning and doubt about our self-worth!
But after I saw this quote, everything got the answer:
“Life has no meaning. Each of us has meaning and we bring it to life. It is a waste to be asking the question when you are the answer. “
By Joseph Campbell
nervous比較級 在 Facebook 的最佳貼文
很多人問 #達伶，在家裡防疫的這段時間，除了吃美食把自己養胖胖之外😂，還在做些什麼事呢？
The answer is….
上 Engoo Online English線上英文課!!!!!!!!
一邊增進自己的語言能力 一邊拯救台灣
✔️ #線上課程 真的好方便
宅在家也不覺得自己太廢、太浪費時間~超喜歡✌🏻
不開玩笑，很久很久以前，long long ago ～人家我英文是不錯的😊
高中時期， #English 可是我最愛的科目
學測還15級，滿級耶！！～✌🏻
不過畢業後，直線降落...😭跟大怒神一樣
防疫期間，一連上了幾堂真人線上英文課，從選老師開始，完全沒有以前學習的壓力，增添了大大的趣味性
一邊挑照片，看老師們自我介紹的影片，確認喜歡且聽得懂這位老師的’’英文發音’’後，再預約課程
(個人建議可以選擇不同國家口音的老師，可以拓展自己的視野)
接著，就是帶著一顆期待的心，迎接英文課～～～～
（雖然每堂課前五分鐘都會...滿頭大汗......哈哈哈哈
自我介紹裡 總有一句....Ｉam very nervous now😭😭😭
第一堂課沒有特別選教材，跟老師free聊天
（by the way~線上教材是免費的唷）
從兒童英語、旅遊、每日新聞到商業英文...等全都有
Stacey從英國嫁到非洲！！！！！（嗯哼！我有聽懂她的自介
然後，我們聊了疫情過後，我想去巴黎玩
還有，小時候我去過羅馬參加舞蹈藝術節表演的事，我用比手畫腳加上破爛英文，跟她分享 Rome Colosseum 羅馬競技場是這段旅程剩下的記憶，她說非洲也有羅馬人來蓋的競技場！！！！，她今年暑假要去看看！
哇！練習口說英文的同時，也多了旅遊小知識
看我們之間的課程紀錄，一定會以為我們在上地理或歷史課
（喔！我還問了她非洲有什麼好吃的零食snacks...哈哈哈
她說英國的巧克力比較好吃😂
第二堂課的老師Marko P 跟我一樣
有個斜槓角色是：actor演員
這堂選了簡單的教材，讓老師糾正我的英語發音～～～～～
如果你真的對於外籍師資會怕怕
engoo 其實也有台灣講師 的選擇
我個人是很喜歡外籍師資
泡哥拜託我借他上一堂課玩看看
我 才 不 要
自己去註冊
就送一堂免費課程喔！體驗不用錢錢
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#英文口說挑戰 #口說王 #一對一線上課程 #english #speaking #challenge
#達伶姐姐 要再去book一堂英文課囉！！❣️
響應 #教育部 #停課不停學 #英文 #語言
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nervous比較級 在 Travel with Winny 一起跟昀去旅行 Facebook 的最讚貼文
在歡樂的週末結束後，回到了繁忙的現實💔 大型家具已經被 York 拆開，我笑著說床墊在地上，好像我們房間是廉價妓院一樣😹
辛苦的 York 這週末不只每天上班，下班後還要打包行李並載去公婆家🏠 就算這樣搬家當天搬家工人還是花了三個小時搬運傢俱！不經讓人驚覺東西有多少😱
由於費用是以三小時來計算，最後快到三小時的時候超級心急⏱️ 很怕花三個小時五分鐘就會算三個小時半的費用😂
雖然找華人比較便宜，但他們真的常常沒力氣啊...😥 York 基本上是他們第三個人手，旁邊的小弟還真的就站在那裡😑 懷念紐西蘭的毛利人！每個都好壯💪💪💪
Ps. 明天一早飛凱恩斯囉～✈️ 但其實真正願望是可以睡久一點...😭
After a happy weekend❤️ Back to a home without bed frames, everything is ready to be moved😅 I said our room looks like a cheap brothel😂 Don't you think???
