【德多少，就得多少】
YOUR VIRTUES DETERMINE HOW MUCH YOU GET

最近家附近有建築工地，噪音多了。

客人聽我的聲音不會有問題，因為我的耳機有麥克風，但如果他們不戴有麥克風的耳機，我聽他們的聲音會比較辛苦。

幾天前，為一位年輕的保險經紀通過Zoom批八字。

他進入Zoom會議室後，呆看著我。

我微笑看著他，故意不出聲，觀察著他。

幾秒後，他才粗魯的說：「哈囉？!」

奇怪了，貴為一個保險經紀，見人應該無數，打招呼的方式，怎能這麼粗俗？我阿姨阿伯級的客人，雖不常用Zoom，都比他懂禮貌。

我馬上回：「X先生，您好。您進來會議室，怎麼打招呼這麼粗俗？」

「我一向來都是這樣先哈囉，有聲音我才正式打招呼。」

「我倒是從來不會這樣。」

其實，這是個人修養的問題。

「你沒有讀我發給你的貼文嗎？為何你視訊沒有戴耳機？」

「我一向來Zoom都是這樣，沒有戴耳機。我以為你只是建議而已，不一定要戴。」

「我在貼文裡寫關於戴耳機的理由，你覺得不成立嗎？」

他想了幾秒，回：「是成立的。」

「我們都是提供服務的人。客人找我們，需要三大元素。第一個，就是同理心。你沒有同理心，難怪你說你的客人寧願聽別人說，也不信你說。」

「如果你要我戴，我現在就戴。」

他講完後，依然坐在那裡看著我，一動也不動。

後來，我說了幾句，他肯戴上耳機後，藍牙耳機也並沒操作好。

等了我一個月，這麼簡單的事情都不願事先做好。

看著他理直氣壯的模樣，頓時覺得他很可憐。

貴人坐在他面前，他說的一大堆話，都是以「自我」為出發點，完全不懂得「以和為貴」的道理。這不就是親手把貴人轟出門嗎？

「你這樣講話，就算講贏了，你真的贏了嗎？」

換成我是他的客人，我絕不會向他買保險，因為很明顯這不是一位真心為別人著想的保險經紀人。

那天，雖為他看八字，該說的我都有說，但我依然保留許多。

因為他缺德。

許多人把「德」看得很輕，覺得沒做壞事就是好人。事實上，不按照別人合理的要求做事，蓄意破壞規則，只顧自己，也是沒有德行可言。

有些人會吐槽，哎呀你學佛的人，要慈悲，何必跟他計較？不要著相！

我不是在意氣用事。

沒有智慧的慈悲，會害死人的。

祖師有訓 - 看命本來就是依客人的福德多寡，而賜福。品行不端的人，承受不起更多的福報，反而會遭反噬。再說了，對貴人都不好的人，對沒有利用價值的人就會更善良嗎？

不是捐錢的，就一定是好人，什麼事情都是要用心才算。

每個人都想要與眾不同，可是如果你的所作所為和一般人一樣，沒有比他們做得更好，那你的命格只配拿得起一般的命運。

不要迷信，以為什麼都是人家為難你，就跑去求神拜佛要打小人。我們命運裡的每一個障礙，每一粒石頭，都是自己放進去的。

你不改，障礙物就不會移。

在這裡聲明：沒有麥克風耳機的Zoom客人，我一概會取消諮詢，進行退款，沒得商量，沒得瞎掰。

能突然放假，真是太過癮了！

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Recently, a construction site sprouted up beside my place, creating a lot of noise every day.

Zoom clients wouldn’t have a problem hearing me, but if they do not have a earpiece with a mic, I would have a problem hearing them.

Few days ago, I did a Bazi analysis for a young Insurance Agent via Zoom.

After he entered my Zoom meeting room, he looked at me blankly.

I smiled at him, deliberately staying quiet, and observed him.

Few seconds later, he said bluntly, “Hello?!”

How strange that an insurance agent, who probably have met tons of people, would greet in such an abrupt manner. My middle-aged clients, who rarely use Zoom, have better etiquette than him.

I replied instantly, “Hi, Mr X. Why is your greeting so crude, upon entering this meeting room?”

“I always say hello like this and wait to hear a reply, before I greet officially.”

“I never do that.”

Actually, this demonstrates the refinement of a person.

“Did you not read the post I sent you? Why are you not wearing a earpiece?”

“All along, I do Zooms in this manner without a earpiece. I thought it’s just a suggestion from you and it was not mandatory.”

“I wrote about the reason for clients to wear a earpiece. Do you find it invalid?”

He pondered for a few seconds and replied, “It’s valid.”

