【51歲了，看八字還有用嗎？】
At Age 51, Is Bazi Analysis Still Relevant?

曾經有人問過我類似以上的問題。

我的答案是：人生已過了一半。如果目前沒有您無法解決的難題，對於未來您也沒有什麼想要實現的夢想，不需要指導，那倒不如好好學佛，消業增福，為將來百年歸去時做好準備。

畢竟，無常和明天，不知哪個先到。

提供見證的女客人，年過半百，面對好些家庭問題。我們在今年二月過年前見面。

其中，讓她最頭痛的是與兒子之間的關係。兒子與她說話時，很容易不耐煩，也不聽她的勸告和教導，不像以前會聽完她講整句話。

許多母親遇到這樣的問題，會問我怎樣改善孩子的態度。

我的答案都是：先改變自己。

去改變任何人是很累的事情，也容易吃力不討好。在他的眼裡，會覺得你在逼他。可是，當你能夠改變自己的時候，你身上的磁場會隨之起變化。

人與人之間，喜歡和不喜歡，合與不合，說明了，就是五行的遊戲，磁場碰觸而產生的「火花」。

你的磁場與孩子的磁場不合，源自於你們八字的不合。

想擁有更好的親子關係，玄學上，可採取三種方法：改名、批命，和/或調居家風水。

個人磁場往正確的方向改進，你會發現很多本來不行的事情，突然就通了，不合的人，摩擦也減少了。

當然，如果兩人都願意改變，那就事半功倍了。

女客人說，孩子現在還會跟她開玩笑了。

我指點這位女客人，因為她八字所需，應該常去捐血。她說，2018年體檢報告顯示她有貧血。

可是，這八字不應該有貧血問題的。

我認為是她之前用錯五行，飲食習慣出了岔子。

她見了我後，照著我的話做了一個月，三月時，去做體檢。報告顯示一切正常，她可以捐血。

一個藥，不見得就能醫好所有的人，因為每個人的體質不一樣。一般人會以為喝紅棗茶能補血，所以有這方面的問題，就該多喝。

但在玄學上，這可不一定。對症下藥，在這裡就是要看客人八字而定。

年紀越大的客人，往往越固執，不容易改變自己的看法和作風。有些也因為以前已給不同的師父看過幾次命，更會固執己見。

這位女客人做得到，也真是命不該絕啊！哈～

偶爾，我會遇到客人，在諮詢時詢問關於他們父母的健康。

坦白說，與其東敲西打，如果父母願意，那你倒不如大方點出錢幫自己的父母看命。

真要改善父母的生活，我無法三言兩語就能交代清楚。這樣未免太敷衍你了，可我也不能只收看一個八字的收費卻變成看三個人呀～

客人便會問，孩子與父母，應該先看誰的八字？

一定是父母為先，因為沒有父母就不會有我們。

他們在人間的時間，隨著每一個生日，已逐漸減少。

百善孝為先，這點不要等到母親節才記得。

你真有善功德時，又何愁孩子不受教不成才呢？

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Someone once asked me the question above.

My answer: You have lived half your life. If there is no insurmountable issue at the present and you have no further ambition for the later years, it would be wise to focus on the Dharma diligently to eradicate your karma and prepare for your eventual passing.

After all, you cannot tell which will come first, tomorrow or death.

The female client who provided this testimonial is past 50 years of age and faced plenty family issues. The one which pained her the most is her relationship with her son. Her son is impatient when talking to her and does not heed her advice and teachings, unlike in the past when he would at least hear her finish her sentence.

Many mothers who faced the same dilemma would ask me for ways to improve the attitude of their children.

My answer to them all: Change yourself first.

To change another person is a tiring chore and often goes unappreciated. In the eyes of the other person, he would feel that you are forcing him. But when you can change yourself, the energy fields of your body will start to transform.

The dynamics in a relationship, simply put, is a game of the five elements and the chemistry reaction that arise when two energy fields come together.

