About Waves - an accidental EP I came up with about grief, when I was dealing with the sudden but terminal cancer and eventual death of my most beloved dog, Leif. I lost Leif to advanced lymphoma, and this is all I could do. Music, after all.

I don’t think I am able to perform these songs live. Maybe never. No one can ever tell you how long grief will last. As a matter of fact, no one should ever tell you how and when to feel. Take your time. Just remember, grief comes like waves, if you’re not standing on your feet, you might be swept away and never found again. In time, you might learn to let it become a part of you. You will learn to live again, with a whole new perspective. Or not.

I am sorry, you are all alone in feeling this, but you’re definitely not alone in this world.

Waves come and go. So does life.

Love lifts you up high, pain gives you weight to put your feet on the ground. You are only complete when you have truly experienced loss, but there’s no rush. In the meantime, may these songs give you some comfort, as they did to me.

Love,
Chet Lam

悼念的悲傷，會像潮水一樣來襲。

悼念就是愛。愛有多深，悼念就有多深。

這張有關接受死亡的專輯是一個意外。2021年6月，就在我知道只有八歲的小狗阿富患上末期淋巴癌的時候，我在音樂製作裏找到一點安慰與出口。

有多少心理準備以及理性分析，悲傷來的時候永遠會把你震撼，在受到巨大衝擊之後拾起碎片，你嘗試重新思考生命及生活。經驗不會對你有幫助，頂多只是讓你知道你自己有某些感覺神經，而每一次的體驗也是新鮮的；再多的意見和智慧都只是不設實際的雜音，世上沒有人可以告訴你怎樣感受，什麼方法才是對的，需要經歷多久… 這是一條很孤獨，而只能夠靠自己走的路。

更糟糕的是，它會用潮水的方式來襲，一下一下拍打你的心。我們不能阻止潮水的來去，唯一可以做的，就是感受，讓所有溫度濕度風雨陽光一一穿過你的身心，謙愻地活在這一刻。

給生命裏曾經失去過什麼的朋友，你並不是一個人。

一峰

‘p.s. I took this picture from the plane before landing in Miami few years ago.

#waves

［臨近周末互動遊戲😝😉］
下圖中的染色體異常會在哪一種血液疾病中出現？

❤️: 多發性骨髓瘤（multiple myeloma）
😆: 慢性淋巴性白血病（chronic lymphocytic leukaemia，簡稱CLL）
😮: 慢性骨髓性白血病（chronic myeloid leukaemia，簡稱CML）
😢: 急性骨髓性白血病（acute myeloid leukaemia，簡稱AML）
😡: 伯奇氏淋巴癌（Burkitt lymphoma）
👍🏻: 唔識留名/ 其他答案

We CAN’T WAIT, and we CAN CURE！
#915世界淋巴癌日 #WLAD2021
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正在治療淋巴癌的你，知道有這一個專業的 #淋巴癌攻略 Line聊天機器人嗎？
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參與開發這個「淋巴癌攻略」的成員之一
也是我們的 #血拾人 哦！
身為資深病人，特別了解在治療淋巴癌過程中
不論是患病徵兆、治療用藥、血液移植恢復過程
除了身體的狀況外，更有心情面的分享
#只有患者能理解其他患者
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如果你曾是淋巴癌的病友
或是還在治療ing往痊癒的路途中
也能分享自身經驗幫助其他人喔☺️
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不妨加入「淋巴癌攻略」Line好友試用看看，會很有幫助的！
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《 #淋巴癌攻略 》全程守護不迷航
✅Line：https://line.me/R/ti/p/%40487fofcd
💻電腦版：https://www.lymphoma-ecancer.org.tw
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#WorldLymphomaAwarenessDay
#BloodCancerAwareness
#lymphomasupport
#淋巴癌 #lymphoma

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終於完成化療+電療，叫做完晒治療康復啦！
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I Am My Father's Son is a film about love, family, and cancer. It explores what it means to be a husband and father through the lens of a son—all set during a year of unknown regarding health and the future. Features two original songs by my dad's high school band with my dad as guitarist.

Shot on an iPhone with an add-on anamorphic lens by Moment.

Filming, Recording and Editing - Forrest Ackerman
拍攝、錄製與編輯 - 陳霍越

Music Credit (In Order):
曲目表（按順序）：

Dad Playing Guitar
吉他演奏-爸爸

Hiraeth: Scott Buckley

Someone I Once Knew: Dad’s High School Band
《曾經很瞭解的人》：爸爸的高中樂團

Take Time to Live: Dad’s High School Band
《珍惜生命》：爸爸的高中樂團

Update: Dad's high school band mate passed away from Lymphoma this past week. (October 2020)