#生而为女有选择自己人生的权利

“一个女孩子来到人世间，有权利寻求她所要的一切。#假如她所得到的正是她所要的，那就是最好的。”

睡前在微博刷到这句话。恩，很对。
每个女孩都有不同的性格，不同的梦想。在十多岁的时候，我们对未来有无限的憧憬。日常生活就是，讲讲隔壁班女生的坏话，搞搞小聚会，然后会玩很多算命小游戏看自己几岁会结婚，会有几个孩子😂

人生的烦恼大概就是“哎呀，很想快点长大，离开家里，不想被家人管束”🙂

转眼间毕业了，恋爱了💘，当了人妻、为了人母。

曾经独上西楼的忧愁，被夫妻、婆媳、金钱、孩子通通给埋没了。

诶 那时的少女跑哪里去了？
看着身边单身的朋友，做工的做工、国外升学的去国外升学了。做工不爽就辞职，要追求梦想去working holiday，爽爽出国玩，买买名牌，做做facial。

看着身为妈妈的我们。。。能够这么任性吗？全职妈妈连生病都不可以，谁顾孩子。在职妈妈工作受委屈了？继续忍吧，不然孩子的保姆费，学费，保险费怎么办？

💋什么Gucci Prada LV????
👀我只懂Merries, Offspring, Mamypoko

💋Sephora有offer？Urban Decay眼影盘很漂亮
👀啊 对不起，我只在乎孩子的奶粉几时有折扣

💋机票有便宜快点抢，可以去看热气球，巴黎铁塔，看看樱花🌸
👀不好意思 我在考虑的是要带孩子去Klcc Aquarium好，还是Farm in the City比较好玩。

💋有新的甜品店新开，气氛很好，蛋糕很少女心，要和闺蜜去high tea。
👀我只在乎那个餐厅有没有BABY CHAIR!!!!

虽然我们不再是洒脱的未婚少女，面对如今的婚后，偶尔会觉得疲惫😩会抱怨为什么自己要结婚呐！

但是——————认真的衡量了一下。目前的生活的确是我想要的。有了家庭，有了明确的目标；有了老公，有了依靠；有了孩子，有了使命感，觉得 #作为女人不枉此生了。

回到一开始的那句：
➡️假如你现在得到的是你想要的，那就是最好的。#也无需比较了

➡️假如所得非愿，生活委屈，那么就勇敢去改变。#一辈子很长不要将就 作为女生可以有选择的权利，可以根据自己的意愿过得更好。

#身边最美丽的女孩
#38女王节快乐
#女神节
#我是妈妈我骄傲 #我把孩子举高高

【玳瑚師父玄學論】 《人生三部曲》
The Trilogy of Life (English version below)

人生三部曲，並不是談戀愛、結婚生子、百年後掛在牆上。有些人好像是談戀愛後，才變得碎碎念的。很多人也好像是昏了頭才結婚的。有些人以為生兒育女能防老，又好像是養兒煩惱才對咧！好像有點離題了。不好意思，不好意思，馬上言歸正傳。這篇文章「人生三部曲」，所要闡明的是，人生歲月裡的，良好體魄、創業的成功、婚姻的美滿、子女的學業理想、炒樓炒金炒地皮的獲利、疾病的痊癒，及其他等等，都與我們生命中的三種密碼有直接，甚至不可分的關係存在著。而這種精細的密碼，唯有鑽研玄學多年，非常觀察入微的師父，才能知之。

實不相瞞，吾玳瑚師父，是曉得這些精細密碼的其中一位師父。若人能得知，且懂得運用這生命中精細的密碼於日常生活中，一世無憂也。在吾公佈的近年裡，已有好些人向吾，買取這精細的密碼。不過之前的客人，祇買取其中一種密碼。哈！哈！哈！非她他們之過，因她他們祇知其一，而不知其二。

其中之一的密碼，是數字。次之為圖騰及紋路。再次之為中文及英文字母。圖騰及中英文字母，是吾最近才公佈的，一公佈馬上就有人問津。在此特別感謝眾多財神的加持及守護。也唯有眾多財神擁戴的師父，才能賜喜賜財賜福，給於一切的眾生啊！

已得到「人生三部曲」的妳你，依然要謙卑有禮，積極行善向善，禮敬師長，孝順父母，等等，未來才有深厚的福報。

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The Trilogy of Life is not just about falling in love, getting married and having kids, and being remembered via a photo hung on the wall after a hundred years. Some people become more naggy after being in love. Many people got married after being struck by the dizziness of love. Some people have the misconception that having children is a safeguard for old age but it seems like the offspring is a source of affliction instead. Oh, I have digressed, my apologies. Let us get back to the main topic. The main purpose of this article is to highlight the three secret codes that are inextricable from our lives and how they can help us achieve a sturdy health and physique, success in entrepreneurship, a blissful marriage, good academic results for the kids, profitable investments from real estate and gold, full recovery from illness, etc. These intricate secret codes can only be revealed by a master steeped in the knowledge of Chinese Metaphysics for many years and possessing an acute sense of observation and awareness.

In all honesty, Master Dai Hu is one of those Masters who are well versed in these secret and intricate codes. Anyone who knows how to leverage on these codes in his or her daily life, he or she will lead a life free of worry. When I first started to impart these secret codes in recent years, many clients had already bought their secret codes from me. However, what they had were only one set of secret code. Ha ha ha! But this is not a mistake of theirs as they only had partial knowledge at that time.

One of the secret codes is numerals. The others are totem, pattern, Chinese character and English alphabets. I recently divulged the secret codes of totem, patterns and English alphabets and there was inquiries from interested customers already. I would like to give thanks to the many Gods of Wealth for their blessings and protection. Only a Master with much divine assistance is able to bestow happiness, wealth and fortune to all sentient beings!

Even though you might have received the Trilogy of Life, please remain humble and respectful, be diligent in accumulating merits through virtuous deeds, respect your teachers and elders, be filial to your parents, etc. Only then, you will be assured with a generous stream of merits and fortune for your future.

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