早安～分手的學問你掌握了嗎？
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💔 Until divorce do us part: how to end a marriage amicably
直到「離婚」將我們分開：如何心平氣和地結束婚姻？

💍 With divorce rates soaring internationally, separation has become even more emotionally and logistically difficult due to the pandemic.

隨著離婚率在全世界持續飆升，受到新冠肺炎疫情影響，使得分居在情感面和實際上都變得更加艱難。

👀 So, what impact has the pandemic had on our relationships?
Among the many things COVID-19 has made more difficult is divorce, both logistically due to shutdowns throughout the legal system, and emotionally. Many around the world are already feeling isolated, and undergoing a divorce can exacerbate those feelings.

疫情對人們的關係造成什麼衝擊？
受到新冠肺炎影響而滯礙難行的諸多事情中，其中一項就是離婚；無論是由於整個法律體系暫時關閉而導致實行困難，或是在情感上的衝擊。世界各地已有許多人感覺孤離，而離婚的過程可能加劇那些感受。

⛩ And yet, divorce is a reality for growing numbers of people around the world, a result of a perfect storm of pandemic-related conditions that may include increased stress due to poor health or unemployment and far more time spent together at home. In the US, divorce rates soared by more than 34 per cent in the first four months of the pandemic, with newlywed separations doubling to 20 per cent.

僅管如此，離婚對於世界越來越多的人來說已是現實，疫情又讓健康惡化、失業導致的壓力提升以及激增的在家相處時間讓離婚變得更常見。在美國，疫情開始盛行的初四個月內，離婚率就飆升了34%以上，新婚佳偶的分居率變成兩倍達到20%。

Lawyers in Italy have reported similar: an uptick of 30 per cent as couples emerged from lockdown. A spike in divorce in Japan, meanwhile, launched a new term on social media in that country: “Corona divorce.”

義大利的律師也有類似的情報：因封鎖而湧現辦理離婚的伴侶上升了 30%。 與此同時，日本也激增離婚率，該國的社交媒體上甚至出現了一個新名詞：「新冠離婚。」

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The way I feel
Melody, Lyrics & Harmonies : Lisa Hui Mixing & Arrangement : Awesome Studio

Lisa's creative mind soul:
When you are not recognized by your lover, but want to attract his attention to you, then you can only show your charm as much as you can.
The 18-years-old Lisa loves to sing, write, and dance. When Lisa wrote this song, she wanted to use a mix of Arabic style and Spanish style, hoping to show her love for her lover through exotic passionate dance music.
Will this song be appreciated by her lover?
Unfortunately, at that time, the lover had fallen in love with another girl, he did not have the responsibility of a man, and dared not to admit the relationship bravely. Also making fun of Lisa’s song for him, saying that Lisa’s lyrics are boring and funny, and do not make sense, and made fun of Lisa with a loud laughter.
In fact, Lisa is full of irony, but Lisa can't let go of that relationship. After all, she has been dating with him for 3 and a half years. Although the separations and combination of emotions made Lisa's heart frustrated as a teenager, true love is what she longs for. Lisa didn't want to give up at all.
Lisa still wrote a lot of love to this lover. From the bottom of her heart, She hope this lover can appreciate it. It's a pity that in the end they were all destined apart from each other.

This is the only English song on Lisa’s album.

The way I feel
作词作曲&和音：许静雯Lisa Hui 编曲混合：Awesome Studio

Lisa 的創作心靈：

當你不被你的愛人認可，卻想要引起他的對你注意力，那就只能盡你所能展示你魅力了吧。
只有18歲的Lisa愛唱歌，寫歌，跳舞，Lisa寫這首歌時候是想運用阿拉伯曲風與西班牙風格組成混合，希望藉着異國風情的熱情舞曲展示出她對愛人的那份熱愛。
這曲寫給她的愛人，他會欣賞嗎？
可惜那時候那位愛人已經愛上了另一位女生，而他卻沒男子漢的擔當，不敢勇敢的承認。還取笑Lisa 為他寫的歌，說Lisa寫的歌詞沒意思而且還很搞笑，哈哈大笑地取笑Lisa。其實對Lisa是滿諷刺的，只是Lisa 放不下那段感情，畢竟那時候已經拍拖3年半，雖然感情上的分分合合，讓Lisa心靈有重重的挫敗感，但Lisa 根本不想放棄。
Lisa還是把滿滿的愛意寫給這位愛人。 打從心底希望愛人能夠欣賞。只可惜最後都是有緣無分。

這也是Lisa 專輯裡面唯一的一首英文歌曲。

Video Lyrics made by toto

youtube: https://youtu.be/opsVQcTWat0
instagram: Lisahui94

每一段邂逅 都是另一段离别
我们在人来人往中
经历了缘起与缘灭
依然相信最后会有并肩

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Every encounter is another parting
Even after going thru lots of meetings and separations
We still believe that we will find the one who decide to stay alongside with us

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https://tipme.in.th/koonguych

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The way I feel
作词作曲&和音：许静雯Lisa Hui 编曲混合：Awesome Studio

Lisa 的創作心靈：

當你不被你的愛人認可，卻想要引起他的對你注意力，那就只能盡你所能展示你魅力了吧。
只有18歲的Lisa愛唱歌，寫歌，跳舞，Lisa寫這首歌時候是想運用阿拉伯曲風與西班牙風格組成混合，希望藉着異國風情的熱情舞曲展示出她對愛人的那份熱愛。
這曲寫給她的愛人，他會欣賞嗎？
可惜那時候那位愛人已經愛上了另一位女生，而他卻沒男子漢的擔當，不敢勇敢的承認。還取笑Lisa 為他寫的歌，說Lisa寫的歌詞沒意思而且還很搞笑，哈哈大笑地取笑Lisa。其實對Lisa是滿諷刺的，只是Lisa 放不下那段感情，畢竟那時候已經拍拖3年半，雖然感情上的分分合合，讓Lisa心靈有重重的挫敗感，但Lisa 根本不想放棄。
Lisa還是把滿滿的愛意寫給這位愛人。 打從心底希望愛人能夠欣賞。只可惜最後都是有緣無分。

這也是Lisa 專輯裡面唯一的一首英文歌曲。



The way I feel
Melody, Lyrics & Harmonies : Lisa Hui Mixing & Arrangement : Awesome Studio

Lisa's creative mind soul:
When you are not recognized by your lover, but want to attract his attention to you, then you can only show your charm as much as you can.
The 18-years-old Lisa loves to sing, write, and dance. When Lisa wrote this song, she wanted to use a mix of Arabic style and Spanish style, hoping to show her love for her lover through exotic passionate dance music.
Will this song be written to her lover?
Unfortunately, at that time, the lover had fallen in love with another girl, he did not have the responsibility of a man, and dared not to admit the relationship bravely. Also making fun of Lisa’s song for him, saying that Lisa’s lyrics are boring and funny, and do not make sense, and made fun of Lisa with a loud laughter.
In fact, Lisa is full of irony, but Lisa can't let go of that relationship. After all, she has been dating with him for 3 and a half years. Although the separations and combination of emotions made Lisa's heart frustrated as a teenager, true love is what she longs for. Lisa didn't want to give up at all.
Lisa still wrote a lot of love to this lover. From the bottom of her heart, She hope this lover can appreciate it. It's a pity that in the end they were all destined apart from each other.

This is the only English song on Lisa’s album.

สนับสนุนโดเนทช่วยเหลือ Koonguy คนนี้ได้ทาง :
https://tipme.in.th/koonguych

ติดตามข่าวสารเพิ่มเติมได้ที่แฟนเพจ : https://www.facebook.com/koonguychannel/