【一筆一畫的秘密】THE SECRET IN YOUR NAME
(English writing below)

師父曾說，如果自己運氣不好時，可以多寫自己的名字來補運，但只限吉祥的名字。😁

「李季謙」這名字是我師父取的。我的原名，主頑固，與六親和他人的關係不好。名字裡有帝王之格，很年輕就會做領導性的工作，但帝王帶兵打江山時，必定會有血光之災，會受傷流血，因此原名有開刀住院格，而且到老都是如此。

當時我和師父沒見過面，是我第一次打電話給師父時，他在電話中爲我分析名字。他說的都對。確實在我十二和十三歲時，我的眼睛就已開刀過兩次，還留下疤痕，也因長期腸胃不好曾住院。無論是家裡或外面，人緣都不好。我讀書時，就已被老師認定有領導能力。出來工作時，事業運賺錢能力也扶搖直上。可以說，無論我在哪裡就職，要突顯自己的才幹，得到官位或加薪，從來不是問題。但，一切的好，都必須付出代價。

我原本是單姓單名，父親取的。父親、爺爺、大伯和我妹一樣是單姓單名，很是獨特，令許多人誤以爲我不是新加坡人。因爲名字別緻，又有延續李家傳承的感覺，我告訴師父我不想改名。

師父便笑說是我固執作怪，不要改名的原因不實際。真正要延續家族傳承，讓祖先臉上有光，不是保留個名字就算，而是自己本事做出來的事情。如果自己的名字讓自己一直出事，何來的成就可言，又豈是祖先想看到的？祖先沒讀什麼書，如果懂姓名學，他們怎可能不要我有個好名字助運呢？

我特別喜歡我名字裡的「謙」字。師父說將來我會有大成就（他沒說是哪方面），這字會提醒我不要太驕傲。因爲人紅是非必定多，這「謙」字的甜度，比我原名更討喜，能減少許多別人對我的誤會。

師父取名，甚是用心，有遠見。因為我尚未拜師，根本沒想到自己會做今天這樣的工作。

我的身分證仍然保留原名，算是對祖先的一個交代。但在外和家人之間，都是稱呼我的新名。我覺得就猶如有些人爲自己取洋名一樣，祇是漢字的靈動力遠遠超過英文字母，能夠給予我的加持是非一般的。如果你現在稱呼我的原名，我還會倍感陌生呢！

我改名已13年，確實一年比一年好。

學姓名學，必需先學八字學。因爲名字是後天，八字是先天。名字是用五格來斷吉凶。每個字有自己的五行和音律。讀不懂客人的八字，無法深入知道她他名字的缺憾在哪裡，更沒辦法以一個良名去彌補她他八字的不足。可惜我在姓名學方法沒有天賦。學了許久，能很好的解析一個名字，卻無法爲客人取良名。所以需要改名的客人，我都介紹他們去找師父。

但，人是多疑的，有些祇是空有發財夢，卻並非幹大事的料。

客人中，有些拖了許久，才聯絡師父。如果是爲自己，就算了。但有些是爸爸媽媽級的人物，爲自己的愛情結晶，也依然自私。

事先已告訴某位媽媽，她孩子名字很不吉利，會如何如何，我勸她去找師父改名。她說會來找我看孩子的八字，我笑笑。妳在我面前說的是幾句真話，妳當我真不懂嗎？怕傷了妳的自尊，給面子不說破而已。

後來，幼女真的出事了，她才嘗試聯絡師父，說她認為現在是「好時機」。（不是錢的問題）

母愛，不見得真的是最偉大的。雖然孩子不是她最疼的，如此拿孩子的命運來冒險，也是有過失。

大家要懂，你口中說的「好時機」是你自己的一種感覺，不見得和現實吻合。說不定，因為你的婆媽，你已錯過了最佳的時機了。

另一位男客人，也說他會找師父改名。我一樣笑笑。一個男人，有多少本領，就算沒有照片，在臉書私訊裡講幾句話，我便已知。更何況，我已見過他本人三次。他，最終也沒有找到師父。

改名改命，不是你拿錢給我們，我們就「應該」、「必須」、「肯定」爲你服務。你在一旁偷偷觀察我們時，我們也一樣在觀察你，看你有多少耐力與誠意，看看你會不會去幫助社會。