The incompatibility in energy fields between you and your child stems from both of your Bazi.

From the Chinese Metaphysics viewpoint, there are three ways to improve the parent-child relationship: Change of the Chinese name, Bazi Analysis and/or alter the Feng Shui of your house.

As you change your own energy field in the positive direction, new paths will open up for problems seemingly hard to resolve and conflicts lessen with people whom you could not get along with.

Of course things would improve doubly quick if both parties are willing to change.

The female client told me that her child could even joke with her now.

I advised her, based on her Bazi, to donate blood regularly. She said a health examination in 2018 revealed that she was anaemic. But this Bazi should not have such a condition. I believe that was due to her using the wrong elements as well as her dietary habits.

She followed my advice for a month, and a health check in March showed that all was well and that she could donate blood.

One type of medicine does not necessarily work for everyone as all of us have different disposition. Most people would assume that drinking red dates tea improves anaemia.

But from the perspective of Chinese Metaphysics, this may not work well. The best cure is the one that is customized to the client’s Bazi.

Older clients tend to be more resistant and stubborn to change. Some clung onto their views so tightly due to their many Bazi analysis with different masters.

This client of mine managed to break the resistance to change. This shows that there’s still hope!

Sometimes I would get questions from clients during Bazi consultation asking about their parents’ health.

Honestly, rather than asking bits and pieces, be generous (if you can afford) and pay to have their Bazi read. I am unable to offer real improvements to your parents’ lives with sparse advice here and there. That would be trying to pull a fast one on you but I can’t be analysing 3 Bazi when you only paid for one.

The client will then ask who should be their priority for Bazi analysis: their child or their parents?

Parents. No two-way about this. Where would you be without them?

Their time in this world is dwindling as each birthday passes.

Filial piety is the foremost of all virtues. Don’t remember this only on Mother’s Day.

If you truly can garner merits from your filial piety virtues, why worry that your child will be disobedient and unable to make the mark?

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《daydream》
insane dream / 癲狂夢魘
作詞 / Lyricist：Taka・aimerrhythm・Jamil Kazmi
作曲 / Composer：Taka
編曲 / Arranger：Colin Brittain
歌 / Singer：Aimer
翻譯：澄野（CH Music Channel）
意譯：CH（CH Music Channel）
English Translation:Thaerin

背景 / Background - 空壳 - ADS_主動防禦猫 :
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中文翻譯 / Chinese Translation :
https://home.gamer.com.tw/creationDetail.php?sn=4868566

英文翻譯 / English Translation :
https://www.lyrical-nonsense.com/lyrics/aimer/insane-dream/

