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#文末挑戰多益選擇題📝
🤬 如何主動提勸告卻不煩人
How to Offer Unsolicited Advice Without Being Annoying

開啟「接收通知」和「搶先看」每天吸收雙語時事新知
來讀華爾街日報獨家


✍️ If your suggestions often meet with resistance, maybe you need to change your technique. The WSJ’s relationships columnist offers these ideas.
如果你的忠告常被拒絕，或許你該改換技巧。華爾街日報的關係專欄作家提供以下點子：


📧 Dear Bonds,
My adult son hates when I give him advice. So I try to stay quiet, let him learn from his own mistakes, and wait until he asks for help, just as I tried to do when he was little. But as a father, I do feel I have valuable wisdom to impart. Take this weekend, when my son was making steaks for dinner. He didn’t warm up the grill before putting the steaks on! When I mentioned this—“Son, let me show you how I like to do it”—he snapped and told me to finish them myself. What did I do wrong? —Grilled in Chicago

親愛的關係大師：
我的成年兒子很討厭我給建議，因此我盡量保持沈默，讓他從自己的錯誤中學習，等到他尋求幫助，就跟我在他小時候做的一樣。但身為父親，我認為我能傳授寶貴智慧，就像這週末，我兒子烤牛排當晚餐，他在放牛排前沒先熱烤肉架！當我說「兒子，讓我來示範我都怎麼烤。」他突然發火叫我自己烤算了。我是哪裡做錯了？—芝加哥的焦頭老爸

-bond: 紐帶；聯繫；關係，例如bond of friendship友誼關係
-impart: 傳授；告知；給予
-grill: 燒烤
-snap: 折斷；突然動怒，就像理智突然「喀嚓」一聲斷線，導致情緒爆發


💞 Dear Grilled,
Oh dear. You’ve butted in between a man and his fire. I realize that the man in question is one whose diapers you once changed. That, as a father, you do have hard-earned knowledge to share. And that searing meat over an open flame seems like a perfect father-son bonding experience. But I’m afraid you need to tend to your technique a little.

My guess is you often offer unsolicited advice, probably not just to your son. I know you’re just trying to be helpful. So let’s come up with a plan to make sure your guidance is welcomed, and maybe even heeded. I want you to follow the Three A’s: Assess. Ask. Adjust.

親愛的焦頭老爸
喔天啊～你竟然對一個男人的火焰潑冷水。我懂你曾替該名男子換尿布，身為父親，你也確實有難能可貴的知識可以分享，而明火上的燒肉像極了完美的父子交心時光，但恐怕你得先練練你的溝通技巧。

我猜你常主動給建議，或許不只對你兒子。我知道你只是想幫忙，因此我們來定個計劃，好確保別人歡迎你的指導、甚至聽從。希望你遵守「3A原則」：Assess、Ask、Adjust。

-hard-earned: 得來不易的
-unsolicited: 未經要求的(not asked for)，主動的
✍️ between a man and his fire - 這句有雙關趣味，一指烤肉的炭火，二指熱情，如「man on fire」就是指充滿熱誠的人


👂 Start with assess. You need to do a little research. Talk to a few people you trust—your wife or partner, a good friend, another child who isn’t always annoyed with your advice—and get their take on your feedback style. Do you give too much of it, or does it come across as harsh? This isn’t about analyzing your son’s response; it’s about examining your approach.

從評估開始，你需要稍做功課，跟幾位你信任的人聊聊，像你的妻子或伴侶、一位好友、另一個不總是厭煩你建議的孩子，瞭解他們對你給予回饋風格的看法。你會給太多回饋嗎？講法是否太過苛刻？這不是要分析你兒子的反應，而是要檢驗你的溝通方式。

-harsh: 苛刻；嚴峻
-come across: 讓人覺得，給人的印象
-approach: 方法，途徑


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豉油雞叉燒飯【皇后 (廣合) 燒肉大王】 is the newer sibling of the super famous #廣合燒臘公司 on Hollywood Road, Sheung Wan. Originally well known for its great quality Roast Meats at an affordable price, it's original Clientele was for micro-regional local Foodies and also Taxi Drivers, who bought these Roast meat rice boxes amongst the next door Coffin selling places at this end of the street.. It's reputation amongst this small foodies circle was so well known for a closely knitted group in HK, & one of my favourites for Take Away for all these years at #廣合燒臘公司 . But anyway, this isn't too main stream in HK. I guess I will just have to keep this as my own little secret 🤔. In comparison to #新園燒臘飯店 nearby, which to me is the most un-deserving Cantonese Roast Meat shop featured on the Michelin Guide by a large margin all these years, it is totally crap and at bottom of the list in this Area 啲叉燒永遠乾撚到仆街. This here is infinitely better, in fact there are at least 2-4 shops within the area which performs better daily. It's not perfect sometimes, and I can find slightly better in HK or Macau. But when in the area, this is always a no brainer if you're a local~! The Look of it judges for itself. Overall rating this trip only 7.5/10

豉油雞叉燒飯【皇后 (廣合) 燒肉大王】 is the newer sibling of the super famous 廣合燒臘公司 on Hollywood Road, Sheung Wan. Originally well known for its great quality Roast Meats at an affordable price, it's original Clientele was for micro-regional local Foodies and also Taxi Drivers, who bought these Roast meat rice boxes amongst the next door Coffin selling places at this end of the street.. It's reputation amongst this small circle was so well known for a closely knitted circle in HK, & one of my favourites for Take Away for all these years at #廣合燒臘公司 . But anyway, this isn't too main stream in HK. I guess I will just have to keep this as my own little secret 🤔. In comparison to #新園燒臘飯店 nearby, which to me is the most un-deserving Cantonese Roast Meat shop featured on the Michelin Guide by a large margin all these years. This is infinitely better, in fact there are at least 2-4 shops within the area which performs better daily. It's not perfect here sometimes, and I can find slightly better in HK or Macau . But when in the area, this is always a no brainer ~! The Look of it judges for itself. Overall rating this trip only 7.5/10

