SHOULD YOU QUIT YOUR JOB NOW?

“You have to help me quit my job!”

Even though the video was off, I could tell from Bria’s voice that she was in tears. This strong woman couldn’t keep herself together anymore.

“You’re experiencing strong emotions now. That’s very natural,” I said, wanting to help her feel safe and accepted.

After all, Bria and I had only met once in an event. Knowing that I was a coach, she reached out the next day to see if I could help.

If there’s anything I’ve learned from my years of coaching, it’s that when the person is emotional, you need to give them the space to feel it.

So as Bria sobbed, I stayed silent, feeling my belly rise and fall with each breath. After a short while, I could sense that her wave of emotion had passed.

“Shall we take one long easy breath together?” I asked.

I heard her breathing with me. I paused, allowing Bria the time to settle, then I asked her to tell me what’s so difficult to her about her job.

After listening to her sharing, I said: “I can definitely help you, Bria.” I heard a sigh of relief on the other end. “But only if you promise me you won’t quit your job yet.”

3 months after that conversation, Bria waltzed in my office one evening holding a bottle of red wine: “Let’s celebrate!”

She had a giddy grin on her face, the very special grin with a dimple that I’d come to love after many hours supporting her. “Oh! Is it okay for us to drink a glass of wine in our coaching session?” She asked.

I laughed: “Of course. What are we celebrating?”

Bria said, her face brightened even more: “I just realized today that I have the perfect job!”

The most fascinating thing about this story is that the “perfect job” she referred to was the exact same job she had practically begged me to help her quit.

Bria’s circumstances hadn’t changed. But her experiences of the circumstances had changed 180 degrees. Why? Because she did.

Bria’s story teaches me once again, that life is truly created from the inside out.
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1 in 3 Malaysians is struggling with their mental health with the highest prevalence amongst 16-19-year-olds (MOH, 2015). Thus, it's common that we ALL loved ones that are fighting with their inner demons - a lover, spouse, parent, family member, friend, colleague, etc...It's PAINFUL to watch the people we love and care for doing damage to themselves. Despite us trying our best to pull them out of a deep dark hole, they continue to self-sabotage and chose to dig deeper, choosing to stay in that toxic place...

"Why can't you love yourself more?" , "Why can't you be healthy?" .....I've desperately begged people I cared for to get help but no matter how much I've tried, they have either gotten angry at me and my pleas went to deaf ears...

Yet, we all still try to save them because, despite their self-harm and (sometimes) projection of their negative actions towards us, we loved them for their beautiful side. Deep in our hearts, we still believe that they can change for the better 🙏 Therapy and Rehabilitation teaches you how to face parts of you that you don't like/don't want to face and make you realize that the ONLY way to defeat those demons is by facing them, acknowledging them head-on 👊

#BenPlatt #IWannaLoveYouButIDon #Pop
今晚來分享美國演員兼歌手 Ben Platt 的新作品 〈I wanna love you but I don't〉，這首歌唱出一個殘忍又令人心碎的事實，主角試著勉強自己愛上一位沒有那麼愛的人，但不論怎麼說服自己，都沒辦法改變她終究不是對的人的現實😭
　　
I wanna love you but I don't
我想要愛妳但我辦不到
I wanna need you but I won't
我試著需要妳但卻失敗了
I begged my heart to start to race when I'm kissing you
乞求我的心能在吻妳時撲通撲通地跳
I say I'm dreaming 'bout your face, but it isn't you
我說我夢到妳的臉龐，但那人卻不是妳
　　
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《pop'n music 15 ADVENTURE》
凛として咲く花の如く / Rin to shite saku hana no gotoku / 宛如凜風中綻放的花 / Like a flower that blooms bravely
作詞 / Lyricist：あさき
作曲 / Composer：紅色リトマス（TOMOSUKE）
編曲 / Arranger：紅色リトマス（TOMOSUKE）
歌 / Singer：オカマチコ
翻譯：CH（CH Music Channel）
意譯：CH（CH Music Channel）
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中文翻譯 / Chinese Translation :
https://home.gamer.com.tw/creationDetail.php?sn=5270562

英文翻譯 / English Translation :
https://popnmusic.fandom.com/wiki/Rin_to_shite_saku_hana_no_gotoku