日文歌詞 / Japanese Lyrics :
また記憶をつきさす　焼けた匂い
もう呼吸もできない

目眩がするような黒い太陽
息継ぎの痛みを

切り刻んで　around the way
記憶を消して　feel my fear
すがりついた　and I’m dead
振りほどいて　insane dream

Tell me what you want me to believe
I can’t see you I can’t feel you

ただ赦しを求めて　流す渇望(ねがい)
まだ鼓動は絶えない

視界を失くした　赤い瞼よ
三度目の祈りを

切り刻んで　around the way
記憶を消して　feel my fear
すがりついた　and I’m dead
振りほどいて　insane dream

切り刻んで　around the way
記憶を消して　feel my fear
すがりついた　and I’m dead
振りほどいて　insane dream

切り刻んで　around the way
記憶を消して　feel my fear
すがりついた　and I’m dead
振りほどいて　insane dream

Tell me what you want me to believe
I can’t see you I can’t feel you

中文歌詞 / Chinese Lyrics :
焦黑的氣味又一次次地刺向記憶
令人難以吐息

猶如使我昏眩的玄黑豔陽一般
將這份伴隨痛楚的氣息給——

切割、劃碎，灑落一路
將記憶抹去，感受我的恐懼吧
哪怕緊握不放，而逝去生命
只為能掙脫這份，癲狂夢魘

快告訴我，你究竟想讓我相信什麼？
我卻絲毫無法感受到你的蹤跡

流逝的渴望，仍乞求赦免
心中狂亂的鼓動仍不止息

通紅的雙眸，已無法再捕捉任何視野
將第三次的祈禱——

劃破、粉碎，灑落一路
將記憶抹去，感受我的恐懼吧
哪怕死纏爛打，而逝去生命
只為能甩落這份，癲狂夢魘

切割、劃碎，灑落一路
將記憶抹去，感受我的恐懼吧
哪怕緊握不放，而逝去生命
只為能掙脫這份，癲狂夢魘

劃破、粉碎，灑落一路
將記憶抹去，感受我的恐懼吧
哪怕苟延殘喘，而逝去生命
只為能擺脫這份，癲狂夢魘

快告訴我，我究竟該相信什麼？
我卻絲毫無法感受到你的蹤跡

英文歌詞 / English Lyrics :
A burnt smell still penetrates my memories,
Preventing me from even breathing…

A black sun that makes my vision swim,
Presents the pain of struggling for breath.

Cut it all to pieces, around the away…
Erase the memories, feel my fears…
I clung too hard, and now I’m dead…
Unravel this insane dream!

Tell me what you want me to believe!
I can’t see you, I can’t feel you!

I send my desire flowing, searching for permission;
My heartbeat still won’t give out…

Oh, my reddened eyes, devoid of sight-
Give to me that third wish I’ve been praying for!

Cut it all to pieces, around the away…
Erase the memories, feel my fears…
I clung too hard, and now I’m dead…
Unravel this insane dream!

Cut it all to pieces, around the away…
Erase the memories, feel my fears…
I clung too hard, and now I’m dead…
Unravel this insane dream!

Tell me what you want me to believe!
I can’t see you, I can’t feel you!

《DAWN》
DAWN / 總有一刻的拂曉
作詞 / Lyricist：aimerrythm
作曲 / Composer：秋田博之、玉井健二
編曲 / Arranger：玉井健二、釣俊輔
歌 / Singer：Aimer
翻譯：夏德爾
English Translation:Thaerin

背景 / Background - 静蒼 - とちちま :
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中文翻譯 / Chinese Translation :
https://home.gamer.com.tw/creationDetail.php?sn=2976963

英文翻譯 / English Translation :
https://www.lyrical-nonsense.com/lyrics/aimer/dawn/

日文歌詞 / Japanese Lyrics :
果てしなく広がる　この空に　奇跡なんてなくてもかまわない
流した涙なら　隠さない　もう何があっても

例えば　そう　空を横切る白い鳥のように翼があって
自由に今　空を飛べたなら　逃げるように　ただ彷徨っていた
　
地上(ここ)でしか見えないものがあって　地上(ここ)でふたり出会えた
行く宛のない旅路としても　もう二度と迷わない　願いは　一つだと誓う

果てしなく広がる　この空に　奇跡なんてなくてもかまわない
流した涙なら　隠さない　もう何があっても

振り返れば　寄せては返す　白い波が　ほら
選んできた足跡だけ消してくれるから　正しさとか　もう答えはなくて

漕ぎだした船は帆をはって　凍える風　吹かれた
遠ざかってく渚の隅で　思い出と悲しみが手を振り　さよならを謳う
　
果てしなく広がるこの海に　行き場なんてなくてもかまわない
嵐の夜ですら　怖くない　もう何も怯えることもない
勇敢な想いがつまずいた夜も　そばにいるよ
何があっても　そばにいるよ

消えてゆく月と　星のない夜空
何より暗いのは　そう　夜明け前
朝日まで　もう少し

明けてゆく　静かなあの空に　奇跡なんてなくてもかまわない
つないだこの手なら離さない　もう何も怯えることもない
眠れない想いを抱きしめた夜に　朝は来るよ
手を伸ばせば　朝は来るよ

