Repost this from a genuine friend @tanjad7 and while the world has abusively user the word “love”, “listening” is a more proper way to interpret “love...
Repost this from a genuine friend @tanjad7 and while the world has abusively user the word “love”, “listening” is a more proper way to interpret “love”.
When you truly listen to someone, listen to not only what they say, but also listen to their tone, their body gesture, their emotions, you have no space to judge, to comment, to react and to advise.
Be aware that giving advice may not be the best idea to a friend who actually needs just space, to recover, to make clear of their mind or to stand up from falling down. Apart from some situations, I do believe everyone has sufficient capacity to help themselves if they are sober. Listening is where love begins.
當世界都濫用「愛」這個字,「聆聽」是一個更適合的方法去詮釋「愛」。
當你真正聆聽別人,不止聆聽他們說甚麼,還有他們的語氣、身體語言、情緒,這根本沒有空間容得下批評、反應或建議。在給予建議的時候要很小心,有時這不是一個最好的方法,可能別人只需要空間去修復、去清晰腦筋、在跌倒後站起來;除了某些情況,我相信每人其實有足夠能力去幫助自己解決問題,只要他們清醒自己在做什麼。用心聆聽一個人,是愛的開始。
#listening #holdspace #love #thoughts #nonjudgmental #truelove
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<3 brim (n. 邊緣;(v.) 滿溢
比:beam (n.) 橫樑;光線
<3 semblance (n.) 外觀,相似
<3 architecture (n.) 建築
<3 undulate (v.) (呈波浪狀)起伏
<3 facade (n.) 表面;外觀
<3 element (n.) 元素
衍:elementary (a.) 基礎的
<3 stairwell (n.) 梯井
<3 ventilation (n.) 通風
字根:vent-: wind (e.g. venthole, ventilator...)
片:give vent to N 發洩(負面情緒)
<3 shaft (n.) 通風井
比:shift (v.) 快速變換;(n.) 轉換;輪班
<3 chimney (n.) 煙囪
<3 dynamic (a.) 動力的;有活力的
衍:dynamite (n.) 炸藥
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衍:interpret (v.) 詮釋/ interpreter (n.) 口譯員
<3 tile (n.) 磁磚
<3 shard (n.) 瓷器碎片
<3 marble (n.) 大理石;彈珠
比:marvel (v.) 對...感到驚訝/讚嘆
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<3 facility (n.) (公共)設施
<3 catenary (n.) 鏈狀物
比:category (n.) 類別;種類
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片:be on exhibition 展出中
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片:dedicate oneself to N/Ving 獻身於.../ be dedicated to N/Ving 獻給...
<3 insight (n.) 洞察力(+ into N)
<3 distinctive (a.) 獨特的
比:distinct (a.) 不同的
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<3 fundamental (a.) 基礎的
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字根:-spect: look, watch (e.g. inspect, circumspect, retrospect, suspect...)
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