日文歌詞 / Japanese Lyrics :
春深く夢の輪郭を　ぼかして　行き過ぎて　舞い戻る　
花びらは仕草を追いかけ　薄明かりの下で　密やか

つまさきであやす月の兎は踊り
星の間を飛び回る　口笛吹き

飛沫　あがる　わたし　掛ける
追いかける星は　まわる　まわる　ちいさなつぼみ

さいて　さいて　月にお願い　おだやかな影に薄化粧
しらず　しらず　えいや！と投げた　つぼみは行方知れず　のまま

見下ろして小さくなった雲の間に
芽を出した線香花火　つぶらな夢

飛沫　あがる　火花　翔る
問いかけた星は　かわる　がわる　顔を変えた

さいて　さいて　くるりとまわる　舞姫の如く　たまゆらに
思い思いに動く影と　背中を合わせて　ああ　走る！

弧を描き　影は延びる　陽炎の先に
さいた　あった！　まあるい花が

さいた　さいた　星の欠片が　月の裏側で泣いていた
気付かぬうちに　隠れていた兎も　また弧　描く

さいて　さいて　月にお願い　おだやかな影に薄化粧
しらず　しらず　えいや！と投げた　つぼみは　行方知れず

さいて　さいた　風に揺られて　おだやかな坂は薄化粧
下駄鳴らして口笛合わせ　凛として　はんなりの　こころ

中文歌詞 / Chinese Lyrics :
春意正深，浸暈了夢的輪廓，花瓣紛飛、舞態極妍
薄曉微光下靜悄地，飄揚的繁華隨著動作飛繞於身

月兔墊著爪稍舞蹈
吹著口哨，在群星間來回穿梭

水濺花揚，我奔跑著
追逐的明星，正轉啊、轉動著，恰似幼嫩的花蕾

「綻放吧、綻放吧！」向月娘祈禱，並為靜宓的月影淡施薄妝
「不明白、不明白呀！」唉聲嘆氣，始終無從知曉，渺小花蕾的蹤跡

因俯瞰而微渺的從雲間隙
綻放恰似花蕾的線香煙火，燃著甜美的夢

激起水沫、揚起火花
於此叩問的繁星，一張接著一張，反覆變換面貌

「綻放吧、綻放吧！」反覆迴旋，猶如稍縱即逝的輕巧舞女般
想念著、想念著的那個身影，與記憶形影交織，就這樣走吧！

舒展身姿、描繪形影，在此驕陽之前——
凜然地綻放了一朵，好完滿的花啊

綻放吧、綻放吧，於月娘身後哭泣的、宙海繁星的殘片
卻沒有注意到，躲著的兔兒也再度描起新月的身姿

「綻放吧、綻放吧！」向月娘祈禱，並為靜宓的月影淡施薄妝
「不明白、不明白呀！」唉聲嘆氣，始終無從知曉，渺小花蕾的蹤跡

「綻放吧！綻放啦！」風兒搖曳，為沉靜的丘壑淡施薄妝
木屐鳴響、口哨伴歌，凜冽綻放的是，那顆明潔絢爛之心

英文歌詞 / English Lyrics :
The outline of spring's deep dream
That had blurred way too much returns to me
When the flower petals chased after my moves,
Quiet under the dim twilight

Balancing on tiptoe, moon rabbits dance,
Whistling and flying through the stars

In a splash of color,
I begin chasing
A star spinning round,
Spinning round, a small flower bud

"Bloom, bloom!" I begged of the moon,
"And dress the gentle shadows in your light makeup."
But I never knew, never knew, augh! I give up!
I still don't know where this little flower bud will end up.

Looking down through the shrinking clouds of smoke,
A sparkler suddenly blossomed to life
In a blinding dream.

In a splash of color,
Sparks begin
And the strange stars
One after another, changed their faces

Bloom, bloom! Twirl right around
Like a ballerina for a fleeting moment
But I think, I think something's moving in the shadows
From behind my back, ah, run away!

The arc of shadow drawn
On the moon extends beyond the heat haze
And, it bloomed already! Into a round flower,

It bloomed, it bloomed! Fragments of stars
Cried on the other side of the moon and unnoticed to me,
The hidden rabbits continued
To draw an arc

"Bloom, bloom!" I begged of the moon
"And dress the gentle shadows in your light makeup."
But I never knew, never knew, augh! I give up!
I don't know these little flower buds,

But they bloom, they bloomed!
Blowing in the wind, dressing the gentle hill in light makeup
Their footsteps ring, whistling to one another
From their dignified, quietly beautiful hearts.

Aisho Nakajima “Love me for me”

“Love me for me” on Spotify : https://open.spotify.com/artist/73TJEwnZTYd2p0qRbn2Pi3
“Love me for me” on Apple Music : https://music.apple.com/us/artist/aisho-nakajima/1503461433


Aisho’s Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/aishonakajima/?hl=en
Aisho’s Twitter : https://twitter.com/aishooo74?lang=en


Written by Aisho Nakajima
Recorded/ Mixed by Aisho Nakajima
Produced by ELI
Mastering by Wax Alchemy


Lyrics -
Ohh to be young, dead inside Tokyo city
Holding my tears while I walk down the streets
Ohh Im jealous, you got what I need
Thinking, When will I love me for me

Come and f**k the sadness out of me
Broken hearted bloody bitch like me
Can’t even feel my heartbeat

Dancing in acid rain, do you still feel my pain?
Haunted, my past that I wish could erase

Ohh to be young, dead inside Tokyo city
Holding my tears while I walk down the streets
Ohh Im jealous, you got what I need
Thinking, When will I love me for me

Pretty little birds crying
All my angels dying
I used to let everyone walk over me

Everybody pulling out their phones
Who you gonna do it all for?
The love you give others, not choosing yourself

I hear intuition screaming out my name
Maybe I’m over thinking, devils I’m my head

Demons in mind overtaking
Or am I hallucinating?

All on my neck till it breaks
Something shifted in my brain

Ohh to be young, dead inside tokyo city
Holding my tears while I walk down the streets
Ohh Im jealous, you got what I need
Thinking, When will I love me for me

Had to lose myself to find myself
I Begged for help
“Burn in hell”
Word for word
Hated myself
Gasping for air

Acceptance
That’s all I wanted
Depression
Somebody stop it
A broken star
Wrecking ball
I know it’s hard
Now Time to go up

x2

Ohh to be young, dead inside Tokyo city
Holding my tears while I walk down the streets
Ohh Im jealous, you got what I need
Dreaming, When will I love me for me

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