When people talk bad and treat others badly, they are projecting their negative behaviour, insensitivity and cruelty because they have something wrong with them. It's a reflection of their unhappiness, insecurity and inadequacy in their life.

Dealing with negative and toxic people is common in our lives, it can be our friends, colleagues, family members and random people or strangers who come to you when they need something or trying to get to know you.

If a person behaving negatively, disrespectful, disregard feelings, ignore boundaries and continue to talk and treat you in a harmful or hateful way, let these people go. Some people are evil, hateful, spiteful, sneaky and try to use people for their benefit.

Some people stand up to bad behaviour and choose to do nothing about it. Some people behaviours are one of the reasons which may constitute why animals are far better than humans.

For me, I may be nice and I treat people to the best I could. But if you continue to disrespect, use, rude, manipulative, envious, vengeful, cynical, bully, fake and all the negativity and cruel behaviour, I will not tolerate it. There are no rooms or vacancies for these people in my life.

I'm not naive, I know things, I know what I want and I only respect people who are total genuine with me. If you need help, do it properly. If you want to talk or ask things, do it nicely. Never assume. People's life is not your business. Always think then say and act accordingly. Behave appropriately. Be mindful. Change for the better.

If you are behaving negatively because you were once destroyed, stop destroying other people just because you want them to feel the same. Change your behaviour, be more matured, find wisdom and peace.

To those people who have handled many people in their walks of life, they are people who are willing to change and they are people who refuse and don't want to change for betterment. Truth be told, you can't change everybody. You can't expect everyone to be kind.

Time is limited. If we are still breathing, we still can fix what's wrong and improve our behaviour and quality of life.

Have some respect for yourself to become a better person.

Be Who You Are, Not What Others Want You To Be!❤

Why are you single? When are you going to get married? When are you having kids? Why you don't have kids? Why is she/he divorced? What happened to them? Why are they like that? Why and why and why people like to ask these insensitive questions, being prejudice, stereotyping, speculates, gossips, and make inappropriate judgments.

How can you ask something that someone can't 100% control, just like death? Some things are unknown, it's like asking, when are you going to die? It's common sense. If you don't know this answer, means you won't know the exact why for such questions.

When someone is single by choice or it's not just the right time for them, let it be. So what if that person wants to be or will be single forever? It may be better for the person than being with the wrong partner for the rest of the person's life. You don't meddle with God's plan or even someone's choices. You can't force people to get into relationships, what's more marriage. If it is forced, how can a marriage be happy and whole? Love is a huge topic. Again it's not just about relationships and marriage.

People should not pretend to be stupid, play dumb, needy, spoiled, or fake just to attract/be with a life partner. Women and men should have their own intelligence, personality, independence, and truthfulness in life. We want to be real and genuine, and if someone wants us to be part of their life, it's better for them to know the real us from the get-go. Not presenting a false front.

A healthy relationship should be two individuals who love and care for each other, support, motivate, respect, be kind, honest, loyal, help, guide, communicate well, listen and give the very best to each other, by also being the best version of themselves. Not one person should be superior to the other or vice versa. If you feel forced and put yourself down for another person, you are probably in the wrong relationship.

Put aside status, education level, salary, or position in career, a partner and a healthy relationship should be side by side, be supportive, help each other, understand each other strengths and weaknesses, able to give and take/compromise, and open to learning from each other when it comes to marriage or any relationship.

A woman's or man's characteristics for example being soft or strong, and men prefer soft/more feminine women, and women who are less intelligent/educated than them, should not be generalized. Some men admire women who are intelligent/educated, strong, and independent and women have their preferences too. Different people are attracted to different traits. No one size fits all.

No one should pretend to be less than she/he is for the opposite partner to feel desirable or dominant. If a person desperately and constantly trying to boost their ego, be dominant or prove power especially in a relationship, this may lead to negative behavioral patterns and impacts such as emotional instability, harassment, abuse, bullying, verbal and physical violence, unhappiness, and depression.

We are all individuals in the end and have our differences. As a human being, one of the goals in life is trying to be better than we were yesterday. Trying to change ourselves for the sake of pleasing someone and pretending just to make someone feel happy or superior is not healthy and can jeopardize our own mental health and also the relationship in the long run.

If we want to change something, for example, I want to be more fitter, healthier, happier, smarter, financially independent, and so forth, it is for ourselves (without being selfish or self-absorbed). If we take care of ourselves first then we can take care of others better. Do for yourself and the motivation will be sustainable than doing for other people.

Respect and love yourself. Respect the people around you. Then we should not be degrading or intimidate anyone. This will make you a better person. We attract what we are.

Life is unique, so does human beings. Life itself is bigger than getting married, having kids, make tons of money, and so forth. This is the typical life cycles, stages and goals we all have learned in our life. The strong pressures in society dictate what is better and not just because that's what it is for the past generations have been. The pressure to fit in with society's standards and expectations is also there.

As a society and individual, let's understand deeper that not everyone will have the same life cycles and even life goals. There are things we can control and can't control. Not everything that is good for you is going to be good for other people. Having or not having something can be a blessing and sometimes only God knows why.