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#三平超市 #三平ストア浅草店 #SanPeiStoreFreshFoodMarket #日式超市 #日本超市採購推薦清單 #東京慳錢攻略 #tokyosupermarket

Hello大家好我係阿Tsar,今日為大家介紹東京淺草雷門行15分鐘就到的三平超市, 好少遊客懂得來到這裏, 但是日本主婦就一致讚好,
不過你們還是不好看我的旅遊影片了,我有幾個朋友, 剛剛從東京回來,
原本一個喼買了很多妝藥, 誰不知聽了我講去哪裏買超市平東西,
累得她們要買多一個喼去盛載平價超市日本食品,搞得一個朋友因為攞太大的袋上機,差點被人拒絕上機, 要分開兩袋才可以上機,
她們一路行一路鬧, 最衰那個阿Tsar,累得她們買不停手, 所以看完我的影片,你們自己風險自負, 因為這裏超市實在太多好東西,這間超市要分開上下集, 快點來看看今天的十大必買, Are u ready?

第一必買, 日本大昌生薑味烤肉醃肉醬汁, 平日我落街市買一嚿手掌般大小的生薑都要十港元, 現在一支175 g的生薑味烤肉醬汁, 只是197 Yen,有烤肉味、夠薑醬汁，要精明消費，一支夠你用幾十次,第二必買, 大昌濃縮牛丼飯醬汁,自家製作輕而易舉, 煮出吉野家的牛丼飯,
吉野家的牛丼飯秘訣, 是加了兩茶匙的白酒,搵次我煮給你們看看吧
你去吉野家, 一碗牛丼飯要40港元,他們用的是美國牛, 自己在家煮食,
更健康, 便宜很多, 一支夠用幾十次,第三必買, 大昌牛扒大蒜風味醬油,
要將牛扒做出日本道地口味, 不可或缺的關鍵秘密,牛扒美味更加有層次, 廚房好幫手.不用自己剝蒜皮, 剝到手指痛,第四必買, 晚餐館烤肉佐料焙煎蒜醬汁,買包豬肉切片, 家埋個醬汁嚟醃製,簡單快捷, 現在豬肉很貴, 可以用雞肉來代替,我持家有道, 所以年中慳了很多錢,第五必買, 香滑白菜雞肉豬肉味中式調味醬,雞肉或豬肉飛水, 炒香肉片才加放白菜,最後落這個醬汁, 搞掂，上菜，食得,第六必買, 九州特產, 熊本名店大黑半生拉麵,九州拉麵是全世界觸目的, 因為熊本天然極佳的水質,製造出優質的q彈牙麵條,加上熊本拉麵的湯頭味道柔和,炸蒜味麻油味濃, 小心食到水桶腰呀,第七必買, 海宝丸壽司, 得選高質壽司,第8必買, 海宝丸剝皮蝦刺身, 298 Yen, 抵食,第九必買, 蒲燒肉串, 買回香港享用
勁抵食, 激安哦,第十必買, 國產大紅米, 採用100%國產四季豆,
可以製作出具有濃郁豆味的正宗紅米,赤飯益處, 可以防癌、抗氧化
,紅豆中含豐富多酚類物質, 對身體好處多多 ,好吧, 這裏實在太多平靚正的東西,一集講不完, 留待下集再講,我還有兩間淺草勁正的超市未講,快點來幫我分享訂閱和like,安埋通知制, 下次再傾,88 !

SanPei Store FreshFood Market
三平ストア浅草店
營業時間;10:00–21:00
東京都台東区西浅草2丁目14-16

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Hello, I am introducing a SanPei Supermarket just 15 mins walk from Kaminarimon gate in Asakusa of Tokyo . Very few tourists know this place, but very popular among Japanese housewives . U better not watch my travel vlog. My friends just came from Tokyo for travel. They supposed to carry only 1 suitcase of cosmetic. After knowing my recommendation for supermarket. They eventually have to buy extra suitcase for groceries. My friend brought a huge bag carry onboard. She was almost rejected to board the plane until she seperate the bag into 2. I was cursed by her because she bought too many. She non-stop shopping because of my recommendations. You are at your own risk for watching my vlog, because there are so many good things in the supermarket here. This supermarket will talk in 2 vlogs. Are u ready?

こんにちは、私は東京の浅草にある雷門から徒歩わずか15分のところにあるSankiスーパーマーケットを紹介しています。この場所を知っている観光客はほとんどいませんが、日本の主婦の間では非常に人気があります。旅行ビデオを見てはいけません。友達は旅行のために東京から来ました。彼らは化粧品のスーツケースを1つだけ運ぶことになっています。スーパーマーケットへの私の推薦を知った後。最終的には、食料品用の追加のスーツケースを購入する必要があります。友人が機内に巨大なバッグキャリーを持ってきました。彼女は、バッグを2つに分けるまで飛行機に乗ることをほとんど拒否されました。私の勧めのため、彼女はノンストップで買い物をしています。ここのスーパーマーケットにはたくさんの良いものがあるので、あなたは私のビデオブログを見るあなた自身の危険にさらされています。このスーパーマーケットは2つのビデオブログで話します。準備はいい？

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