該怎麼形容「爺爺的死亡排演」這部紀錄片電影呢

導演是這位「爺爺」的女兒
導演設計了一個很酷的主題
就是讓爸爸去體驗人老了可能的各種死法
比如走在馬路上突然被樓上丟下來的電腦砸死
比如被路障絆倒摔死
比如像他太太那樣從樓梯跌下來
並且讓爺爺說出這些體驗的感受
當然這些死的經歷都有替身
但很感動的是
透過這一次次的死亡話題
讓一個老人面對死亡不再恐懼

爺爺的太太最後是因阿斯海默症
和一次嚴重跌倒長期臥榻而走的
導演問他會不會擔心他跟妻子一樣
越來越失智
然後會有個念頭很想死了算了

爺爺說不會
因為他很熱愛生命
而且他有女兒陪伴他
他允許女兒有一個權利
就是決定他的安樂死

女兒問
何時才能行使這個權利
爺爺說只要女兒想這麼做的時候

聽到這句話
眼淚突然掉下來
只要女兒覺得不忍心看他在受苦
這個權利的標準竟然是他最放心的死法

很動人的一部電影
希望每個人都去看看
Netflix的中文片名叫「爺爺的死亡排演」

https://www.netflix.com/title/80234465?s=i&trkid=13747225

(English writing below)

上星期天，我到一間小花圃做春節直播。

以我的慣例，我如果用到店家的地方，我都會買些東西，不佔他人做生意的便宜。

那天開直播前，本想通知店員一聲，但因為急著在一個時間點前結束，忘得一乾二淨，就有勞我師兄去物色購買適合的盆景。

當時有三位員工 - 兩位華族女子，一位異族外勞男子。

開播到一半時，男員工看到我先生的手機正播映著我的直播。

「哇！這是現場直播嗎？」他很興奮地問我先生，「在哪裡可以看？」

「你可以在臉書看。」

男員工二話不說，拿出手機，開啟臉書應用程序，請我先生為他找出我的臉書。先生輸入我的名字後，接下來就更好笑了。

我當時毫不知情，因為專注在直播。

結束後，我翻看按讚名單時，還想著怎麼會有異族朋友的名字。後來，先生才告訴我事情的來龍去脈。

昨天在剪輯直播，想這星期上傳到Youtube時，才發現那位男員工還向我鏡頭揮手，並展示播放著我直播的手機螢幕。😂

雖然我全程都說著華語，但想必他應該或多或少都聽得懂吧！

這畫面非常有趣，因為幾天前，一位女讀者來訊詢問我批八字的收費。（我服務的收費都列在：www.qianyu.sg/consultations 有中文網頁功能）

這女讀者說，我影片裡的資訊非常準確及珍貴。

我感謝她告訴我，因為我沒有印象在臉書互動裡看過她的名字。

她說她害羞。

這讓我想起另一位女客人，也曾說過類似的話。她說她一向很低調，所以雖然獲益匪淺，但從沒想過要按讚。

我問她：

萬一我寫了那麼多，卻得不到觀眾按讚的肯定，以致我放棄寫作與拍片呢？

她沒回答我。

我笑說，我雖不會因此而放棄，因為我曾經發過願，我也會用我的一生去履行我的發願。

但是，只拿不給，非君子所為，而是自私自利。 我也是人，自然也會需要認同感，尤其是寫的又是一些較另類的課題。

給予鼓勵是一種善行，也是一種感謝，無論是通過按讚、留言、分享，或告訴我。

直接與我貼文互動的好處是有時，可以利益其他比我們更需要這訊息的人。

打從我在去年六月底每星期更新Youtube影片後，我收到的詢問也多了。這些詢問當中，好一些是因為他們的臉書朋友分享了我的影片，而認識我。

他們的臉書朋友並不知道他們來找我服務。

畢竟，我們不會向全世界公佈我們的貼身問題。很多時候，向一個陌生人傾述你的問題，比向朋友訴苦還有用，因為那位陌生人有解決你問題的能力。

我在網路寫作已有三年半的時間，看過數百人。表面上看來是我在幫助人，但如大聖佛陀所言，眾生讓我們實踐自己的修行，幫助我們開悟成佛的人。

這是個互相利益的循環。

見的人越多，我越覺得娑婆世界如浮雲，終究沒有任何人事物是自己的。

寫作拍片越多，自己的思維與志向越明確。

我看到到因果的可怕，不想要我客人那般的命運，因此我更加謹言慎行。我親眼目睹貪、嗔、痴如何能毀掉一個人的人生，所以我打開自己的心房，學習把大愛放送出去，放下不利益他人的固執想法。