自古，學風水命理的都知道，客人必須有德，我們才能教他如何改命造命。這是祖師傳下來的戒律。違背了這個戒律，爲了名利，胡亂教導，罪業深重。自己不是見死不救，如果真是這樣的心態，我們何必寫那麽多文章，免費供大家閱讀冥想？祇是有些人，真的不能讓他好命有錢，會累人累己的。

不是錢跟地位，決定你能不能夠有良名。你的八字，你的面相有德，你自然而然就拿得起一個良名。

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Shifu once said that if you find your fortunes dwindling, you can write your name in repetition to boost your luck. Condition is it must be an auspicious name in the first place. 😁

My current Chinese name 李季謙 was given by my Master. My old name dictated my stubbornness and poor relationships with my family. It carried the fate of an emperor, which explained my many leadership positions from a young age. Like an emperor leading his men to fight for his empire, there was bound to be bloodshed. This will cause me to incur more injuries, that call for surgery and hospital stay, all the way to old age.

At the time, I had never met Shifu in person. In my first phone call to Shifu, he analysed my Chinese name over the phone and was accurate on every count. Indeed when I was 12 and 13 years old, I underwent 2 eye surgeries and had scars to prove for it. Due to long-term stomach issues, I was hospitalised before. Be it family or external relations, I did not have good interpersonal relations. During my schooling days, my teachers saw my leadership qualities and groomed me. After I started working, my career luck and money-making abilities were always rising.

You can say that, no matter where I went, being recognised, getting promotions and pay raise were never a problem for me. However, as with all things good, there was always a price to pay.

My original Chinese name only had a single Chinese character, given by my father. His own name, just like those of my grandfather big Uncle and my sister, is also of a single Chinese character. It was different from the norm and because of that, many thought I was not a Singaporean. I felt my name was quite special and formed a continuity of the Lee’s family lineage, so I told Master that I did not want to change my name.

Shifu laughed at my stubbornness and impracticality. He said the true way of continuing the family lineage and bringing glory to our ancestors lies not in a name, but in achievements accomplished with my own abilities. If my name was going to bring me misfortunes, how would I have any sustainable achievement and would my ancestors wish to see me constantly in trouble? Given the little education of my ancestors, would they not want me to have a good name to aid my fortune in life, if they had known better?

I am especially fond of the character 謙 in my current name. Shifu predicted that I would have great accomplishments in the future. Although he did not said in which aspect, this character would remind me not to be proud, as gossip tends to surface when one's popularity surges. The sweetness in this character 謙 is much more likeable than my original name, and it will help minimise misunderstandings others have of me.

Shifu always put in such meticulous effort and foresight in crafting Chinese names.

I was not even a disciple of him at that time. I had no idea I would be doing what I am doing now.

My identity card still retains my old name, as a mark of respect to my ancestors. But in my work and with the family, I use my current name. I think of it as somewhat like coining a Christian name. Most people do not have their Christian names in their ICs either. But my edge is that historically, Chinese Han characters are more powerful in influencing one person's luck, than English alphabets. So the empowerment I get is definitely extraordinary. If you address me now by my old name, I would feel very alien indeed!

Since my name change 13 years ago, I have seen improvements year after year.

When we learn anthroponymy, we must first master the subject of Bazi. Because names are acquired, whereas Bazi are inherent. The auspiciousness of a Chinese name is determined by the five grids. Every Chinese character and its pronunciation has a different unique element. If you are unable to decipher the Bazi of a client thoroughly, you will not be able to find out what is regrettably missing in his/her Chinese name. Nor will you be able to come up with a good name to make up for the lack in the client's Bazi.

Unfortunately, I have no talent in anthroponymy. While I can analyse a name very well, I am unable to coin good Chinese names despite learning for many years. Hence, for clients who have this need, I always refer them to Shifu.

Alas, humans are suspicious by nature. Some only dream of riches but have no real ability to achieve it.

Among clients, some took too long to contact Master. If it is only for one’s own benefits, I could not care less. But some were parents seeking improvement for their own children, yet were too selfish to act swiftly.

I once told a mother that her child's name was very inauspicious and what would happen in the future. I advised her to look for Shifu for the change of name. She said she would seek my help in getting her child's Bazi read.

I smiled to myself. You really think I have no idea how much truth there is in your words? I kept mum because I did not want to hurt your pride.

Later on, her youngest daughter really got into trouble. She attempted contacting Shifu, citing that "it is a good time now". No, she didn't have money issues.

I had seen enough to say this: a mother's love isn't always the most noble.