“We are both service providers. Clients look for us based on three main qualities. The first being the quality of empathy. You lack empathy and it’s no wonder you say your clients rather listen to others and not trust you as much.”

“If you want me to wear, then I will wear it now”

And he sat there looking at me, not moving an inch.

When he finally put on his ear pods, they did not operate well either.

It’s peculiar how despite a month of waiting for me, he was slow to get this simple thing done right.

Seeing how “self-assured” he was, for a brief moment, I find his behaviour pitiful.

His benefactor was sitting right in front of him, yet his words remained self-serving, totally oblivious to what harmony is about. Wasn’t this sending your benefactor straight out of the door?

“Even if you gain an upper hand talking like this, have you really won?

I would never buy insurance from such an agent, as obviously he was not the considerate kind.

I still read his Bazi that day, said what I should but there were also a lot I did not reveal.

Because he is lacking in virtues.

Many people think lightly of virtues. They assumed that if they do no evil deed, they are virtuous humans. Fact is, if you do not follow the reasonable requirements of other people, deliberately breaking the rules for your own gain, you have no virtue to speak of.

Some naysayers will tell me, but hey you are a practicing Buddhist, so you should exercise your compassion and not be bothered with his behaviour! Don’t get attached to external form!

This isn’t about me.

Compassion without wisdom brings more harm than good.

Since ancient times, it is a rule of thumb that we practitioners allocate good fortune to clients, based on their conduct and luck.

A person with undesirable conduct is unable to bear greater fortune, or there will be adverse consequences. Moreover, if a person is unkind to his benefactor, it is very unlikely that he will be kinder to another person with no value to him.

You can’t define a person as a good man, just because he is willing to donate money. We got to look at how he uses his heart.

Everybody wants to be special and different from others. But if what you are doing is the same as other people, nowhere better than them, then you can only carry a mediocre Destiny.

Don’t be superstitious to think that everybody is out to get you, and you go running to the temples or Feng Shui masters to chase away the villains.

Every obstacle in our destiny, every little stone that trips us, is placed in our lives by no other person but ourselves.

If you do not change, the obstacle isn’t going to budge either.

And here’s an official note: For any Zoom client that does not wear a earpiece with a microphone, I will cancel the consultation and give you a refund.

Having off days out of the blue are so much more fun!

Dear Explore Your Backyard 2021 Participants,

Due to the continued Covid-19 situation we have decided to postpone the Explore Your Backyard 2021 Edition. We simply don’t have enough certainty that the race will be allowed to continue, furthermore we want to ensure we can deliver a true EYB experience and that simply won’t be possible with the shadow of Covid-19 hanging over us.
The new proposed date is Saturday, April 30th, 2022. Same location: Tucheng, New Taipei City.

We understand that due to these circumstances, some of you may not be able to attend the event and may wish to cancel your registration. We’ve prepared a form so you can let us know your decision.

NOTE: Please let us know your decision by September 12 if you wish to cancel your registration, if we don’t hear back from you, your registration will be transferred to the new date.

Please follow the link at the bottom of this email to select one of the following options:

1. Keep your registration for the new date.

2. Cancel your registration and receive a refund. Please note that there will be a 100 NTD fee per participant to cover the transfer and administrative fees. Payments will be made before September 30th.

Explore Your Backyard Postponement/Cancellation Form: https://forms.gle/GUXrAva3jfjMAtj36

We appreciate your understanding, and hope to see you in April.

Remember to stay safe and stay fit - Explore Your Backyard Team

鼓鼓 呂思緯 【聽到請回答Connecting…】巡迴演唱會 高雄場 退票辦法公告

齊心抗疫忍痛延期退票
期待我們再見面那一天

辛苦每一位盡守防疫職責的你們，因應疫情緣故，疫情指揮中心對於演唱會舉辦方式持續滾動式修正，而因場地檔期尚未明朗化，幾經審慎思考評估，鼓鼓 呂思緯【聽到請回答Connecting…】高雄場演唱會決定先行全面退票。

演唱會退票將於8/24(二)～9/15(三)期間受理，期盼退票款項便於歌迷及時運用，而未來購票也許也可使用藝Fun券，幫大家省點荷包。理解許多人殷切期待這場演唱會，也真心感謝歌迷第一時間熱烈搶票，此次雖遺憾延期，但待日後疫情回穩，場地檔期確認後，鼓鼓一定會帶著這場演唱會回到你們面前，熱情依舊，創造更多不一樣的感動。

