【玳瑚師父佛學論】 《相聚與分離皆是緣》
Gatherings & Farewells Are Just Affinity At Play (English)

有首歌的歌詞，相當有意思，特恭錄之以勉勵大家，早日看清這「緣」字，打開心門讓陽光照進來，雨過天晴，清清朗朗。歌中唱到：別管以後將如何結束，至少我們曾經相聚過。吾認為這兩句歌詞，實足以撫平親朋戚友的「離去」，以及夫妻與情侶，緣盡分離的內心創傷。利益眾生的方法，就是佛法。這首歌的作詞人，在不知不覺中，也就行了「菩提」。大家不妨仿效之，創作一首解壓的歌曲，比如，當我們同在一起，真快樂無比.......

生離死別，是世間的眾苦之一。吾，玳瑚師父，早已「領教」過這一苦。那是不是從今以後，吾再也不會經歷這種苦呢？答案是，不是的。我們祇要一天還有世緣，依然還是會碰到這種苦。就拿吾來說吧！時至今日，吾也還不是得飽受徒弟與學生的叛離。這其實也是一種「生離死別」啊！走過某間咖啡屋，走過某間餐館，走過某個地方，似乎有隻形影不離的榔頭，欲悄悄地敲痛吾的心，痛苦一般可見。但還好，吾是一位實修的行者，除去七情六欲，是吾一生的功課。傷過、痛過、哭過，更能引領廣大眾生，邁進康莊大道。

妳你與三兩好友，正想合資做生意，什麼時候開業，什麼時候結業，在妳你們的八字裡，已有「伏藏」的密碼。當中當然不祇這些八字裡的「伏藏」，亦含蓋身體的健康指數，富貴與貧賤，丁貴與否，夫妻有否百夜恩，等等。那為何一個人的八字能夠「顯示」這麼多的資訊呢？有句成語說得極是，那就是：若要人不知，除非己莫為。我們所做的一切，就是一因子，因緣俱足下，就成了果。

在真正學佛人的眼裡，來討債的也好，來報恩的也好，善緣也好，逆緣也罷！隨她他來，隨她他去，這樣心才能普空寂，一切的因因果果，亦才能停止。心即是明鏡台，此時就如《金剛經》裡的無我相、無人相、無眾生相、無壽者相，一切明明白白，正如大日照破無明。但，現今的妳你，必需要有相聚與分離皆是緣的基礎心念。

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There is a verse in a song which I find particularly meaningful, and I would like to share it with everyone as a form of encouragement. I hope you will finally see clearly the true meaning of affinity and open up your heart to let in the rays of the sun, forming a clarity as clear and bright as the after-rain. In the song, one verse reads, "It does not matter how it might end in the future, at least we were together once." In my opinion, this verse is fully capable of soothing any grief and hurt from the departure of a family member or friend, as well as the emotional pain and sorrow from the breakup of a marriage or relationship. The Dharma is present in all things beneficial for the sentient beings. The lyricist of this song has inadvertently performed a deed of compassion. Everyone can learn from him, and compose similar songs that relieve sufferings. For example, "When we get together, how merry we all are..."

Separation between loved ones in life or death is one of the sufferings for all sentient beings. Master Dai Hu has long experienced this suffering. Does it mean that from now on, I am not going to live through this suffering again? The answer is NO. As long as we are still connected by affinity to this world, we are bound to encounter this suffering. Take myself for example, I had to live through the agony of the betrayal of disciples and students. This is also a kind of separation suffering! Walking past a certain coffee house, a certain restaurant, a certain place, there seemed to be an invisible hammer hitting my heart silently and painfully. Fortunately, I am a true practitioner, with a lifetime mission to rid myself of the seven emotions and six desires. After the hurt, pain and tears, I am more equipped to lead all sentient beings and forge ahead, onto the glorious Path.

When you and a couple of friends strike upon a new business idea, the key to the crucial questions of when to start the business, when to exit, etc, are already hidden in the birth charts of your partners and yourself. Of course, there are more hidden information in a birth chart: indicators concerning your health, wealth, descendants, marriage, etc. Why is it possible that a birth chart can reveal so much about oneself? I would like to share a well-said Chinese saying, "The best way to hide a misdeed is not to commit it." Our every action is like a planting a seed which, under adequate conditions, shall ripen into the fruit.