因此，感謝妳、你、您幫助我成為一個更好的人，幫我找到我的人生目標。這輩子，我從來沒有做一件事那麼開心過，我也想要一生就這樣做下去。

希望我也能幫助到你，盼你也能幫到別人。

___________________________

So last Sunday, I went to a plant stall to do a CNY Live.

As per my usual practice, I would always buy something from the shop if I use its premises. I don’t take advantage of other people’s businesses.

That day, I wanted to preempt the plant stall staff but in my haste to start my Live, I plain forgot about it. So the husband went about looking for a plant to buy on my behalf.

There were about three staff - two ladies and the gentleman standing behind me in this photo.

Halfway through my Live, the male staff saw the handphone screen of the Husband’s.

“Wah! It’s Live ah?” He excitedly asked the husband. “How to see?!”

“You can see on Facebook!”

The staff whipped out his mobile phone and opened the Facebook app. Then the husband typed in my profile name and what followed next was comical.

I wasn’t aware as I was very focused on presenting to my Live audience.

After the Live ended, I looked through the list of Likes to see who engaged with my video.

And I was wondering why there were some foreign names.

Then the husband told me what transpired.

Yesterday while editing the Live for my Youtube upload this week, I realised at one point in time, the staff also waved to my camera and flashed his handphone screen of my Live. 😂

I bet he somewhat understood what I said, despite it being in Mandarin.

It was an interesting moment because few days ago, a lady PM me to inquire about my Bazi consultation fee. (It’s all listed at www.qianyu.sg/consultations btw)

She told me the information in my videos were accurate and valuable.

I thanked her for telling me because I had never seen her name appeared in my engagement list.

She told me she was shy.

This reminded me of a Bazi client who told me the same thing. That client said she had always been low profile, so she did not think to Like my posts even though she benefitted from it.

I told the client:

But what if I stopped writing and filming because I received no or little affirmation from the audience?

She didn’t answered me.

I laughed and said I would not stop because I had made an aspiration in the past. I had made it my lifetime goal to keep my words.

But to be only taking and not giving is always selfish. I am human. And humans always need to feel belonged in one way or another. Even more so when I am writing about unorthodox topics.

Giving encouragement is a form of kindness and showing appreciation, be it through post engagements or telling me now.

The good thing about direct post engagement is that it benefits others, who may need the message more than us.

Since I started weekly uploads to YouTube in June, a lot more queries come in every month. A number of them know me, due to their FB friends sharing my videos on their timeline.

Thing is, their FB friend does not have a clue that they watched my video and came to seek my service.

We don’t go around telling the whole world our problems, you see.

Sometimes, it’s easier to tell a stranger who has the solutions, than a friend who can only tell you to think about happier things.

I have been posting online for 3.5 years and have met hundreds of people. Perhaps to you, it seems that I am helping people.

But like what Buddha says, the sentient beings are here to help us actualise our spiritual practice, to attain enlightenment and Buddhahood.

It is a reciprocal cycle. The more people I see, the more I realise how transient this Samsara world is. The more I write and film, the clearer I am in my thinking and aspirations.

I don't wish to have the kind of destinies I deal with, so I am more careful in my doings and thoughts. I see first-hand how greed, ignorance and anger can kill people, so I have opened up my heart to give out more love and let go of stubborn beliefs that benefit no one.

So thank you to you, you and you for helping me to be a better person and giving me a holy purpose in this life. I have never been happier in my entire lifetime and I want to do this for as long as I live.

