𝘽𝙡𝙤𝙤𝙙, 𝙎𝙬𝙚𝙖𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙏𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙨 🩸💦💧

To express without baby’s latch is really challenging. But I’m grateful to those who shared their tips, videos, and one particular nurse (Fazilah) in NICU who is taking care of our lil sweetheart. I wanted to have the lactation nurse to watch (me) if I’m doing it right bcs I wasn’t been able to yield excellent volume according to baby’s needs. But bcs the PIC was off, Fazilah agreed to help. She shared with me the technique and what works for her and most importantly, it’s very relaxing and not painful at all. ❤️

Initially I thought I was going to miss this chance (to harvest the colostrum) since baby was not with me and I wasn’t performing up to expectation. When I asked for guidance from the lactation nurse in my ward, all I rmber was how hard she squeeze my nipples n I was alr on the verge of crying. 😭 She told me this is the way to do and that’s the pain level I need to meet. 😵‍💫😵🤯🤬🥵😡 So I just did exactly what she said and for the first few days of “stimulation exercise”, I was in so much pain n misery. 🙇🏻‍♀️ It was hell of a torture 🧨💣🔪💥🔥and it makes me wonder why do mothers have to go through such suffering when the body were still recovering from the horrific labor pain; mentally and physically 🤒
But really, thanks God for sending us Fazilah just when we need it the most ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🩹💓

Bae visits the hospital daily. Already very popular among the guards and NICU staff 😅 He was always there to bring me things I need (and don’t need eg: sinful snacks) to make sure I have a pleasant stay. 🥰 He’ll push me on wheelchair all the way from my ward to baby’s at NICU. And we’ll both spend our quality time with our lil sweetheart 👶🏻. And you’re right, I don’t rmber the pain anymore when I see her, but if u ask if I’m ready for No.2, I can firmly tell you, I AM NOT LAH 😅😂🤣

I was ideally, expecting for natural birth VAB so I don’t risk for any complications or them touching my existing scars but 𝙄𝙏 𝘿𝙄𝘿𝙉’𝙏 𝙃𝘼𝙋𝙋𝙀𝙉.. CSEC on my midline scar with 100% epidural 💢

I was ideally, expecting for 10cm dilation, so I practiced an active lifestyle throughout pregnancy with hiking, swimming and walking but 𝙄𝙏 𝘿𝙄𝘿𝙉’𝙏 𝙃𝘼𝙋𝙋𝙀𝙉.. I have to endure 6 hours of contraction pain and labor still did not happen, hence, emergency C - SEC 🆘

I was ideally, expecting ok maybe if it end up with CSEC, it’ll be a fast and smooth surgery like cancer days and just recuperate at home for 2 weeks and I’ll be back on my feet again but 𝙄𝙏 𝘿𝙄𝘿𝙉’𝙏 𝙃𝘼𝙋𝙋𝙀𝙉.. I end up have to be readmitted due to infection and inflammation on my incision with on/off fever and was constantly in severe pain despite being prescribed pain killer 💊

I was ideally, expecting baby will be home with me right after birth but 𝙄𝙏 𝘿𝙄𝘿𝙉’𝙏 𝙃𝘼𝙋𝙋𝙀𝙉.. little did I expect, she’ll be admitted to NICU for Congenital Pneumonia and Jaundice (this is well aware bcs both of us are O+) 🩸

Yes, as I’m writing this, I’m back in the hospital (again) but feeling much better; 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓 not because of the 100 positive things that has happened. ⚠️ 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙗𝙘𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙊𝙉𝙀 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙞𝙩𝙚 99 𝙣𝙚𝙜𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙧𝙪𝙞𝙣 𝙞𝙩. ㊗️ This time, I’m referring to my colostrum harvesting! They’re all hand express 😜 I am not born strong but I choose to learn on how to be one. I know how tough pregnancy n motherhood journey can be but I choose to ride on it bcs that’s exactly what I wanted. 𝙄’𝙢 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖 𝙛𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙮. 👨‍👩‍👦 It’s definitely tough, and sometimes one might feels like giving up but I’m thankful n grateful to have a very supportive n understanding husband and fam. It makes the journey less lonely and more encouraging ❤️

Now I understand why we need to 𝙘𝙚𝙡𝙚𝙗𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙈𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧’𝙨 𝘿𝙖𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙞𝙪𝙢 𝙗𝙪𝙧𝙜𝙚𝙧 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙧𝙤𝙩𝙞 𝙠𝙤𝙨𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙁𝙖𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧’𝙨 𝘿𝙖𝙮 😂😂😂

P/S: Baby and Mummy will continue to be admitted until further notice 🚸

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EDD: 22 June 2021
Weight: 3.085kg
Length: 50.5cm

🍓𝙊𝙪𝙧 𝙗𝙖𝙗𝙮 𝙨𝙬𝙚𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙣 24 𝙅𝙪𝙣𝙚 2021 🍓

Yesterday was frantic! From induction to contraction to being sent to labour room with 4cm dilation to finally 5cm and that’s when my nightmare starts..