In the eyes of a true Buddhist practitioner, it makes no difference if a karmic debtor or a karmic benefactor appears, be it a kindred affinity or a difficult one, let it all rest! They can come and go as they like. Only in this state of mind can the mind be unbound and unattached. Only this enlightened state can put an end to the unrelenting causes and effects. When enlightened, your heart is like a mirror, as put forth in the Diamond Sutra, that do not abide in the notion of self, person, sentient being and life span. Everything becomes crystal clear, like the rays of the Sun that have fully penetrated the darkness of ignorance. But at this moment in time, you must have this basic foundation to realise that all gatherings and farewells are just but affinity.

In the eyes of a true Buddhist practitioner, it makes no difference if a karmic debtor or a karmic benefactor appears. Be it a kindred affinity or a difficult one, let it all rest! They shall come and go as they like. Only in this state of mind can the mind be unbound and unattached. Only this enlightened state can put an end to the unrelenting causes and effects. When enlightened, your heart is like a mirror, as put forth in the Diamond Sutra, that does not abide in the notion of self, person, sentient being and life span. Everything becomes crystal clear, like the rays of the Sun that have fully penetrated the darkness of ignorance. But at this moment in time, you must have this basic understanding that all gatherings and farewells are just affinity at play.

www.masterdaihu.com/gatherings-farewells-are-just-affinity-at-play/

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曲：胖胖JerrySung、ZacRao、CJ林尾
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古屋探索我和你們都一樣
但皆露了真相 漸漸一切都遺忘
樓上或地下這44個地方
當預兆開始作祟
和伙伴開始做對
實現死靈夢想 tonight ima kill em all
能阻止我的只有峽谷塔樓或點火
但翻到28我又化身那Demon Lord
when u got no ring打敗也只能夠震攝我
im tha Goat of ghost
i gon break ur shield
管你怎麼roll 或怎麼躲 都無法將我打敗或逃脫
蜘蛛 殭屍 女巫 mummy 傑克 德古拉 或銜尾蛇頭
im the one who betray yall
勝算你沒有 酒窖沒美酒 叛徒沒對手
Betrayal at House on the Hill
im sorry 我已經和惡魔make a deal

月希：
山中的豪宅 你不知道好壞
英雄或叛徒 其中一方被淘汰
當走進這詭屋 已迷失了歸途
當蝙蝠在飛舞 拿起手中武器揮舞
被怪物追逐 已沒有退路
當 每走一步都得仔細備註
開始作祟 死亡只能退出
當彼此後背 找到我們歸途

偷米：
我們歸途 噴著spray 把那些藤蔓給擊退
相似的鬼魅 mirror match they tryna flesh ur flesh
攻其不備 無怨無悔 把那些垃圾給全部擊潰
不管流汗 還是流血 都好過落敗後後悔流淚
just roll the dice even if pay the price
50種劇情你難免總會出意外
當英雄要勇敢大不了提早離開
英雄到來殺死叛徒早已不奇怪 快拿起來
聖符 或是 crystal ball 書本或是那斧頭
審判或是當戰士 先知或是那法師
當那雕像驅動後 為了世界而戰鬥
Betrayal at House on the Hill
we r real hero we so pro
把真相揭露的每個動作就是那麼驚心動魄
愛好者眾多 你不愛沒關係可以買來送我
月偷虧 這波play 希望能對口味 山中小屋 這推薦絕對不會收回
(來到)山中的豪宅 (你們)不知道好壞
(管他)英雄或叛徒 (其中)一方被淘汰

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Running With The Wolves LYRICS

Go row the boat to safer grounds
But don't you know we're stronger now
My heart still beats and my skin still feels
My lungs still breathe, my mind still fears

But we're running out of time
Oh, all the echoes in my mind cry

There's blood on your lies
The sky's open wide
There is nowhere for you to hide
The hunter's moon is shining

[Chorus:]
I'm running with the wolves tonight
I'm running with the wolves
I'm running with the wolves tonight
I'm running with the wolves

I'm running with the

Trick or treat, what would it be?
I walk alone, I'm everything
My ears can hear and my mouth can speak
My spirit talks, I know my soul believes

But we're running out of time
Oh, all the echoes in my mind cry

There's blood on your lies
The sky's open wide
There is nowhere for you to hide
The hunter's moon is shining

[Chorus 2x]

It's been cause betrayal in hearts
They can in dream tonight deceives us
A million voices, silent dreams
Where hope is left so incomplete

I'm running with the...
I'm running with the wolves
I'm running with the...
I'm running with the...
I'm running with the...
I'm running with the wolves

[Chorus 2x]

I'm running with the...

