整理一年內所看過的院線片已成為每年歲末的儀式，今年因為疫情的關係，看片量稍微減少，但還是有達到每年的目標（100部）
先謝謝一些特映會和包場邀請的片商和公司！

今年的觀影心得就是，華語片依舊很弱，相較2019年也沒有太多驚喜，倒是有些影展沒有被看見的電影滿有意思的，也蠻希望導演可以持續探索和堅持的。

以下爲2020年建議可以看片單，包括院線、修復、特別放映、影展、線上ott等...整理很久，和大家分享：

#華語電影

《金都 My Prince Edward》黃綺琳
《怪胎 I Weirdo》廖明毅
《誤殺 Sheep Without A Shepherd》柯汶利
《消失的情人節 My Missing Valentine》陳玉勳
《熱帶雨 Wet Season》陳哲藝
《蚵豐村 Ohong Village》林龍吟
《菠蘿蜜 Boluomi》廖克發、陳雪甄
《佔領立法會 Taking Back The Legislature》香港紀錄片工作者
《南巫 The Story Of Southern Islet》張吉安
《同學麥娜絲 Classmates Minus》黃敬堯
《孤味 Little Big Women》許承傑
《阿紫 The Good Daughter》吳郁瑩
《少年的你 Better Days》曾國祥
《惡之畫 The Painting Of Evil》陳永錤
《幻愛 Beyond The Dream》周冠威
《無聲 The Silent Forest》柯貞年
《叔叔 Suk Suk》楊曜愷
《刻在你心底的名字 Your Name Engraved Herein》柳廣輝
《親愛的房客 Dear Tenant》鄭有傑

#世界電影

《燃燒女子的畫像 Portrait Of A Lady On Fire》Céline Sciamma
《靈魂急轉彎 Soul》Peter Docter
《就愛斷捨離 Happy Old Year》Nawapol Thamrongrattanarit
《蘿莉破壞王 System Crasher》Nora Fingscheidt
《外出偷馬 Out Stealing Horses》Hans Petter Moland
《緝毒風暴 Just 6.5》Saeed Roustayi
《美國工廠 American Factory》Steven Bognar and Julia Reichert
《閉嘴！彈琴 Shut Up And Play The Piano》Philipp Jedicke
《少年阿罕默德 Young Ahmed》Jean-Pierre and Luc Dardenne
《寂靜之死 Begining》Dea Kulumbegashvili
《當愛離開時 After Love》Aleem Khan
《殺戮荒村 Bacurau》Kleber Mendonça Filho and Juliano Dornelles
《超級網紅真裸告白 Searching Eva》Pia Hellenthal
《看不見的目擊者 Blind Witness》森淳一
《1917》Sir Samuel Alexander
《你的鳥兒會唱歌 And Your Bird Can Sing》三宅唱
《我的媽媽開Gay Bar Stage Mother》Thom Fitzgerald
《她們 Little Women》Greta Gerwig
《千日千夜 About Endlessness》Roy Andersson
《蘋果的記憶 Apples》Christos Nikou
《小狼居家守則 The Wolves》Samuel Kishi
《戀你在他方 I Carry You With Me》Heidi Ewing
《聽見心聲音 Listen》Ana Rocha
《真實 The Truth》是枝裕和
《大地蜜語 Honeyland》Tamara Kotevska, Ljubomir Stefanov
《悲慘世界 Les Miserables》Ladj Ly

#修復電影

《阿基拉 Akira》Katsuhiro Ôtomo
《海上鋼琴師 The Legend of 1990》Giuseppe Tornatore
《末代皇帝 The Last Emperor》Bernardo Bertolucci
《藍色恐懼 Perfect Blue》今敏
《東京教父 Tokyo Godfathers》今敏
《中央車站 Central Station》Walter Salles
《美麗佳人歐蘭朵 Orlando》Sally Potter
《在黑暗中漫舞 Dancer In The Dark》Lars von Trier
《蘇州河 Suzhou River》婁燁
《教會 The Mission》Roland Joffé
《綠洲 Oasis》李滄東
《海上花 Flowers Of Shanghai》侯孝賢
《鳥人 Birdy》Alan Parker
《名揚四海 Fame》Alan Parker
《卡比莉亞之夜 Le notti di Cabiria》Federico Fellini
《八又二分之一 8 1/2》Federico Fellini
《大路 La strada》Federico Fellini
《阿瑪珂德 Amarcord》Federico Fellini
《小牛 I vitelloni》Federico Fellini
《生活的甜蜜 La dolcevita》Federico Fellini
《感官世界 In The Realm Of The Senses》大島渚
《俘虜 Merry Chirstmas,Mr.Lawrence》大島渚
《春天的故事 A Tale Of Springtime》Éric Rohmer
《夏天的故事 A Tale Of Summer》Éric Rohmer
《秋天的故事 A Tale Of Autumn》Éric Rohmer
《冬天的故事 A Tale Of Winter》Éric Rohmer