中文歌詞 / Chinese Lyrics :
在寬廣的無邊無盡的，這片天空底下，就算不存在有奇跡也無所謂
因為我已經決定，不會再隱藏落下的眼淚，無論發生什麼事情

要比喻的話，對了，我的心就像是飛越天空的白鳥一樣有著一對羽翼
若是能自由地在空中飛翔的話，肯定會像是在逃竄一樣，僅是四處徬徨吧

這裡有著只有從地上才能看見的景色，而我們就在相遇在這樣的地方
就算是連目的地也沒有的旅途，也絕對不會再次迷惘。在此發誓，那是我唯一的願望

在寬闊的無窮無盡的這片天空裡，沒有奇跡的存在也無所謂
因為，我已經下定決心不會再隱藏流下的眼淚，無論再發生什麼事情

悄然回首，你看，那來回拍打岸邊的白色潮水
都會帶走我們選擇留下的那些足跡，所以正確與否什麼的，根本，就沒有任何答案可言

開始划動的船張開了船帆，在冷冽的風中前進
在岸潮漸漸遠去的那個角落裡，回憶與悲傷正揮著手，與我們高聲道別

在這無限寬闊的大海中，不在乎是否還有我們的棲身之所
就算是暴風雨的夜晚也無從畏懼，已經什麼都不足以使我們膽怯
就算是這份勇敢的心念遭遇挫折的夜晚，我也會在你的身邊
無論發生什麼事情，我都在你的身邊

月亮漸漸抹去了身影，留下星星們接二連三離去的夜空
最昏暗、最昏暗的，是的，就是拂曉之前
那距離晨曦，還差那麼一點點的時刻——

在寧靜之中慢慢明亮的那片天空，不需要什麼奇跡
不會再放開牽起的手，已經什麼都不能讓我們膽怯
懷抱著難以入眠的心念，在這樣的夜晚裡早晨還是回來訪的
只要伸出手……拂曉，就在這裡

英文歌詞 / English Lyrics :
In this limitlessly expanding sky, I don’t mind if there are no miracles to be found.
I won’t hide the tears that have already flowed, no matter what happens.

If I were to have wings, like those white birds that cross the sky,
And could fly freely… I’d have been merely wandering, as if running away from it all.

There’s something that can only be seen here on the ground; this is where we met.
Even if the path of our journey has no destination, I’ll never lose my way again: I swear we share the same wish!

In this limitlessly expanding sky, I don’t mind if there are no miracles to be found.
I won’t hide the tears that have already flowed, no matter what happens.

When you turn to look, you’ll notice that the white waves coming in and out,
Are only erasing the footprints we managed to choose on our own; there’s no longer any answer to the question of what’s “right”.

The boat we’ve started rowing raises its sail and a chilling wind blows in.
In the corner of the shore we leave behind, our memories and sorrows wave, singing a song of parting.

Upon this limitlessly expanding sea, I don’t mind if we have nowhere to go.
I don’t even fear a stormy night; there’s not a thing for us to be afraid of.
Even on nights our brave thoughts stumble, I’ll be by your side –
No matter what happens, I’ll be by your side.

The moon is vanishing in a starless night sky,
But the darkest time of all is just before dawn…
It’s just a little longer ’til the sun rises…

Within the silent sky that opens up, I don’t mind if there are no miracles to be found.
I won’t let go of our joined hands; there’s really nothing else for me to say.
To the nights we clung to sleepless emotions, morning will come –
If we just reach out our hands, morning will come!

Nene-nyan clung by oneself to beat plate, it will be able to flutter kick ☆ Nene-nyan is toddler of 1year 9months.

ベビースイミングを楽しむねねにゃんです。
ビート板に自分でつかまってバタ足が出来るようになりました☆

ねねにゃんのプールデビューは、0歳11ヶ月の頃。
最近は、3mくらい泳いだり、準備運動をしたりするようになりました。

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