【51歲了，看八字還有用嗎？】
At Age 51, Is Bazi Analysis Still Relevant?

曾經有人問過我類似以上的問題。

我的答案是：人生已過了一半。如果目前沒有您無法解決的難題，對於未來您也沒有什麼想要實現的夢想，不需要指導，那倒不如好好學佛，消業增福，為將來百年歸去時做好準備。

畢竟，無常和明天，不知哪個先到。

提供見證的女客人，年過半百，面對好些家庭問題。我們在今年二月過年前見面。

其中，讓她最頭痛的是與兒子之間的關係。兒子與她說話時，很容易不耐煩，也不聽她的勸告和教導，不像以前會聽完她講整句話。

許多母親遇到這樣的問題，會問我怎樣改善孩子的態度。

我的答案都是：先改變自己。

去改變任何人是很累的事情，也容易吃力不討好。在他的眼裡，會覺得你在逼他。可是，當你能夠改變自己的時候，你身上的磁場會隨之起變化。

人與人之間，喜歡和不喜歡，合與不合，說明了，就是五行的遊戲，磁場碰觸而產生的「火花」。

你的磁場與孩子的磁場不合，源自於你們八字的不合。

想擁有更好的親子關係，玄學上，可採取三種方法：改名、批命，和/或調居家風水。

個人磁場往正確的方向改進，你會發現很多本來不行的事情，突然就通了，不合的人，摩擦也減少了。

當然，如果兩人都願意改變，那就事半功倍了。

女客人說，孩子現在還會跟她開玩笑了。

我指點這位女客人，因為她八字所需，應該常去捐血。她說，2018年體檢報告顯示她有貧血。

可是，這八字不應該有貧血問題的。

我認為是她之前用錯五行，飲食習慣出了岔子。

她見了我後，照著我的話做了一個月，三月時，去做體檢。報告顯示一切正常，她可以捐血。

一個藥，不見得就能醫好所有的人，因為每個人的體質不一樣。一般人會以為喝紅棗茶能補血，所以有這方面的問題，就該多喝。

但在玄學上，這可不一定。對症下藥，在這裡就是要看客人八字而定。

年紀越大的客人，往往越固執，不容易改變自己的看法和作風。有些也因為以前已給不同的師父看過幾次命，更會固執己見。

這位女客人做得到，也真是命不該絕啊！哈～

偶爾，我會遇到客人，在諮詢時詢問關於他們父母的健康。

坦白說，與其東敲西打，如果父母願意，那你倒不如大方點出錢幫自己的父母看命。

真要改善父母的生活，我無法三言兩語就能交代清楚。這樣未免太敷衍你了，可我也不能只收看一個八字的收費卻變成看三個人呀～

客人便會問，孩子與父母，應該先看誰的八字？

一定是父母為先，因為沒有父母就不會有我們。

他們在人間的時間，隨著每一個生日，已逐漸減少。

百善孝為先，這點不要等到母親節才記得。

你真有善功德時，又何愁孩子不受教不成才呢？

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Someone once asked me the question above.

My answer: You have lived half your life. If there is no insurmountable issue at the present and you have no further ambition for the later years, it would be wise to focus on the Dharma diligently to eradicate your karma and prepare for your eventual passing.

After all, you cannot tell which will come first, tomorrow or death.

The female client who provided this testimonial is past 50 years of age and faced plenty family issues. The one which pained her the most is her relationship with her son. Her son is impatient when talking to her and does not heed her advice and teachings, unlike in the past when he would at least hear her finish her sentence.

Many mothers who faced the same dilemma would ask me for ways to improve the attitude of their children.

My answer to them all: Change yourself first.

To change another person is a tiring chore and often goes unappreciated. In the eyes of the other person, he would feel that you are forcing him. But when you can change yourself, the energy fields of your body will start to transform.

The dynamics in a relationship, simply put, is a game of the five elements and the chemistry reaction that arise when two energy fields come together.

The incompatibility in energy fields between you and your child stems from both of your Bazi.

