大概是在準備DS的時候發現自己常常會有思緒突然斷掉的現象...
或是一整個腦袋不靈光(?)
不管事之前上了幾個訪談節目宣傳DS時
或是後來解封跟朋友見面聊天時
常常腦袋在聽別人講話
很用力想要進入狀況
可是卻突然停止運作😱
正當我開始覺得完蛋了😱「我發生什麼事」時
謝謝 @1day1music 的Koko在她的Podcast訪談不斷地斷掉後的我後哈哈
點出我斷掉時間點都是被問到有關自己的問題的時候～(這個神觀察！)
說我是不是需要跟自己多多講話了
我才意識到
Wow… 我好久～沒有讓自己腦袋休息了

常常很多時候
我們為了追上自己給自己
在一定的時間內所設定的目標
心無旁騖的一頭栽
因為深怕let ourselves down…
然後就這樣把達成的壓力一口氣扛在自己的肩上
但忘了停下腳步問問自己
my gosh are you okay?

我是個對自己要求很高的人
但也是一個沒有自信把焦點放在自己身上的人
會覺得別人focus在我身上很不自在
但是內在的inner child卻渴望被認可被了解
很矛盾卻總是不斷努力再抓一個自己舒服的節奏
找自己存在的價值與意義

打到這裡我已經不知道我在打什麼了.... 完蛋了是不是又要斷掉了！！！
我覺得啦～反正我就是想很多！是不是想太多腦袋真的會燒壞啊...

等一下maybe我的腦袋會斷掉是一種保護機制吧
它正在努力吶喊著
“Ok Dena enough! STOP thinking this much! Life can be so much more simple if you just take it one step at a time and effing BREATHE! If you can’t do this, I’m just gonna shut you off. It’s called tough love babe. ” 然後它就這樣為了要保護我強制把我腦袋關掉這樣 …

好啦！說到這裡
大家有沒有什麼可以保養腦袋的一些方式呢🥲😬

(謝謝最近朋友跟同事們對常常突然斷掉的我的包容與體諒
其實我每一次斷掉我真的很不好意思😖
因為you all truly deserve my time and attention!
So I just wanna let ya’ll know that when I space out it’s not because of you,
It’s MEEEE hahaha! And I’ll try my best to snap back soon!)

