『當約會對象願意跟你回家，或是邀請你去她家，不代表親熱是理所當然。』

截自內文：我們對於『該怎樣溝通、該怎樣探索性關係』的了解程度實在是少得可憐。男生沒有參考框架可以幫助他們了解什麼叫作當個好伴侶、好戀人。

謝謝 Psycho.doc 精神科觀察日記 威廉
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大四那年秋天，兩人都去參加學校的「奪回夜晚遊行」。安雯以倖存者身分參與，沙米爾則是前去力挺自己的新女友，這個女生也有一段受害史。他說：「真的很奇怪，因為我很氣那個人這樣對待我女朋友，可是我自己也犯下類似的錯誤。」

安雯要他把她寫過的東西都看一遍，對沙米爾來說，這是最難熬的。「我很難不把自己看成怪物。怪物是我可以說的最重的字了。」

沙米爾開始更直接地跟男生朋友聊，「我會問女生是不是樂在其中。我這種回應會讓男生大吃一驚。他們要嘛不說話，要嘛就說問女生這個太詭異了。可是，問這個有什麼詭異的呢？」

#蘭萱時間 #每週開場歌單

0913 星期一

歌手：Lucy Dacus
曲目：#6 Thumbs
專輯：【Home Video】


0914 星期二

歌手：李宓
曲目：新娘紗
EP：【出嫁】


0915 星期三

歌手：LORD HURON休倫大帝
曲目：#7 Long Lost
專輯：【Long Lost】


0916 星期四

歌手：玖壹壹
曲目：癡人說夢


0917 星期五

歌手：ABBA合唱團
曲目：Don’t Shut Me Down
專輯：【Voyage】

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0920 星期一
歌手：Laura Veirs
曲目：#10 Vapor Trails
專輯：【My Echo】


0921 星期二

歌手：Simon Alexander
曲目：#8 Northwoods
專輯：【A Place to Call Home】


0922 星期三

歌手：Allison Ponthier
曲目：#5 Faking My Own Death
專輯：【Faking My Own Death】


0923 星期四

歌手：梁靜茹
曲目：昨天，一點愛
專輯：【時光隨想‧三日思】


0924 星期五

歌手：Bon Iver美好冬季樂團
曲目：Hey, Ma
專輯：【I,I】

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#VLOG #Korea #蘭蔻極光水

這次很有心地實測給大家看極光水！
（還特地前一週都沒用，覺得皮膚變好差...）
極光水我是第一次用！
已經用了兩個多月了
我覺得他最厲害的點就是
他不只保濕！他還是一款可以調整我膚況的保濕型水狀精華！
用了五天之後我明顯感受到我的粉刺變少
膚色也比較均勻了～
相信很多人都有在觀望這一瓶
畢竟每個人的膚質都不一樣
非常推薦你們去試用看看！

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2. exile by Taylor Swift (feat. Bon Iver)

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I can see you standin', honey
With his arms around your body
Laughin' but the joke's not funny at all
And it took you five whole minutes
To pack us up and leave me with it
Holdin' all this love out here in the hall
I think I've seen this film before
And I didn't like the ending
You're not my homeland anymore
So what am I defendin' now?
You were my town
Now I'm in exile seein' you out
I think I've seen this film before
Hoo, hoo-ooh
Hoo, hoo-ooh
Hoo, hoo-ooh
I can see you starin', honey
Like he's just your understudy
Like you'd get your knuckles bloody for me
Second, third, and hundredth chances
Balancin' on breaking branches
Those eyes add insult to injury
I think I've seen this film before
And I didn't like the ending
I'm not your problem anymore
So who am I offending now?
You were my crown
Now I'm in exile seein' you out
I think I've seen this film before
So I'm leavin' out the side door
So step right out
There is no amount
Of cryin', I can do for you
All this time
We always walked a very thin line
You didn't even hear me out (you didn't even hear me out)
You never gave a warning sign (I gave so many signs)
All this time
I never learned to read your mind (never learned to read my mind)
I couldn't turn things around (you never turned things around)
'Cause you never gave a warning sign (I gave so many signs)
So many signs
So many signs (you didn't even see the signs)
I think I've seen this film before
And I didn't like the ending
You're not my homeland anymore
So what am I defending now?
You were my town
Now I'm in exile seein' you out
I think I've seen this film before
So I'm leaving out the side door
So step right out
There is no amount
Of cryin' I can do for you
All this time
We always walked a very thin line
You didn't even hear me out (you didn't even hear me out)
You never gave a warning sign (I gave so many signs)
All this time
I never learned to read your mind (never learned to read my mind)
I couldn't turn things around (you never turned things around)
'Cause you never gave a warning sign (I gave so many signs)
All this time (so many signs)
I never learned to read your mind (so many signs)
I couldn't turn things around (so many signs)
'Cause you never gave a warning sign (never gave a warning sign)

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