From the Chinese Metaphysics viewpoint, there are three ways to improve the parent-child relationship: Change of the Chinese name, Bazi Analysis and/or alter the Feng Shui of your house.

As you change your own energy field in the positive direction, new paths will open up for problems seemingly hard to resolve and conflicts lessen with people whom you could not get along with.

Of course things would improve doubly quick if both parties are willing to change.

The female client told me that her child could even joke with her now.

I advised her, based on her Bazi, to donate blood regularly. She said a health examination in 2018 revealed that she was anaemic. But this Bazi should not have such a condition. I believe that was due to her using the wrong elements as well as her dietary habits.

She followed my advice for a month, and a health check in March showed that all was well and that she could donate blood.

One type of medicine does not necessarily work for everyone as all of us have different disposition. Most people would assume that drinking red dates tea improves anaemia.

But from the perspective of Chinese Metaphysics, this may not work well. The best cure is the one that is customized to the client’s Bazi.

Older clients tend to be more resistant and stubborn to change. Some clung onto their views so tightly due to their many Bazi analysis with different masters.

This client of mine managed to break the resistance to change. This shows that there’s still hope!

Sometimes I would get questions from clients during Bazi consultation asking about their parents’ health.

Honestly, rather than asking bits and pieces, be generous (if you can afford) and pay to have their Bazi read. I am unable to offer real improvements to your parents’ lives with sparse advice here and there. That would be trying to pull a fast one on you but I can’t be analysing 3 Bazi when you only paid for one.

The client will then ask who should be their priority for Bazi analysis: their child or their parents?

Parents. No two-way about this. Where would you be without them?

Their time in this world is dwindling as each birthday passes.

Filial piety is the foremost of all virtues. Don’t remember this only on Mother’s Day.

If you truly can garner merits from your filial piety virtues, why worry that your child will be disobedient and unable to make the mark?

為什麼我吃的素食是「全食物蔬食」，而不只是純素食而已呢？

首先，「全食物蔬食」（WFPB）指的是完整、未經加工的食物，也就是從土裡長出來的真食物：蔬菜、水果、全穀物、種子、堅果等。

我14年前由葷轉蛋奶素、11年前由蛋奶素轉純素，3年多前又開始吃全食物，主要有兩個原因：一，在營養學組織NutritionFacts.org工作，每天看各種有關全食物蔬食對健康益處的影片，很難不身體力行。二，其實我天生就不喜歡吃太過沈重、油膩、鹹或甜的食物，吃下去是一種很不好的體驗。

那我是無時無刻都這樣嗎？當然不了。😛 我家裡沒有油、糖或鹽，也不會買精緻穀物，所以在家做飯的時候確實是百分之百實踐全食物蔬食。要是外食，我還是不會吃炸物，也盡量避免白米、白麵條這類的，但對油、糖或鹽就沒有這麼挑惕了。要是很想吃個vegan甜甜圈或起司蛋糕時，我也不會克制自己。重點不是要時時刻刻完美，而是讓健康飲食成為習慣，然後盡力就行了。

每個人吃素的原因都不一樣。我14年前剛開始的時候，一點也不在意健康，甚至還覺得很驕傲（「看，我只在意動物，多高貴的理由」）。不過因為我總是希望不斷提升、拓展自我，在吃素吃了十多年後，更進一步吃全食物對我來說是個挺自然的選擇。吃全食物時，我感覺到自己更有活力，思路更清晰，並且差別最大的，大概就是我的皮膚了（一吃油炸馬上爆痘痘）。同時，看到許多吃素的人因為健康出問題又回去吃肉，但其實他們的問題跟吃素不吃素一點關係都沒有，而是以不健康的加工素食為食、沒有運動習慣，或是沒有正確補充維生素B12（曾經有素食者跟我說她不用補充B12，因為她有一顆對動物的愛心......我只能說我很無語）。