#OTT

《戀戀小情歌 God Help The Girl》Stuart Murdoch
《困獸之網 The Net》金基德
《再見了，唇 Farewell Song》塩田明彥
《你好，之華》岩井俊二
《霍爾的移動城堡 Howl’s Moving Castle》宮崎駿
《風之谷 Nausicaä of The Valley Of The Wind》宮崎駿
《再會吧！青春小鳥 Have A Song On Your Lips》三木孝浩
《不即不離 Absent Without Leave》廖克發
《心靈圍籬 Fences》Denzel Hayes Washington Jr.
《玉子 Okja》奉俊昊
《Nang Nak》Nonzee Nimibutr
《Little Voice》Mark Herman
《Electric Dreams》Steve Barron
《地下鐵 Subway》Luc Besson
《五月風暴 Après mai》Olivier Assayas
《夜晚還年輕 Tangerine》Sean Baker

#影集/ #電視劇

《闇 Dark》
《普通人 Normal People》
《好萊塢 Hollywood》
《后翼棄兵 The Queen’s Gambit》
《鬼滅の刃 Demon Slayer: Kimetsu No Yaiba》
《紙房子 La Casa De Papel》
《誰是被害者 The Victims' Game》
《返校 Detention》

感謝在全球疫情陰霾中，在台灣，仍可以在這一年進電影院看電影！2021祝福大家：平安快樂！

如何和小童有效沟通
对待幼稚园小童-大人要控制，控制吃饭晚餐、洗澡时间、睡觉玩耍、游戏的时间

对待小学儿童-大人要协助小孩
功课不会可以教一点、交朋友遇到问题可以讨论、协助小童上学、交友、亲子等

对待中学孩子- 大人就是顾问
顾问一般不在公司，但是公司有问题顾问来解决。意思是大人需要放松很多控制，不能把他当幼稚园儿童了，从旁指出问题、提供咨询和商量，引导青年走正途人生。
讲师：李启岗 #秀丽随笔
How to communicate with children?
0-6 parent need to control kids
6-12 parent need to assist kids in school, life, relationship with classmates
12-18 parent need to give advice once in awhile
Good luck parent

今天看到一則分享
好溫暖、好勵志
獻給正在跌倒、或是即將跌倒的每一位朋友

（偷偷說，版主歌聲好美❤️）

最震撼的一課---美國教室。(English Version below)

星期六早上的芭蕾課在接近尾聲的時候，老師要大家分組一起旋轉、跳躍，以優雅的舞姿穿越教室。一組接著一組，跟著優美的古典樂拍子，無論如何都要面帶笑容、華麗向前。課堂上充滿了各式各樣的學生，8歲金髮女孩、10歲中國裔女孩、12歲南亞裔女孩、23歲韓國女孩、27歲非裔女孩、29歲台妹我本人、35歲金髮男同學、40歲紅髮氣質辣媽、開心慈祥的老太太...等。而老師被稱為「派翠莎女士」則是我所見過學識最淵博、身體超菁壯、經驗特豐富、非常戲劇化、不可思議的幽默、又超級愛八卦的一位六十幾歲金髮女人，習舞超過50年，每天堅持教課六∼八小時。
在最後一組轉圈的時候，那位紅髮辣媽一時失去平衡而跌坐在地，撞出了很大的碰地一聲。她臉紅的攤攤手、難為情的一笑，擺出無可奈何的表情。而我則是立刻別過頭去，不好意思和她對到眼，因為不確定該用什麼樣的表情反應。
這時老師邊搓著雙手、邊喜孜孜地走過來對著她菁英技巧班的女孩們叫道：女孩們，在我們高級技巧班上要是有同學跌倒了我們該怎麼做呢？

這時所有年紀低於16的女孩們一起開心的拍手鼓舞起來，投以愛慕的眼光。

派翠莎女士：沒錯! 我們要拍手叫好，大家一起來! 鼓掌!!