The daughter was not her favourite child. But to risk your child's destiny this way, it is a sin.

Please understand that your “right moment” is based only on your own feeling, which may be incongruent with the reality. For all you know, you might have let the "best moment" fleet past because of your indecisiveness.

Another male client told me that he would definitely look for Shifu to change his name. I also just smiled. I do not need to meet a man in real life, to know how much real ability he truly has. It is telling enough from a photo or a mere few words exchanged via PM. Moreover, I had seen him thrice. He eventually did not seek Shifu's help.

Just because you are willing to fork out money, it does not mean we MUST, SHOULD, SURELY will serve you.

Changing your name and destiny for a fee is not a given, nor is it our obligation. As you secretly observe us from the sides, we are also doing the same. We see how much sincerity and perseverance you have and whether you will give back to the society.

Any one who learns Chinese Metaphysics should know that since ancient times, a client must have virtues before we can help him/her to transform and establish his/her favoured destiny. This is a precept laid down by the grandmasters. If we flout it for the pursuit of profits and fame, we would be heavy sinners.

Do not think of us as someone who will watch you sink and die. If we are indeed of such character, why would we put up so much free content, videos and articles, for your consumption and thinking? There are indeed people that do not deserve more riches in life, otherwise havoc to oneself and others will ensue.

Wealth and status do not decide if you can have a good name. If you possess virtues in your Bazi and facial features, you will definitely be able to carry a great name.

🎶 這一瞬間 有一百萬個可能 暖這冬心 或面對寒冷？
（English writing below)

因爲各種元素
我無法見
每個需要我的人
請原諒我

我寫文章做直播
無論我們距離多遠
你都能讀到看到聽到
感受到我的關心

我沒有摒棄你

在新加坡
憂鬱症自殺已不是大人的專利
10-29歲的死亡
主導原因就是自殺

2017年裡
361人自殺身亡
129位是60歲以上的老人
死於自殺的人
比交通意外死亡多2.5倍
超過66.2%的自殺者
是男性
每天平均有超過一個人自殺
（資料取自https://www.sos.org.sg/）

風水不好
八字帶來的
名字有自殺格
社會風氣
健康、感情、金錢
家庭失和
很多很多的因素等

我坐公車地鐵時
看出很多人
裡面很痛苦的掙扎著
我默念咒語
祈求佛菩薩加持
願他們都能離苦得樂

我終於明白
為什麼師父說
有時也想不要看得出

有位30出歲的女客人
從未算過命
我問她爲何找我
她說：
「我追蹤妳很久了」
「我認為妳一定能夠幫到我」

憂鬱症一直困擾著她
但常人根本看不出

她問：
「我照著妳說的去做，就會有用嗎？」
我口說無憑
妳不試著做
又如何知道我準呢？

給自己一個機會
也請給我一個機會
證明給妳看，好嗎？
祇要你肯打開心房
讓陽光照進來
幸福就在不遠處
你有佛性
你是珍貴的
請不要自殺
阿彌陀佛 🙏

到Youtube看影片 ► : https://youtu.be/wYpxaopLGwg

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Because of various factors
I am unable to meet
everyone who needs me
Please forgive me

I write articles
I do Lives
No matter how great the distance is between us
You will still be able to
read, see, hear and feel
the care I have for you

I did not abandon you

In Singapore
depression and suicide are no longer
exclusive to adults
The leading cause for deaths
between age 10-29,
is suicide

In 2017,
361 people killed themselves
of which
129 are elderly above 60 years old
Suicide deaths are 2.5 times more
than traffic accident deaths
Over 66.2% suicides
are male
(Data from https://www.sos.org.sg/)

Poor Feng Shui
Bazi prone to suicide
Chinese name has suicidal strokes/number
Society fad
Health, relationship, money issues
Family disharmony
Many many factors etc

When I take the bus/MRT
I can often read
the inner struggles and pains
many commuters are having
I recite Buddhist mantras silently
May the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas
bless them
May they be able to be free from sufferings
and attain happiness

I finally understand
why Shifu used to say
he sometimes wish
he was unable to decipher

A female client in her 30s
had never had her Bazi analysed
I asked why she looked for me
She said,
"I have been following you for a long time"
"I think you can definitely help me"

She had been shrouded in depression
but it was not noticeable by ordinary people

She asked,
"If I follow what you said, will it help?"
My words alone are no proof
If you do not at least try
how will you know that I am accurate?