如果把環境也考慮進去的話，全食物是不太需要包裝的，就是蔬菜、水果這些。我平時訂的都是一個紙箱裝滿有機蔬菜直接送上門，連包裝紙袋都沒有，然後下次訂箱子他們再收回去。買堅果則是直接拿罐子到市場去秤重裝。而反觀素漢堡排、素雞塊這類的加工食品，卻幾乎都是購買時就裝在塑膠袋裡的。大自然不是什麼身外之物，我們就是大自然的延伸，我們的健康和地球的健康是息息相關的。要是連自己的健康都不在意，該怎麼守護地球的健康？如果有任何問題，歡迎在底下評論，或是關注NutritionFacts.org的YouTube頻道，影片幾乎都有中文字幕翻譯可以選：https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCddn8dUxYdgJz3Qr5mjADtA

p.s. 配圖是我去年底擔任北京的ChinaFit素食大會主持。

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Why am I mostly whole food plant-based (and not just vegan)?

First of all, “whole food plant-based” (WFPB) refers to foods that are unprocessed. So in other words, real foods that grow from the ground: fruits, vegetables, whole grains, seeds, nuts, etc.

I went mostly whole food plant-based three years ago for two reasons: 1) When you work for NutritionFacts.org and watch video after video about the health benefits of a WFPB diet, it’s hard not to walk the talk. 2) My body naturally doesn’t like foods that are too heavy, oily, salty, or sweet. It just doesn’t feel good to consume those foods.

Do I do it 100% all the time? Of course not! 😛 I don’t have oil, salt or sugar at home, and I don’t buy any refined grains. So when I cook at home, I’m 100% WFPB & SOS-free. But when I eat out, I’m more flexible with SOS. I still wouldn’t eat deep-fried foods even when I eat out, and avoid white rice or white noodles as much as I can. But when I crave a vegan donut or cheesecake, I also won’t stop myself. The point is not to do it perfectly all the time, but to make it a habit to eat healthy and just do the best you can.

People go vegan for different reasons. I didn’t care about health when I first started my vegetarian/vegan journey 14 years ago, and I was even proud of it. But I always strive to expand myself, so going WFPB seemed like a natural next step. When I eat clean, I see the difference in my level of energy, cognitive function, and most notably - my skin. I also think it’s a pity to see people who went vegan reverse back to eating meat because they encountered health issues that have nothing to do with being vegan or not, but are actually about eating healthy/real foods vs. processed junk, not supplementing correctly (B12, for example), or not maintaining an active lifestyle.

Taking the environment into consideration, unprocessed fruits and vegetables also don’t require much packaging, unlike vegan patties or nuggets that usually come wrapped in plastic. Nature is not something outside of us - we are nature, and our health is interconnected with the health of the planet. So feel free to reach out if you have any questions, or even better, follow NutritionFacts.org ❤️

支持前madam。

//她認為，如果警隊得一種聲音並不健康，「這個社會應該有不同聲音，應該要包容；不可以說加入警隊一定是藍，我自己都有獨立思考，唔通你做錯一樣嘢，我都要撐你咩？」這種想法，在社會中很合理，但在警隊裡已必是異數，她經常被指不理同事感受，不為大局著想，「你做錯就認，『哂冧』，你不要再說要『維護一些甚麼 staff relations（職員關係）』，我覺得好 bullshit。」她認為警察是服務市民，「如果他們（市民）都不喜歡你，你如何服務他們？」

梁皓妤的警察身分已是過去式，甚至連她曾主持的《警訊》節目，也是未來過來式。

她的現在式，看來市民頗為受落。梁皓妤的 instagram 現時有 6700 多粉絲，不時和她的愛犬亮相，宣揚保護動物意識，繼續追尋大意義。值得一提，她和警隊分手也和互聯網有關，一切源自她被發現 like 了一個「香港黑警」專頁，同時 unlike 警隊的專頁，「我為何要 unlike？我自己（知道）就可以，毋需要交代。」//

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In the prequel, the player will discover all the pasts of the Evil Nun and there will be 3 mutant chickens named Gummy, Roostel, and Mr. C will be the player 's enemies, unlike the chicken in Evil Nun 1. And there will be a completely different Chase Music that is an orchestra music with flashing murder-like sounds and violin vibes.

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