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窮小孩也能搭遊輪 學馬術

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聽到問題的當下我停了一拍心跳
與其說驚訝 更多的是不捨和難過
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四月的一個週一早晨
我在高雄中學和一些學弟妹分享我的生活
我說要把握時間 活在當下
也說要無愧於心 逐己所愛
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我告訴其中一部分的音樂班同學
喜歡主修樂器的話請繼續享受 努力
根本不喜歡音樂的話
現在掉頭才不會誤了剩下的青春
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我相信學弟妹都有認真聽我的分享
才會在結束後提出對我的問題
而且有好幾個人提出類似的問題
令我錯愕又不捨的問題
「是不是因為學長的職業是牙醫師 收入不錯所以才能追逐自己的興趣？」
在他們的教育和認知中 收入竟優先於興趣
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感謝學弟在提問的時候有強調『提問時沒有冒犯的意思』 而不是酸溜溜的質疑
我執著於這個問題一週之久
然後請老師幫我向學弟妹轉達以下幾點：
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1.我看過很多快樂的人 成功的人 都是追求自己熱愛的事物 發光發熱 同時藉此賺取生活費 因應社會 該職業的社經地位 也許高 也許低 但都是滿足快樂的�.
２.高收入的人不在少數 就以牙醫為例 難道是所有牙醫都有追求自己喜歡的事物嗎？都幸福美滿？身體健康？我想告訴你們的是：我從興趣中找到快樂和滿足 所以分享給你們 若非為了向升學關口的你們分享職業特色 我根本懶得提牙醫這塊 因為那不是我熱衷的事情 應該由熱衷於牙科治療的誰向你們口沫橫飛地說�.
3.錢是我們生活中的一部分 就只是一小部分 不是全部 也不是必要的 我們一定比上不足比下有餘 我個人喜歡往下比 因為更容易讓我感到滿足 往上比的話我可真窮 買不起豪宅 沒有跑車 遊艇 也不能任性地說不上班就不上班 說買奢侈品就買奢侈品
如果我們的水很多 可能可以裝滿大碗公 如果我們的水很少 可以換成一個瘦瘦高高的玻璃杯 也可以有一樣的水位高度 那代表著快樂和滿足的程度 在自己的能力範圍 盡該盡的責任 享受能夠享受的舒適 公寓 大樓 豪宅 別墅 各有合適的住客 然而都是一個安全舒服的家�.
最後要提 如果你的夢想是搭豪華郵輪 除了先攢足船票的錢 也可以應徵船上服務生的工作
又例如我大學的時候沒錢學馬術 我願意刷馬 掃馬廄一個下午 換得半小時的騎乘機會
.�祝各位善良勇敢 不枉此生
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First of all, this article is too long for me to translate properly @@
So I will summarize it short and please forgive my grammar mistakes 😅
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I was in my alma mater, Kaohsiung Senior High School, to give a speech to the students.
I shared with them my philosophy of life and suggest them follow their hearts, live in the present moment, do not regret.
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I told students who majored in music, to keep enjoy in music and to work hard with their beloved musical instrument, but be brave to quit if this was not what they did enjoy in. Maybe they were forced by the society, parents or anything. Now is the most early time to save the rest of theirs youth from such a burden.
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I knew they did listen carefully, that’s why they asked me some questions.
Many of them got the same question, which made me astonished and a bit sad,
“Do you think being a dentist with high income is the key enabling you to be engaged in your hobbies?”
Does this question mean they believe one’s income is more important than what one is interested in?
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I cared about this question so much for one week after the speech.
And I asked their teacher to pass on to the cute and young, and maybe perplexed, students as following,
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1.I’ve seen many people who are happy and successful. They are devoted to what they love and get money for living from it. He or she might be rich or poor, upper class or lower class, depending on the definition of the society, but their contentment and joy cannot be defined�.
2. There are a lot of people with high income. Take dentists as an example, is every dentist looking for what he loves? Or happy? Healthy? I find my happiness from my hobbies, that’s why I share this with you. Dentistry should be shared by some dentist who are enthusiastic about dentistry, not me. I shared my occupation to you only because you are facing the college entrance timing.�.
3. Money is a part of our lives, a little part of our lives. Not the whole life, and not necessary either. We are richer than many people, and at the same time, poorer than many people. I would rather compare myself with those poorer than me, because that makes me feel better, and feeling is the most important thing for a person. When I compare myself with those rich men, I am nothing, I can’t afford a villa, a personal airplane, a yacht.
If we have a lot of water, we can fill a big pot. If we have little water, we can fill a thin glass and reach the same height of water level, which represents the degree of contentment.
Make clear who we are, and take our responsibility, and enjoy what we deserve.
There are different people for different places, apartments, condominium, mansion, villa, however, the common point of them are being a nice and safe cozy home.
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If you want to get on a cruise ship, you can earn enough money for the ticket or get the job as a waiter on the ship.
When I couldn’t afford the fee for equestrian class, I worked in the stable and took care of the horses for an afternoon to get the chance to ride the horse for half an hour
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May you kind and brave, enjoy the life with no regret

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❗️中英歌詞全文❗️
被最愛的人 當作月拋的玩偶
My beloved one treated me like a disposable doll

被謊言 當作待宰的肥客
Lied to me and exploited my love

在最幸福的雲端 被一腳踹落
And then kicked me down when I was on cloud nine

享受嗎 享受嗎
You enjoyed it? Did you enjoy it?

被最貼心的擁抱 把真心爆破
The hug that once warmed your heart now crushes it

被最溫柔的手 痛下狠手
The hand that once caressed you now slaps you

被最寶貝的紅唇 反咬了一口
The mouth that once kissed you now bites you

你值得 你值得
You deserve it. Yeah, you deserve it.

你 終於可以領會 什麼叫做因果
At long last, you get to know what karma means

你 終於可以學學 你給我的一課
Get to learn the lessons you taught me

你 總算沒有辜負 我對你的祝賀
My wishes for you have eventually come true

終於 你也有今天
Finally, you’re paying back the karmic debts

看花花蝴蝶 如何變成女王蜂
Watch how the fragile princess becomes a powerful queen

看綿羊 要如何反捕禽獸
How the sheep hunts the beast

看脆弱眼淚 輪迴成金剛拳頭
How helpless tears turn into fearless fists

有趣嗎 有趣嗎
Do you like it? How do you like it?

你那麼會 讓人死心
You are so good at breaking people’s hearts

這點心痛 利息都不夠
The heartache you’re experiencing is way too little

你且等著 命運的幽默 細水長流
Just wait and see / Time will tell you how humorous karma can be

你 終於可以證明 世上真有因果
At long last, you get to prove that karma does exist

你 終於可以做做 你給我的惡夢
Get to suffer the nightmares you gave me

你 千萬不要辜負 我對你的祝賀
Please, make my wishes for you come true

祝你 年年有今天
I wish you a wonderful day like this every year

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