THE TRAP OF COMPARISON

I remember one time when I was in first grade, my mother told me (jokingly, of course, but it still left a wound in my tender 6-year-old heart):

“The neighbor’s daughter has better grades than you. Maybe I should trade you for her instead.”

At that moment, my mind formed a limiting belief: If others are better than me, there will be less love for me.

In a desperate effort to get love, I subconsciously followed that belief for more than 20 years, trying to be an overachiever, all the time keeping vigilant watch at others’ achievement.

I was successful on the outside, but on the inside, I was a wreck. Worse, I was deeply lonely. (It’s hard to make friends when you’re so scared of their success!)

The more we think these thoughts, the smaller we feel.

This thought pattern might have been developed since your childhood, if your parents, like mine, often compared you with others.

What I learned, the hard way was that when you try to be better than others, you forget to be what you’re best at: yourself.

𝐄𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐬 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐛𝐨𝐫𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐞 𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐮𝐬.

Some are lucky enough to identify it right away. Many take a bit longer to discover.
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A while back I wrote this song which featured @dudemakesbeats. This song always held a special place in my heart as it was written during a time when I was experiencing a lot of transitions in my life and I felt very lost about where music stood in my life.

Looking back, even though this was written as a love song, I may have subconsciously projected these feelings surrounding my passion for music into the lyrics.

Like a toxic love that you keep yearning for, I kept chasing the music dream even though it kept letting me down and wasn’t really a path that made logical sense.

I’m probably thinking too much into this though and this is just another cheesy love song haha 😆

Always grateful for the opportunity to release my creative work no matter what. Thank you to the @whetrecords team 🙏💜

Available to listen now on Spotify.

#originalsongs #singersongwriter #dancemusic #addictedtoyou

The Four agreements by
Don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills.

A book that reminds me by time to time that self-limiting agreements are what creates needless suffering.
To find personal joy, one must get rid of society-imposed and fear-based agreements that may subconsciously influence our behaviour and mindset.

Agreement 1:
Be Impeccable With Your Word
Agreement 2:
Don't Take Anything Personally
Agreement 3:
Don't Make Assumptions
Agreement 4:
Always Do Your Best

#yogawithjoey #yogawithjoeytang #yogaflow #yogahk #yogapractice #yogadaily #yogagirl #yogainspiration #yogalove #thefouragreements

There is a difference between just knowing the path and walking the path. For example, you may be walking the path, and not consciously know that you are walking the path.

Teachers may be able to bring these paths into the mental light in order to educate the masses, but you may already be walking the path without knowing it.

This is just another example of how you are empowered, and may not know it. Don't just willingly or subconsciously give your powers over to others. Empower yourself. Believe in your own power.

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The song in my intro and outro was done by Hyper Potions, and it is called Time Trials. You can check out the full song here: https://youtu.be/mnfNWe-HHsI.

Good morning~ Let's get ready for a casual day ? In this video, I'll also show you my simple morning skincare + recent everyday makeup ??‍♀️ super excited to be partnering with belif for this video, I love their products for my dry skin ? Check out their new Aqua Bomb Jelly Cleanser here: http://bit.ly/belif-jessica


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Hi! What time do you usually wake up? ⏰

My circadian rhythm's been kind of off since I moved to LA ?
Even though I naturally wake up at 8am, it's hard to fall asleep. Maybe it's because I film/edit in my room so I subconsciously see it as more of a workspace? Idk, but it's always so easy for me to revert to East Coast time when I'm visiting Florida or New York ? Weird, huh?

This is my typical morning routine for when I have afternoon plans heh ? If I need to be somewhere earlier, I try to wake up an hour earlier so I don't have to sacrifice any steps (even the cartoons)! I get really stressed if I have to rush and then I'm in a bad mood ? Cartoons are really therapeutic in a way ? idk the science BUT I just know I'm always happier after watching them so if you have extra time in the morning, try watching an episode or two! ?

'til next time!
♡ xo
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SKINCARE ⁺
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TOOLS ⁺
˖ Sigma 3DHD Blender Beauty Sponge http://bit.ly/2GOkuZA
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˖ Luxie Luminous Eye Set (Gold Mini Tapered Brush 121) http://bit.ly/2Wkf2XB
˖ Too Faced Mr. Right Powder Brush http://bit.ly/2zxsHNp
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WEARING ⁺
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˖ JINS Glasses (LRF-16S-057 Pink Azalea) http://bit.ly/2MplLuD
˖ Smocked Sleeveless Jumpsuit http://bit.ly/2KnNTvz (Red colorway is no longer available but it is available in dress form: http://bit.ly/2WcEg4W)
˖ Vagabond Youth Kandinsky Art Hoe Earrings http://bit.ly/2IktSDD (out of stock - similar: http://bit.ly/2Z4opra)

ETC ⁺
˖ World Market Headboard (out of stock - similar: http://bit.ly/2wwk9o4)
˖ HiMirror Smart Beauty Mirror http://bit.ly/312vjyR

NAILS ⁺
Jelly Gumdrop Gel Extensions by @nailjob ??
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Canon EOS Rebel T6i DSLR
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EF-S 18-55mm IS STM Kit Lens
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Natural daylight + Westcott Softbox 16 x 40” https://bhpho.to/2DRNMoV

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RODE Videomic Pro
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˖ EDITING PROGRAM
Final Cut Pro X 10.4.1


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