Doc broke the waterbag to induce labor.. Contraction came almost right away after that. I pre-requested for epidural but it didn’t came on time so I have to withstand the torturing pain from 9am all the way till almost 3pm (𝙗𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙣 𝙘𝙤𝙡𝙙 𝙨𝙬𝙚𝙖𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙬𝙤𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙘𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙮𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙩 🥴) In the meantime while waiting for the anaesthetic to arrive, I accepted the laughing gas and Pethidine jab. 𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘮𝘦, 𝘭𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘨𝘢𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭, 𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘱 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵, 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦! 🤬 Pethidine helps to calm me a little but because was too strong, I was just drowsy, can’t even fall asleep like how I did during the first time (first contraction before labour).

After many hours of waiting, dilation remains at 5cm and did not improve further, baby’s heartbeat seems slower (in distress), so doc said we can’t wait anymore and she suggested that we should proceed with emergency csec immediately. Signed some consentment form and straight we go into the Operating Theatre. Oh! Btw they called to inform my husband bout my condition too 💯

Did a swab test, result was negative. Given epidural, contraction is more bearable now. 😍 The medical team proceeded with the surgery while keeping me awake throughout the process. It didnt took long before I could hear her voice, it was swift! 𝙎𝙝𝙚’𝙨 𝙨𝙤 𝙗𝙚𝙖𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙛𝙪𝙡, 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙧𝙤𝙨𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙚𝙚𝙠 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙙𝙚𝙢𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙛𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚, 𝙄 𝙞𝙣𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙡𝙮 𝙛𝙚𝙡𝙡 𝙞𝙣 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙝𝙚𝙧 ❤️ 𝙎𝙝𝙚 𝙘𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙙 𝙨𝙤 𝙡𝙤𝙪𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙛𝙚𝙡𝙩. Nurse brought her so close to me that I only manage to notice her glittering eyes n long lashes, then brought her away while they stitch me up. I was trembling most of the time during surgery, probably bcs I was fasting since breakfast and the whole thing only ended in the late afternoon.. But I’m so glad everything turns out well and it’s over.. I’m currently recuperating and is still in the hospital for further observation..

𝘽𝙖𝙗𝙮 𝙞𝙨 𝙘𝙪𝙧𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙡𝙮 𝙞𝙣 𝙉𝙄𝘾𝙐 𝙙𝙪𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙡 𝙋𝙣𝙚𝙪𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙞𝙖 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙗𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙗𝙞𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙘 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙘𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙤𝙗𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖 𝙬𝙚𝙚𝙠 𝙤𝙧 𝙨𝙤. Nurse assured me this is a common diagnosis and recovery rate is very high. Told me not to worry and baby will be back in my arms soon 🥰 Hubby and I visited her earlier at the ward and nurse told us, she throw up on formula milk and told me, if possible, please try to pump to provide breast milk.. So that’s another mission for me to accomplish.. Jiayou mama, it’s a never ending learning journey.. Embrace it because it’s going to be worth it 🌈😘

𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙪𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙤𝙩𝙝 𝙝𝙪𝙗𝙗𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙄, 𝙬𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙖 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙙𝙪𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙛 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙤𝙬𝙣 😂 #𝙮𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙮𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙜 #jennslifeaftercancer

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Giving birth is by far the most incredible, unforgettable and rewarding experience of my life. Right, I should say experiences since I've gone through it not once but four times. Yet, each of them felt equally amazing, nerve-racking and not to mention, painful.

Because I chose to feel everything.

Yup, childbirth has got to be the most physically tormenting ordeal I've ever undergone yet if you ask me, I wouldn't have it any other way. Some people might assume "Why do you want to torture yourself?", "Why don't you want to enjoy giving birth to your baby?" or "You did it because you had no choice?". But the truth is, they are all mistaken. I did it because I wanted to and not because I had to. I did it not for anyone else but for myself. I did it because deep down, I knew I could.

In this post, I'm sharing with you more about why I chose to give birth naturally without epidural as well as some tips which might come in handy.