Give yourself a chance
And please also give me a chance
to show it to you
If you are willing to open up your heart
and let the sunlight stream in
Happiness isn't that far away
There is a Buddha nature in you
You are precious
Please do not kill yourself
Amitabha 🙏

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《沒有命運的人》
The Man With No Destiny (English version below)

貴為師父近二十年，真實知曉普天下，想要預知自己窮通禍福的人，始終多過於不想預知自己窮通禍福的人。那為何會如此？其實啊！這當中也是因果兩個字。就好比一個人的信仰，「表面」看似非常虔誠，事實上是多世，或前世的因，而結成今世的果，就是這樣而已。但當中也有變數的，所以才會有「變卦」這兩個字。而「變卦」這兩個字，其實是出自於《易經》也。

高明的玄學師父，真的一眼就能「看穿」我們的。那這高明的師父，是憑什麼來「看穿」我們的「狀況」的呢？「上帝」造人類時，早已將命運軌跡的密碼，分佈在我們的骨骼、五官、掌紋及生辰四柱中。因此，高明的師父，就是從這些命運軌跡的密碼，給我們指點迷津的。想學得這上等的學問，並非易事。除了要看根器與天賦，後天的努力與德行，也是非常重要的。

一個無福碰於高明之士的人，其一生自然而然的，就得走在其命運的軌道上，無法自主。那是因為一般的人並無修行，每一世皆是上一世及累世的福德善惡因果演化。受盡生時的喜、怒、哀、樂，受盡死後的輪迴之苦。輪迴這兩個字，真是用得佳妙。還在輪迴中的你妳，當然也就還有命運。還有命運的人，很難完全的自在，更不用談什麼自主與任運啊！還有命運的人，一定是「祂主」的。有「祂主」是不會有真正自由的一天的。懂嗎？明白嗎？

吾，玳瑚師父，非常讚嘆沒有命運的人，也嚮往之。天天老老實實地實修佛法，已漸漸地脫離命運的軌道，相信不久的未來，吾就能返回虛空界。但事實上，你妳只要修行得證了，你妳就是一個沒有命運的人了，返不返回虛空界，都是一樣快樂得不得了。有命運就有生死，有生死就有壽命的約束，依然逃脫不了苦、苦、苦。若你妳自認有智慧，有與無命運的人，你妳會選擇做哪一個？

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In the past 20 years as a Master, I have come to the true understanding that the vast majority of people do wish to know the fortunes of their entire lives. Why is that so? Well, it has all to do with their karmic affinities. Take religion as an example, a person may appear to be very pious, but in truth, it is the fruit of an affinity borne from his many past lives. However, there always exists a possibility of change, and this phenomena is the main core of the I Ching, or the Book of Changes.

An accomplished Metaphysics Master can easily see through us. How can he do that, one might ask. When God created Man, He left traces of Man's destiny in his body: the bones, facial features, palm lines and birth chart. Therefore, the accomplished Master is able to identify these clues to decipher one's destiny code, and point us in the right direction. It is definitely not an easy task to master this body of wisdom. In addition to having the aptitude and gift for it, one must be prepared to work very hard and develop a virtuous disposition.

When a person does not have sufficient merits to encounter an accomplished Master, his life will naturally be dictated by his destiny, not by his self will. That is because the typical person does not cultivate himself spiritually, and goes through the endless cycles of life and death, reaping the good and bad fruits which he had sowed the seeds previously, in an unaware state of consciousness. He will experience happiness, rage, sadness and joy in a lifetime, before suffering yet another cycle of rebirth. You are trapped in this endless cycle of life and death, your path fully dictated by your destiny, and not your own free will. A person who is chained to his destiny can never be completely free. A person controlled by Destiny will never have true freedom. Do you understand my point?

Master Dai Hu is full of awe and praise of those people with no destiny. I look forward to attain such accomplishment. Through daily diligent and honest practice of the Dharma, I am gradually unlocking the chains of destiny on me, and I believe I shall be able to return to Emptiness very soon in the future. In truth, you only have to attain Perfection in your spiritual cultivation to free yourself from Destiny. When that happens, you will be in a state of bliss whether you return to the Void or not. The existence of destiny brings about life and death, and there shall be limitations set forth by time and form. There is still no escape from sufferings and more sufferings. If you think you possess the wisdom, who would you choose to be: the man with destiny, or the one without?

www.masterdaihu.com/the-man-with-no-destiny/