I hope I can do the same for you, so that you will do the same for others too.

www.ifensi.com 2013-07-09 11:43:21　来源：粉丝网http://bagua.ifensi.com/article-473721.html
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This is an interview during Noona at Shanghai, Noona talk about the feeling about Ter and Bie. Noona also talk about the food and sightseeing experience at Shanghai~*

1) 日前，泰国女星Noona受邀出席上海国际电影节，并携新片《爱·触摸·心》与中国粉丝见面。身为90后新生代女星，Noona在泰国拥有超高人气。今年年初，她与当红男星Bie合作的泰剧《日落湄南河》收视超高，且由于两人超入戏演出，更被外界传出因戏生情。此番，Noona抵沪特别接受了粉丝网的独家专访。
1) Recently, the Thai actress Noona was invited to attend Shanghai International Film Festival, and to bring with the new movie " The Rainbow in The Night (Rak Jub Jai)", meeting with chinese fans. As a 90's born actress, Noona has a high popularity in Thailand. Earlier this year, she and popular actor Bie cooperation Thai TV series "Koo Gum" ratings high. Beacuse they had a great performance in the drama, so people are guessing they are fell in love with each other. This time, "Ifensi" have a interview with Noona.

赞Bie努力勤奋 是个幽默的男人
Noona: "Bie is a hardworking ,humorous man"
　　
2) 中国观众最初认识Noona，是因为一部泰国电影《你好，陌生人》，片中Noona与Ter这对无厘头情侣的表演，吸引了不少粉丝， Noona称Ter在生活中和戏里差不多，很爱开玩笑，捉弄人，但作为前辈，Ter教了自己很多东西。今年，Noona与Bie主演的泰剧《日落湄南河》大热，外界更传出这对“官配”因戏生情，对此，Noona坦言：“在我眼中，Bie是一个非常努力勤奋的艺人，他有属于自己独特风格的幽默感，观众喜欢我们的作品，我很开心，但我们只是好朋友，希望今后能再合作。”
2)Chinese audiences first knew Noona is because a Thai film "Hello, stranger,". Noona and Ter starred as a comical couple, they attracted a lot of fans.
Noona said: "Ter's character is quite similar in life and drama, very like to joke, make fun of people, but as a senior, Ter taught me many things."
This year, Noona and Bie starring a Thai drama"Koo Gum" is popular, people are guessing they are fell in love with each other.
Noona answer: "In my eyes, Bie is a very hardworking artist, he has his own style of humor, I am very happy that the audience like our work, but we are just good friends, I hope in the future we will cooperate again. " 　　

爱吃糖藕 盼再来沪登东方明珠
like to eat sugary lotus and and hope to visit Oriental Pearl Tower　　

3) 专访过程中，Noona频频可爱秀中文，首度来上海，她直言自己特别兴奋，期间还特别去外滩观光，品尝了中国菜，其中一道糖藕，更让她尤为难忘。她希望有机会能再来，因为这次行程忙碌，还没机会亲自登上东方明珠塔看看。谈到最喜欢的中国明星，Noona说：“古天乐，我很喜欢看他演的《寻秦记》，还特别买了一套DVD收藏。”Noona还透露自己特别喜欢看中国功夫片，期待有机会可以尝试演打女。(文/金妮 图/Judy)

3) During the interview, Noona always speak mandarin and she is lovely. This is the first time that Noona visit Shanghai, she feel excited. In this time, Noona went to sightseeing in Shanghai, Tried some Chinese food. She love to eat "sugar lotus" and she hope to have a chance to come again. Because this trip is quite busy, she don't have time to visit Oriental Pearl Tower.
During the interview, we also talk about the Chinese star, Noona said:"I like Louis Koo, I like his TV series "A Step into the Past(尋秦記)", and I bought a set of DVD. Noona also said she love Kung Fu action move and she want to be a action movie actress in the future.