一起齊心抗疫，我們約好高雄流行音樂中心見！
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【退票方式說明】僅依以下所列方式受理與辦理退票
1. 主辦單位將委託ibon售票系統依票面全額退費，並由主辦單位自行吸收退票手續費及取票手續費。
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3. 已取票者，請至ibon機台退票：
◆ 【ibon機台退票方式】
於機台首頁點選訂票/取票/訂房→點選退票→按照指示說明，掃描欲退票的紙本票券QR CODE→輸入資料與確認明細->持票券正本及退票單至門市櫃台辦理退款。
◆ 【信用卡購票者】
A. 於ibon機台退票時，退票票款(以票面價計)全額將將退刷至原扣款之信用卡，無法匯至其它帳戶，銀行退款時間依各家銀行作業時間為準，請主動向銀行端查詢退費進度。
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◆ 【現金購票者】
於ibon機台退票時，退票票款(以票面價計)全額以現金退還。
◆ 現金訂購之票券因無購票者資料，若票券遺失，將無法辦理退票。
4. 未取票者：
【信用卡購票者】ibon售票系統將主動刷退票款(以票面價計)全額將退刷至原扣款之信用卡，可於30天後至ibon售票網登入會員查看→訂單查詢→票券→票券內容→狀態會更新為退票。刷卡退款時間將依發卡行及銀行之作業時間為準，請主動向銀行端查詢退款進度。
5. 其他注意須知：
◆ 非透過官方正式授權售票管道購票，恕無法辦理退款。
◆ 如有任何爭議，主辦單位保留最終決定權。
6. 【補件】若您需要補件：
◆ 若於機台操作退票仍未能完成，請備妥
(1)票券正本
(2)退票申請書 https://bit.ly/36cSOcr
(3)帳戶存摺影本(刷卡訂單免附)
連同姓名、聯絡電話，以郵寄方式掛號或快遞寄至「114台北市內湖區洲子街81號9樓，安源資訊 退票小組(鼓鼓)收」，請勿親送，收件地址現場無法受理（為避免爭議，必須透過郵局掛號或快遞等有寄達簽收服務之配送公司）。收件時間為週一至週五09:00-18:00，適逢國定假日暫停服務。（請寄掛號保障您的權益，平信遺失風險大。）
◆ 信件或EMAIL送達後30工作天內（收到退票申請且資料完整起計算）(如遇天候等不可抗力因素大量退票期間，則不在此限)，將票款全額退回，不另行通知，請自行核對帳戶。
◆ 請以拍照或掃描方式將資料以電子檔附件方式MAIL(refund@ibon.com.tw)到ibon退票小組。
◆ 來信主旨：訂單編號Axxxxxxxxxxxxx(共14碼) - 鼓鼓演唱會退票(補件)
7. 如為自非本公司公告之購票管道所購得或取得之票券欲辦理退票者，請自洽詢原取得管道。例：二手票券交易平台、網路賣家等。
8. 如有任何形式非供自用而加價轉售（加價名目包括但不限於:代購費、交通費、補貼等）之情事經查屬實者，除得不予退票外，並得依社會秩序維護法第64條第2款逕向警方檢舉。
9. 如違反本退票規則，本公司得不予退票。
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by小幫手

Tag你那個還在猶豫要不要退票的朋友😅
🎟6種退票的說法
⚽️return vs refund的差別解釋
希望大家幫忙分享，同事、朋友、家人都線上團聚就好了啦！

高鐵/台鐵/客運端午連假退票都免手續費喔 No fees will be required for refunds for tickets valid during the Level 3 alert 🚨 period!!!

我的線上英文課程
《24堂學了就想說的情境英文文法課》
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#端午連假 #退票不返鄉 #倉庫的女人claire #退款英文 #退貨英文 #手續費 #單程票 #來回車票 #退票潮 #防疫 #梅花座 #vaccine

【airasia】 #亚航总部踩场去

从疫情爆发至今，收到成千上万的Message/Comments问我们关于亚航退改问题啦!! 有没有便宜机票、Unlimited Pass几时延期、亚航X几时飞，甚至AVA到底是谁，都要来问我们...??

是怎样啦现在!!? 我们又不是亚航客服啦，没有薪水出，还要燃烧生命，甚至还要被网民骂我们咧!! ???

所以干脆直接踩去亚航总部 - RedQ，揪出那个AVA，给大家一个交代吧!!

#记得给Kasi一个LIKE
#Edit到怀疑人生了
#15分钟请耐心看
#已经尽量搞笑呈现了

希望大家一起来支持这一场演唱会
New ticket link is up! 新的購票連結?

https://myticket.asia/#event=34665763

謝謝支持? Thanks for supporting~

之前跟Star Planet買的票可以直接申請退款哦～
Previous purchased from Star Planet need to apply for refund ya~

(想要聽什麼歌可以留言噢）
（由於版權關系沒打到你們的歌抱歉噢）

今后我会拍摄更多别的搞笑和DJ有内涵有内容的影片！
真心的谢谢你们的支持！

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