5月份回覆留言內容：9個月寶寶沒長牙BLW食物要保持軟軟的嗎、母乳結塊聞起來酸酸的壞了嗎、寶寶年齡多大才不用一樣一樣嘗試、寶寶剛開始學習杯子時喝奶該用奶瓶還是杯子、6個月寶寶能直接用吸管杯喝配方奶嗎、泵奶器泵奶會否破壞供需平衡/多餘初乳沒擠出來是否浪費/單邊餵奶後寶寶把RT吐出不吃可否直接入睡、吃完副食品用湯匙給水算練習喝水嗎、8個月寶寶只吃市售零食不吃家裡自製食物該怎麼辦、用開口杯餵水寶寶會伸出舌頭是否可以讓他自己練習手持、親餵時情緒低落是否為產後憂鬱、寶寶tummy time超過一小時會有不良影響嗎、寶寶開始吃輔食後如何辨別攢肚和便秘、4個月可以BLW嗎/看大人用餐具會否導致寶寶不用手吃/在戶外時可以混合傳統餵食嗎、9個月寶寶建議什麼玩具、寶寶用手肘撐起抬頭不用手掌正常嗎、7個月寶寶水杯需要每次消毒嗎、5個月多寶寶愛坐有影響嗎、加濕器會讓寶寶咳嗽嗎、為什麼不建議寶寶使用吹風機、1.5歲寶寶開始建議練習使用鴨嘴杯或吸管杯、乳頭護理後橄欖油需要擦拭掉嗎、2個月寶寶大便有酸味和黏液正常嗎、寶寶一直使用吸管杯需要在2歲前改為開口杯嗎、7-8個月寶寶該喝多少水/如何教寶寶用吸管喝水、寶寶從吸管吸水但吐出來不吞怎麼辦、上面鴨嘴下面吸管的學習杯可以用嗎、9個月寶寶晚上10點稅會太晚嗎、順產的3級會陰撕裂傷口3個月後還是流血疼痛怎麼辦、寶寶洗澡是否要貼臍帶、哺乳期可否拔智齒/麻藥和止痛藥會否影響母乳、半夜親餵後拍嗝導致清醒是否可以不拍嗝、不打減痛分娩epidural可以承受生產的痛嗎、平日裡如何探知寶寶是否缺鐵或缺維他命D、寶寶出生錯過肌膚接觸一周後還可以做嗎、發展指標早產兒該用矯正年齡計算嗎、只有晚上和半夜親餵是否會退奶、寶寶需要每天早上清水洗臉嗎、寶寶的爸爸甲殼類過敏該如何讓寶寶接觸蝦、寶寶1.5個月只會tummy time對其他沒興趣正常嗎、寶寶口腔護理如何減少排斥感、寶寶洗澡完畢一出水就哭的原因是什麼、哺乳期可以喝母奶或吃乳製品嗎、寶寶7個月醫生建議餵兩餐奶搭配兩餐酸奶可行嗎、寶寶10個月媽媽奶量衝不上來考慮退奶該怎麼做、寶寶天天擦乳液需要天天洗澡嗎、親餵會否可能過度餵養、讓寶寶早點睡過夜是否會提高新生兒猝死風險、4個月寶寶坐不穩可否讓寶寶趴著拿食物進嘴巴吃、換奶粉後出現綠大便是否適合、1歲寶寶需要枕頭嗎、乳盾一定需要戒除嗎/該怎麼戒除乳盾、2個月親餵不成功可以一直泵奶瓶餵嗎、為什麼親餵寶寶只要媽媽不要奶嘴或其他安撫道具、3個月寶寶開始親餵時發出嘖嘖聲該如何改善、寶寶頭1-2個月沒包包巾為什麼後來就不適合再用、BLW吃完需要拍嗝嗎、7.5個月寶寶只接受親餵和滴管餵奶該怎麼辦、7個月寶寶去奶奶家後回家不適應該怎麼辦、新生兒在睡前儀式時與”吃飽-護理-哄睡”重疊該叫醒來進行睡前儀式嗎、塞奶時如何讓寶寶倒掛在乳房硬塊上親餵、1周大寶寶睡覺時發出哼唧與小小哭聲並沒有醒來是正常的嗎/新生兒一定最少3小時餵奶一次嗎？📢 快來訂閱我的頻道：http://bit.ly/2kttyum

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My Birth Story | Kena cucuk dengan JARUM GERGASI!

Kena cucuk dengan jarum gergasi untuk epidural ni hanya tuan badan saja yang tahu. So, Aisyah akan cerita my birth story supaya korang lebih faham tentang epidural dan moga bermanfaat untuk bakal ibu sekalian yang tengah pregnant!

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DONA國際認證分娩陪產暨產後照護DOULA
美國紅十字會認證成人嬰幼兒急救、心肺復甦術、自動電擊器講師

Epidural Anesthesia Image：由 BruceBlaus - 自己的作品, CC BY-SA 4.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=44921905

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