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網上最危險的留言

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網上最危險的留言 (Logan)

你知不知道你每樣 Google youtube facebook搜尋的東西都被記錄來so jo你尊屬的個人資料厙? 被你還清楚你自己的社交媒體公司然後用你作晚ling sun 3點search東西那些關鍵字, 明天下午時好適當地宣傳一種藥給你. (Use photo storytelling)
最近Netflix熱播The social dilemma講述這商業模式矛盾兩極化的天堂地獄兩邊.
一邊soing能最有效給用戶最適合的內容或資訊
另一邊soing你整個人喜好性格是這些pong大公司賺錢模式的商品.
大家好又是我暗網仔一起矛盾一生. 一方面我覺得自己個人資料像商品好恐怖. 另一方面我覺得我Youtuber也是seen動這商業模式的一份職業.

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要破解一個平平無奇的Youtube留言背後的pong大組織, 甚至跟2019年自殺美國Youtuber Etika的關連, 我們先回到2015年, 我開第一個英文頻道初期”sub for sub” 互相訂閱文化在小型Youtube頻道之間非常sing行. 之後雖然受到Youtube監管, 但對一個小Youtuber來講任何一點的認同也非常珍貴.

所以今年4月當用戶 ‘Tom’ 被揭發不分日夜到每一條上載Youtube片留同一個留言的時候不算太出奇. But ging當初Youtube監管sub for sub的原因也是因為在他人影片留言的確是增長youtube頻道的好方法.
但靈異是可能1小時前上載的新影片也會出現Tom這個留言的jung ying. 更恐怖是再ji suy一點看Tom的頻道會發現, 根本不止一個Tom. 他全部是教人如何擴大自己頻道的影片. 還有更恐怖的’Logan.” 頻道. 跟Tom一樣Logan會到每一個新加的Youtube影片留言: do you wanna be friends? 但如果你回覆, 給一個心或訂閱Logan, 你的email和Youtube就會被Hack. 而其實Tom跟Logan是同一個人.

(黑客如何hack你的?)
即使你不是youtuber, 其實只要有Youtube帳號或某程度只是有email你就可以被黑客入侵. 好多時候無論多大的Youtuber也會選擇用開台的email作商戶聯絡的工作email. 其實最好是開chit一個單獨接工商email. 黑客拿到連著大youtube頻道的email最常用的方法就是send有外出連續的訊息給你. 扮工商, google官方警告或品牌推廣promotion的email. 一按當中的連結或下載任何軟件黑客就能進行remote access tuw過你網絡控制你電腦.

之前我們認識的香港, 澳門, 馬來西亞Youtuber也遇到被hack的問題. 是否同一班人呢?

為何Tom會變Logan? 爲避免被追踪改名改頭像, 但他們url連結還是一樣
Tom之前頻道名字叫 ‘comical Canadian’ . Tom之後名字改成 ‘Call’ 然後改成發放危險留言的Logan. 最後改成一個叫Vaksy的頻道.

這些大量出現來cho subscriber的Youtube頻道目的是什麼呢? 是來經營一個叫subscriber farm的東西. 根據這個網站顯示的價錢: 就是買賣Youtube頻道的大生意.
雖然對subscribe左的觀眾是有一點麻煩, 但某程度上這做法有利可圖但不傷害別人對嗎? 直到今年5月bananarama留言頻道被揭發. 雖然 ‘蕉’ 頻道不是Tom, Logan的化身但經營手法一樣. 相信是同一班人做的. Bananarama每1小時就改名字. 他前身叫Huddy, 再前身叫Lieutenant Kiwiz. 但恐怖是看他的URL發現這頻道原身曾經是一叫 ‘stephanie’ 的頻道. 應該stephanie曾經是一個正youtuber, 然後被hack,改頭換面, 拿去賣.

網上資料有一位曾因為他們扮已死去etika開新頻道的用戶最後張整件事連到一個名Veonic的小伙子. 這位veonic和他兩個friend sinny和Marty H是Tom和bananarama的物主. 他們的business model是用方法hack一些中小型頻道/再張該頻道改頭換面/然後用一個方程式去大量留言和放一些用了一萬次的影片擴大訂閱數/在買賣網站賣給一個用家/然後因為他們是超過十萬訂yuet的頻道向Youtube幫助拿回剛賣出的頻道來jan錢.

WTF!!!!!!

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