Poor York had to work full time over the weekend and pack the house🏠 Luckily it didn't rain as expected🌤️ The move was successful after three hours.
Although I got a bit nervous towards the end since I'm scared it may go up to 3 hours 10 mins then I will have to pay 3.5 hours😅
Sigh.. Asians are still too skinny, miss NZ's buff Maoris💪 Off to Cairns tomorrow, but we just wana sleep✈️
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【桃花桃花開了嗎？】(English writing below)
HAVE YOUR PEACH BLOSSOMS BLOOMED?
有自信，或假裝有自信，就能招財嗎？
幾個星期前，一位臉書朋友說，我在臉書直播裡很有自信，而她本身做直播時，難免會緊張。
這讓我想到，自信、美貌與桃花的區別。
當年周杰倫出道時，把鴨嘴帽壓得低低的， 談不上很有自信，專輯卻賣得不清不楚。
和王力宏比起來，周杰倫看起來不怎麼樣，可是卻能夠比王力宏還紅。
為什麼？因為有大桃花，所以人氣才會旺。
出道時，他的桃花不是直接在他的五官上，而是在他的歌曲裡，粉絲才會百聽不厭。
一般人覺得，桃花一定與情色有關。沒錯，所以往往很紅的人，大多都離不開緋聞。周杰倫也曾說，他絕對是個孝子，但不是個好男人。
我在星期四的直播提到，做生意要成功，必須有桃花。
你得有眾人的愛戴、支持和喜歡，無論是供應商、員工、合作夥伴或客人，做起生意來會更容易。
你無法在客人眼中獨一無二，那你就是可以被取代的。
有桃花的人，她他身上會產生一種光，把眾人的眼光都吸到他身上，目不轉睛。#行走的磁鐵
同樣一句話，A君講沒人有反應，換B君講，眾人就發狂的按讚留言分享。輸就輸在，桃花這兩個字。
但這桃花得是你做對行、做對事，才會桃花開遍野。
我說過，周杰倫的桃花在他的歌曲裡（注：歌曲，不是歌聲），因此他做電影和主持，不會有他唱歌來得好賣。
張學友不是四大天王裡最帥的，早期的他也沒什麼自信的感覺，但他的歌聲就是他的桃花，讓他贏來「歌神」這美譽，到2003年為止，已買超過250萬張唱片。
我曾經和一位年輕人說，他的文筆並沒有桃花，如果他要靠撰寫文案來致富，這是不可能的，因為他會無法贏得他客人及客人的客人的青睞。
一個人的桃花密碼，可出現在她他的八字和／或大運。你了解後，再做對行，明白如何啟動自己的桃花，成功才會來得比較快。
我有一位當總主廚的男客人。明明是入對行，卻賺錢賺得辛苦。於是，我向他了解他的日常工作細節，才發現，原來他應該做A，卻做了B，因此一直有金錢的困擾。我指點他後，不久他就找到一份更高薪的工作。
如果天生沒有桃花，那就靠取個良名，來增添自己的人緣。我自己就是如此。
再來，從居家風水或店面風水佈局，也能帶動自己的人氣。
我幫客人催旺桃花時，也不能見錢眼開。有些人定力很差，有的人喜歡左擁右抱，這樣的人如果亂亂爲他催旺桃花，我會破壞很多本來美滿的家庭。
「快餐」的代表無疑就是麥當勞。很多小孩不懂「快餐」這兩個字，卻肯定會唸「麥當勞」。教學時，叫小朋友畫出自己最喜歡的食物，許多小朋友畫了薯條。重點是，他們不只是畫條狀的馬鈴薯，而是把整個紅色的M盒子也彩繪出來了。
明明賣的是垃圾食品，卻輕而易舉走入小朋友的心，也讓「懂事」的大人欲罷不能。
這就是超級大桃花的魅力。
讀到這裡，你已知道如何開啟自己的桃花運，而不讓桃花傷害到妳你和妳你的家人嗎？
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如果不懂，歡迎您來尋求我的服務，讓我爲妳你開條百里桃花之路。
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Is self confidence, or faking it, able to attract wealth?
