"BEHIND every successful man, there's a woman..." I disagree. In reality it's, "NEXT to every successful man, there's a woman". Equality over inferiority/superiority. In conjunction with International Women's day, i'd like to share my dream for Malaysia. As i write this, i acknowledge that as a man i am in an undeserving privileged position defined by birth. When polled, 70% of Malaysians believe that men are superior than women (UNICEF,2015). Based on a 2013 survey by Talent Corp, only 8% of board members of all listed companies were women. in Parliament, women make up only 10.8% or 24 out of 222 MP. For professionals, men earn 23% more than women for doing the same job. For skilled workers, the gender wage gap is almost at 40%! (National Statistics Department). This is depressing. I dream for a Malaysia where women will no longer be judged by the type of clothing she wears, whether it's the choice of Hijab to the skirt which she chooses. Whether it's burqini or the bikini. Ultimately, it is the content of that character which matters, not the clothing which she wears. I dream for a Malaysia where Women are treated as equal partners to men, not the opposite. When men go out to date women, they're a "Stud"/Cool!/Mat Romantis, but when women do so, they're "sluts"/bitch/Control-freak etc. When men smoke, it's okay, but when women smoke it's blasphemy. When men lead, they're natural-born leaders, but when women lead, they're labelled as emotionally-driven beings influenced by menstruation. Ultimately, it is the content of the character which matters, not the gender which the person is born into. I dream for a Malaysia where Marital Rape will be criminalised. A Malaysia where sexual abuse will not be tolerated, whether it's in the work place or the confines of one's bedroom. A Malaysia where a Malaysian female can be a 4-star general of the armed forces. A Malaysia where women can be senior Ministers, Chief Ministers & the Prime Minister. A Malaysia where not only women challenge the patriarchal structures, but men play a supportive-role as well. Let's make this dream a reality. #KamiSokong #internationalwomensday