全場一起對著那位跌倒又站起來了的辣媽微笑拍手。

派翠莎女士接著：然後這個時候呢，老師會走到其他女孩們前面，對著著他們說...

邊走邊演，對著班上最努力、最進階的一位美麗女孩，並指著辣媽說：她試過了。她勇於嘗試，冒著可能會摔倒的風險，嘗試更難的動作，為了變得更好、追求進步。

再指著其他的女孩們， 一個個問道: 你們為什麼都不去摔倒? 為什麼不去嘗試? 為什麼不敢冒險? 大家都應該向她學習，我們一起謝謝她這麼認真！

我差點淚崩。

瞬間明白了那些美國同學們臉上一直以來有的那種自信的表情從何而來。那種不管別人眼光、不怕摔倒、不怕失敗、只一心追求自己當下的努力足不足夠的每一個時刻，因為只有自己的努力是重要的，其他什麼都不值得花心思考慮。摔倒表示你在嘗試，嘗試表示你離進步更近，而感到舒服並不會讓你往前任何一點。
我好希望我小時候摔倒的時候有人這樣激勵我，並把它當成一個好的教育機會，讓大家一起更勇於嘗試。不過一切都還不遲，這是我來美國三年學到最震撼的一課。對了，再過兩天就三週年了。只想和大家分享一下，就這樣。

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#歡迎勇敢分享

The most shocking lesson - the American classroom.

At the end of the ballet class on Saturday morning, the teacher asked everyone to spin, jump, and dance through the classroom elegantly. One group after another, following the beautiful classical music tempo, no matter what happens, always smiling, and looking fabulous. The class is full of all kinds of students, 8 year old blonde girl, 10 year old Chinese american girl, 12 year old South Asian american girl, 23 year old Korean girl, 27 year old African american girl, 29 year old Taiwanese moi, 35 years old blonde male classmate, 40-year-oldish red-haired temperament hot mom, happy ladies in their fifties ...etc. The teacher is called "Ms. Patricia", who is a sixty-something blonde, the most knowledgeable woman I have seen with super-strong body, the most experienced in teaching, very dramatic, incredibly humorous, and girl, she loves to gossip. She has also been practicing ballet for more than 50 years, and insisting on teaching for six to eight hours a day.

While the very last group was finishing up their turns, the red-haired hot mom lost her balance and fell to the floor, making a bump. She blushed, and smiled a little embarrassed, making this "Voila" gesture, and then stood up. On the other hand I felt a little embarrassed for her, so I smiled nervously and soon turned my head away because I wasn't sure what kind of expression I should've been reacting.
At this time, the teacher walked over, rubbing her both hands together, looking entertained and glanced at the girls in her elite class. She shouted: Girls, what do we do when someone falls in our tech class?

All the girls under the age of 16 started to clap their hands and show genuine admiration.

Ms. Patricia: That's right! We clap! Everyone come together! Applaud!!

The audience applauded and cheered for the hot mom who stood up after she fell.

Ms. Patricia went on: Usually at this time, the teacher will go to the other girls and say...

Acting while walking over to a beautiful girl who is the most advanced in the class, and pointed to the hot mom and said: she tried. She dared to try, risking the possibility of falling, trying harder moves, in order to become better and making more progress.

Then she pointed to other girls, one by one, asking: Why don't you fall? Why don't you try? Why not taking risks? Everyone should learn from her, and we thank her for trying so hard!

I almost burst into tears.

I instantly understood where the confident expressions that have always been on the faces of American classmates came from. Every single moment, doesn't matter what other people think, do not be afraid of falling, not afraid of failure, and only try to focus on this moment of effort, are you doing enough? Because only your effort is important, and nothing else is worth worrying. Falling means you are trying, trying means that you are closer to progress, and feeling comfortable doesn't let you go any further.

I wished that someone had said something like this to motivate me when I was a child who fell hard and using it as a good educational opportunity to encourage everyone else to try. But nothing is ever too late, this is the most shocking lesson (in the best way) I have learned in the United States after almost three years. By the way, in the next couple of days it'd be three years since I moved from home.
Just wanted to share with you, this.

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