Anger, aggression and bitterness are like thieves in the night who steal our ability to love and care. Is it possible to turn that negativity around and chill out so we can wish our abuser well? This may sound challenging or even absurd, but it can make life's difficulties far more tolerable.

🌞 Recognize no one harms another unless they are in pain themselves. : Ever noticed how, when you're in a good mood, it's hard for you to harm or hurt anything? But when you are in bad mood, you are more impulsive.

🌞 No one can hurt you unless you let them: When someone hurts us, we are inadvertently letting them have an emotional hold over us. Instead, if someone yells at you, let them scream; it makes them happy!

🌞 Respect yourself enough that you want to feel good: Don't respond to them with negativity, turn it around within yourself and began to wish them well.

🌞 Consider how you may have contributed to the situation:  It's all too easy to point fingers and blame the perpetrator, but no difficulty is entirely one-sided. So contemplate your piece in the dialogue or what you may have done to add fuel to the fire.

🌞 Extend kindness: That doesn't mean you're like a doormat that lets others trample all over you while you lie there and take it. But it does mean letting go of negativity sooner than you might have done before so that you can replace it with compassion.

🌞 Meditate: Meditation takes the heat out of things and helps you cool off, so you don't overreact. A daily practice we use focuses on a person we may have difficulty with or have a problem with us. We hold them in our hearts and say: "May you be well! May you be happy! May all things go well for you!"

Been there, done that and I know by first-hand experience that reacting to hate and bitterness is only allowing yourself to feel bad for something you didn't do (in most cases). The best thing you can do is put yourself out of the drama and be at peace.  

What do you do when someone mistreats or angers you? Comment below. 

#thegiftofgiving #peacefulvibes #becompassionate #personalgrowthjourney #socialmediainfluencer #healingthroughwords #sharminjeet

We survived 4 days of HBL, and today is also the start of PSLE. 💪

This time round, I never set up any schedule for the girls mainly because I wasn't very ready and since it's only 10 days 说长不长，说短不短. I have so much things not settle yet so I decided to let nature take its course. 🛶 船到桥头自然直。

Day time was pretty manageable, because the girls are busy with online work and homework. I prepare their snacks earlier which I shared on my IGS, or u can swipe left to see.

I started this in May which I shared on my blog (link in bio). Starting, they do not know how to control and finish the snacks before the "school" ends. Too bad no replenish. 😝
After awhile they get a hang of it and don't bother me about snacks, hungry etc.

They only keep calling me for IT stuff (no sound, no screen, change backgrounc) which is getting on my nerves especially when I'm trying to listen to my lecturer talking. 👹

It's not easy for us parents, it's also not easy for the kids.. although it seems like they are enjoying.. but occasionally they miss their friends, the social life they have and their emotions let out channel is greatly affected. Plus the uncertainty for those who are preparing for exam.

Sometimes not having a schedule, letting ourselves to relax awhile, it's good for our mental health.

Not sure how long this "one step forward, 2 steps back" restrictions will last.. 😅 it's good to rethink by changing our mindset so we can handle this pandemic better.

All the best to those who have kids doing PSLE! And may we all stay positive and love. 🥰

Perfection is not just about control ; it's also about letting go .
Cheers 🍷

#malaysia#kualalumpur#asian

Listen and download on your favorite platform♡
https://lol-JP.lnk.to/honoka-futureID

Honoka is a member of the Japanese dance and vocal group“lol -エルオーエル-”.
This song was produced by KM, one of the most talented producers in Japan today.
The song is about love that hasn’t been erased from memories yet.
This piece is about an important love and the feelings that you can’t forget even though you know that you have to move on because it’s for you and your future.
This work carries a message that only a woman can send to the worldview of Alternative Pop.

◆Official web site
http://avex.jp/lol/

◆YouTube
lol -エルオーエル-Official Channel：https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTAs...
Playlist：https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list...