A few weeks ago, a FB friend remarked that I am very confident in my FB lives, while she was always nervous before her FB Lives.
This got me thinking about the issues of self-confidence, good looks and Peach Blossom luck.
When Jay Chou first debuted, his baseball cap was pulled very low to hide his face, as he was not very confident of himself. Yet, his first album sold like hotcakes.
Compared to Wang Lee Hom, Jay Chou's features are not outstanding. However, his popularity has proven to be more far-reaching than the former.
Why so? Because of his Peach Blossom luck, hence the unexpected rise to stardom.
Jay Chou's Peach Blossom luck isn't directly reflected on his facial features, but in his songs. Hence, fans will attest to the worthiness of listening to his songs a hundred times.
Most people think that Peach Blossom Luck is related to love and lust. They are right. Hence many famous people tend to have some sex-related scandals. Jay Chou once said, he is definitely a filial son, but is not a good man.
In my FB Live last Thursday, I mentioned that for one to be successful in business, you must have some degree of Peach Blossom Luck.
You need the love and support from the masses (be it suppliers, customers, employees, partners etc), and you will have a much easier time doing business.
If you cannot be unique in the eyes of your customers, then you are easily replaceable.
A person in Peach Blossom Luck will give out a kind of light from his/her body, attracting the eyeballs of people, who find him/her irresistible and are unable to take their eyes off the person. He or she is a walking magnet of attraction.
The same words spoken by Mr A elicit no response from his readers, but when Mr B says it, a furry of likes, shares and comments rush in like a tsunami.
The difference? Peach Blossom luck.
But these Peach Blossoms can only bloom wildly throughout the meadows, if you are in the right line of work.
As I said before, Jay Chou's Peach Blossom luck is in his songs (note: songs, not singing voice). Hence the sales from his movies and hosting will not be better than those from his music.
Among the Four Heavenly Kings, Jackie Cheung is not the most handsome. In his early days, he has not much self confidence either. But his Peach Blossom Luck is in his singing voice, hence winning him the esteemed title of The God of Songs and selling over 25 million records as of 2003.
I once told a young man from my Feng Shui workshop, that his writing did not have any Peach Blossom Luck. Hence, if he wishes to make his first pot of gold through copywriting, it is impossible as he is unable to win the hearts of his clients, and hence, their customers.
The secret code of Peach Blossom Luck can be hidden in a person's Bazi or luck cycle. When you understand your own Destiny, do the right work in the right industry, and know how to unlock your Peach Blossom Luck, success will come much faster.
A male client of mine worked as a Executive Chef, which totally fitted his Bazi needs. However, he was struggling financially. I got down to the nitty gritty of his work scope, like what he had to do everyday. That was when I realised instead of doing A, he was doing B, which led to his financial struggles. Once I pointed out to him what he needed to change, he found a better job with much higher remuneration.
If you are not born with Peach Blossom luck, then you can rely on the power of a auspicious name to improve your inter-personal relations. This was what I did for myself.
The next way would be to set up a Feng Shui formation in your home/shop, to boost your popularity.
When I activate the Peach Blossom luck for my clients, I do not put monetary gains as my priority. Some clients have poor discipline, while some enjoy too much the attention from the opposite sex. If I am not choosy about which client to help, I will break up many happy families.
When you talk about fast food, the first place to come to mind is undoubtedly McDonald's. Many young children do not know the term "fast food", but they definitely know the name "McDonald's". During my teaching lessons, when the young children were asked to draw their favourite food, many of them would draw French fries. The thing is, they did not only draw the string potatoes, they also drew the fries and coloured them inside a red-coloured Letter M box.
Obviously McDonald's peddle junk food, yet they easily win the hearts of young children, and even "sensible" adults cannot put it down.
Such is the magnetism of super Peach Blossom Luck.
As you read till here, do you now know how to activate your own Peach Blossom Luck, and not let it harm you and your family?
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If you are still clueless about it, I welcome you to seek my services. Let me help you open up the valley of 10-mile Peach Blossoms in your Bazi.
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