Relationships are never easy, and ending them is even more strenuous. That's exactly what this song is about. On one hand you want to move on. You want to forget about the pain and betrayal, as well as escape the emptiness that haunts you in a lonely bed at night. At the same time, memories of how great things used to be just don't allow it. It's the cross-contamination of these heart-wrenching emotions that torment us to point where we can give up on love altogether. We try to fill the gaps with makeshift lovers and alcohol, but of course--it's not that easy.

談戀愛總是談何容易，更別說分手了，此首歌的內容正是關於這個問題。分手後我們想往前走，忘掉痛苦和背叛的感覺，逃避每天晚上獨自睡覺時感受到的失落，然而與此同時，以往美好的記憶卻阻止我們。這些情緒混在一起時會造成我們非常的煩惱，甚至令有些人放棄談戀愛，避免感到憂鬱。我們為了想開，而用買醉，去找新的情人這類的方法來治療，但是解決此困境談何容易。

Written by: Dallas Waldo
Performed by: Dallas Waldo & Eunice Png
Audio Recording: Smooth Studio Taipei
Production: Fly on the Waltz
Engineering: Andrew Salim
Video Script: Dallas Waldo and Magali-Brun Okroglic
Filming and Visual Editing: Heidi Films
Lead Acting Roles: Dallas Waldo, Eunice Png，Helen Sharp & Lee Shih-Chun

Dallas Waldo FB: www.facebook.com/dallaswaldo
Eunice Png FB: www.facebook.com/eunicepngmusic

Special thanks to:
Revolver Bar
Sappho Lounge
樂遊旅行Taxi Company
All the extras who made this video possible

歌詞:

妳在哪，妳在哪， 妳在哪，girl？
你知道我在這，我在這，我在這，girl
我聽說你傳簡訊像射飛鏢
可是這次我不會上妳的當
你在哪，你在哪， 你在哪，girl？
你知道我在這，我在這，我在這，girl
我聽說妳換愛人像換鞋子
但是打折的跟LV的穿起來不一樣

我告訴我自己需要想開
於是我在把這個嬌媚金髮妹
在這裡賣的酒不便宜，低音太吵了
人群中都沒有可跳脫的人物
襯衫都炸開，裙子短到爆
馬子的身材像我的褲袋緊
真的－我為了省櫃台小費，要在外面排隊時忍受寒冷
但這件事情，我現在不需跟她說
一杯，兩杯，蘭姆酒，眼睛佈滿血絲
她看我時候，意圖不軌
突然妳打給我，喚起我的記憶
妳為何這樣？我試著想跨越

你知道這件事情談何容易
你知道我希望變得簡單
我受不了這個感覺
我再也不要愛上別人了
我沒感覺過那麼安全
我沒有這樣被背叛過
我沒感覺過那麼開心
我再也不要愛上別人了

Baby, 我想妳
我也想你
我們應該自由發揮
我們之間存在一道藩籬
可是它不是抗滲的
我們應該自由發揮

你知道這件事情談何容易
你知道我希望變得簡單
我受不了這個感覺
我再也不要愛上別人了
我沒感覺過那麼安全
我沒有這樣被背叛過
我沒感覺過那麼開心
我再也不要愛上別人了
跟上週一樣，酒吧關店時
使我想想妳穿著是如何
我希望妳的穿著沒有妳傳的簡訊那麼混亂
妳的氣味一定殘留著伏特加蔓越莓的味道
我獨自坐計程車回家時覺得更空虛
以往若此時妳不在我身邊，我就會打給妳
這是曾經－過往塵事－心已改變了
最近再次與害我們分手的魔鬼調情
妳有男友，我則把到妹
且若她們想與我交往，我藉故妳來拒絕
如 ："對不起，我曾經試過了，這次要穩健一點"
果然她們都買單，就像瑞士巧克力捲
老實說，她們根本沒有機會
且我在親她們的時候，都在想妳
終究我受夠了，除非妳下定決心
否則不要再打給我啦！

你知道這件事情談何容易
你知道我希望變得簡單
我受不了這個感覺
我再也不要愛上別人了
我沒感覺過那麼安全
我沒有這樣被背叛過
我沒感覺過那麼開心
我再也不要愛上別人了