◆Twitter
honoka：https://twitter.com/lol_honoka
lol-エルオーエル-：https://twitter.com/lol_avex

◆Instagram
lol-エルオーエル-：https://www.instagram.com/lol_official/
honoka：https://www.instagram.com/honoka_lol/

◆TikTok
https://www.tiktok.com/@lol_avex


Produced by KM
Music & Lyrics : KM & Lil'Leise But Gold

Music Video Credits
Director : Nickey Rourke
Producer : Kento Shinozaki
Production : 蔵屋
Stylist : Keita Uchida
Costume : SUPPLIER
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Lyrics♡

Now remember, Falling Falling is inevitable
Going Going I wanna start walking
Never ever stop, a big 1step
Future is mine
I remember you
Sorry
I didn’t hear that
Lonely, I want to forget just that day, big 1step
Future is mine

1.2.3 call, not answering my phone
4.5.6 move out from your room, change into a dress, redraw the rouge, pressing down my temples
Narrowing my eyes. Do you like pure girls wearing fur? Unfortunately, I don’t have it in me to balance the scales of Love & Money. After I lose and realize, I can’t do anything about it later.

Memories still stacked not erasable
I miss you but I can’t hate you. You are my special. Frustrated feelings
I’m in love, I still hear you

Now remember, falling falling is inevitable
Going Going I wanna start walking
Never ever stop, a big 1step
Future is mine
I remember you
Sorry
I didn’t hear that
Lonely, I want to forget just that day, big 1step
Future is mine

A sunny sky
Wobbly and
Soft determination, cloudy vision, dragging an umbrella that I don’t even use.
The heart flies away. Thoughts of that day, pretend to not know. Falling tears thinking that I might have forgotten something.
One after another, memories become glorified, I hear voice from the heavens saying, stop doing that.
A gulf that cannot be filled even if I pick up all the love and open doors. Sadness is transparent, I feel like I’ve lost my smile. I can’t go back to that place.
I’m sure someday, the memories of my feelings will melt, far and far away.
Soar high, I’m letting the wind carry my body and mind
Memories still stacked not erasable
I miss you but I can’t hate you. You are my special, frustrated feelings
I’m in love, I still hear you

Now remember, falling falling is inevitable
Going Going I wanna start walking
Never ever stop, a big 1step
Future is mine
I remember you
Sorry
I didn’t hear that
Lonely, I want to forget just that day, big 1step
Future is mine

這是"秘密"導師群之一的Hale Dwoskin製作的影片Letting Go

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O~M~G~！
作夢也沒想過有一天蔡健雅會上我的節目！
更想不到的是...
Tanya竟然看過我的《冷門好歌與廢歌》！

誠實型YouTuber X 創作型金曲歌后
// 首 度 雲 端 面 對 面 //
十年之後，回到創作之初
22分鐘帶你深訪蔡健雅神遊系新作《DEPART》

▎沒有「他」的義氣相挺，〈Bluebirds〉直接難產！
▎把〈Breakdown〉丟給小寒填詞的真相居然是...？
▎周耀輝寫〈Into The Wild〉一改再改，只為這「金句」！
▎蔡健雅自曝：其實〈讓浪漫作主〉並不是情歌！？
▎超快寫完〈Om Tara〉竟是被無法解釋的謎之音附身？

#蔡健雅 #DEPART #片尾有彩蛋喔

【 Tanya 蔡健雅主題系列 】
🎈吉米哥X蔡健雅《DEPART》深度訪談：https://youtu.be/S3rnASp_WTk
🎈蔡健雅的粉絲音樂故事：https://youtu.be/GFSGUJz2zx8
🎈你不知道的10首蔡健雅冷門創作曲：https://youtu.be/m_HDTDX0uz4
🎈蔡健雅歷年專輯冷門好歌與廢歌：https://youtu.be/-i0cubLciS8

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👉Credits:
《DEPART》：
〈Bluebirds〉
〈Breakdown〉
〈Into The Wild feat.阿雲嘎〉
〈出走〉
〈那些小事情〉
〈舊情歌〉
〈全部的所有〉
〈Photographs feat.Carla Bruni〉
〈讓浪漫作主〉
〈Om Tara〉

〈我要給世界最悠長的濕吻〉〈遺書〉《我要給世界最悠長的濕吻》
〈異類的同類〉《失語者》
〈天使與魔鬼的對話〉〈十萬毫升淚水〉《天使與魔鬼的對話》
〈Letting Go〉〈舊行李〉《說到愛》
〈拋物線〉《若你碰到他》
〈空白格〉《Goodbye & Hello》
〈精彩〉《陌生人》
〈多少〉《上五樓的快活》by 陳奕迅

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