In life, some may walk their path of life and make choices completely different from us and that's perfectly fine. We all have our own unique journey and that makes us different, and we can use that differences to make life better for ourselves and the life of others.

Let this sink in.

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Children aged 10-12 years old experience feelings of unhappiness if they spend too much time playing cellphone games, according to a survey released by a local #childwelfare group Sunday.
https://focustaiwan.tw/society/202103280006

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- 把工作當成真命天子，27歲就當上 P&G Marketing Director | Falling in love with your career. becoming marketing director at age 27
- What is marketing? Marketing 不只是廣告銷售，更是影響人們生活的一個方式 | Marketing changes peoples' lives
- 其實從小孩、童心的角度檢視自己，是認識自己很好的方法 | Learn about yourself from your childhood
- 內向者的力量：兼具內向者的想法，和開啟外向模式的力量 | The power of introverts
- 不快樂不是你的錯，但只有你有責任讓自己快樂 | Unhappiness is not your fault, but your responsibility

📚 Books Mentioned:
- The Existentialist Cafe 存在主義咖啡館
- The Happiness Project 過得還不錯的一年：我的快樂生活提案
- Quiet 安靜，就是力量：內向者如何發揮積極的力量

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(00:01:22) 三個字形容自己 | Describe yourself in 3 words
(00:03:07) 認為 Marketing 是自己的真愛 | Marketing is her true love
(00:06:22) 上海的 Marketing 調研故事 | Marketing research story in Shanghai
(00:09:38) Marketing更深的意義 | The essence of marketing
(00:12:29) 大學做四個實習 多方嘗試找尋目標 | 4 internships in college, trying various things
(00:14:11) 其實你喜歡做什麼小時候就知道 | Learning from your childhood
(00:17:08) 如何27歲就成為行銷總監 | Becoming director at 27
(00:18:58) 人事管理的哲學 | People management philosophy
(00:21:36) 主管就像是當一面鏡子 | Manager is like a mirror
(00:23:51) 當上主管的第一課 | First lesson of being a manager
(00:25:17) 情境領導模式 因材施教 | Situational leadership
(00:27:29) 帶領團隊的核心理念 | Core values of leadership
(00:31:12) 理想規劃的一週 | Ideal week
(00:34:19) 內向的領導者更有力量 | Introverted leadership
(00:39:01) 時間管理：GTD信奉者 | Time management, GTD
(00:40:21) 總監下班之後去打工 | Working side jobs for fun
(00:42:14) 制定自己的快樂計畫 | Managing your own happiness
(00:43:59) 管理並檢視自己的快樂 | Reflect on your own happiness
(00:45:32) 享受當下和達成目標的平衡 | Balance between being present and achieving your goals
(00:49:07) 對快樂的定 | Definition of happiness
(00:51:06) 完整的快樂架構 | Structure of happiness
(00:55:22) 存在主義的真諦 | Existentialism
(00:58:52) 即使是宿命論之下 還是要努力 | Determinism
(01:01:48) 只有你有責任讓自己快樂 | You are responsible for your happiness
(01:04:25) 因為不快樂而決定離開P&G | Leaving P&G
(01:08:09) 跳進田裡吃泥巴 | Eating mud in the farm
(01:10:56) 決定到Teach for Taiwan工作 | moving to Teach for Taiwan

Dear local people, Que Huong Humanitarian Center was established in 2001 by Huynh Tieu Huong, the Director and Founder of the Center , which has been in existence for 17 years. With the mission of taking care of orphans, disabled children, helping with difficult circumstances, unhappiness, misfortune. At present, the center has taken care of 342 orphans and disabilities, of which 70% of them are abandoned by their parents when they are young. Each of them has a very pitiful situation. .
Because the number of children crowded so the center also encountered many difficulties.
The center invites the kindness to come to the heart of sharing love, each one a little contribution to raising children to grow up, help society ...
Any contribution of you please send to:
Que Huong Humanitarian Center :
*** Address: No. 1210 DT 743 Street, Tan Long Quarter, Tan Dong Hiep Ward, Di An Town, Binh Duong Province, Vietnam
*** Tk: 897109 ACB branch in Hochiminh city.
Phone: 0274.3740.808 - 0903.803908 - 0983.803908
*** website: www.huynhtieuhuong.org
*** Email: hynhtieuhuong@yahoo.com
quehuongcharity2001@gmail.com

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Protect the ocean for generation to come


I feel prettier, I feel more alive than ever, I’m better!!!! Often I feel fear, fear of being unappreciated and unloved. Those led me to nothing but caused unhappiness inside my heart. Two years I struggled trying to find my true purpose in life and what my goals were, I got sick, I couldn’t sleep, my health was bad and my art work was shitty. Still now I’m still figuring out those answers but I let the pains go. I stop torturing myself and let go. I move forward slowly but surely, I do not know where the road will take me but I’m happy! I’m back to who I was and this time there’s nothing stopping me