Intuitive message for the day: When you are triggered by people who don’t do what you would’ve done, it’s a gentle nudge from the Universe to reflect on yourself. People who love themselves don’t judge others. So if you’re judging, ask yourself why do you have attachments and expectations of what others should do in their life? Many claim that they are a kind soul because they would go all out for people, they would sacrifice themselves for others at the expense of their well being etc, but.. the moment someone is not able to do the same, they judge. Because these people habitually compare others to themselves. They put themselves as the “benchmark/standards”. They have not learnt how to practice true compassion and kindness and they assume kindness is something external, as in what you do for others. True kindness lies in your underlying intentions. If your intention is right, then you would not judge someone else who does things differently from you. If you habitually help everyone and judge those who don’t help out, chances are your intentions are not right. It’s coming from a people-pleasing origin that stems from the need to satisfy everyone. That leads to self-validation. The yearning for external acknowledgment fulfils the ego. It is external based and not internal based. A soul-aligned person helps others without expectations and also knows when to set boundaries when they can’t. This is TRUE KINDNESS. These group of people never judge others who don’t practice what they do as they are seeing things from the lens of self-love & compassion. They do what they can for others but also never neglect themselves.

self-validation post on learning how to cook childhood fav Chinese dishes 🎤🥄

yo now i’ve caught your attention with my push up bra🥸 Been experiencing some more lately. Social media is all fun and stuff until you get “viral”. To me, social media is a part-time job & an adventurous shithole. You can never predict how many eyes are on you at the moment. You get validation here while you can still get anonymous criticism anytime. Like when you’re in 7-11 grabbing a sandwich 5 min before work and people online can call you a whore in your inbox out of nowhere. One thing I wanna bring out is “FUCK LABELS”. I don’t wanna be named after any incidents I’ve been through. You can call me by my name but not the ripped mouth girl or the bbg girl or the LIHKG girl, etc. I’ve got a name. I’ve got a personality that u may like or dislike but I am a living individual. And this page is my place. This is where I share happiness and unhappiness and all I’m asking for is basic respect and peace. Just like what I’m doing here, I be flashing tits and legs when no one fucking asked. I’m posting these two ugly fit pics cuz it makes me feel like i’m myself again after being a fucked up piece of shit in bed and I wanna share with y’all the courage, self validation & confidence. Do whatever the fuck makes you happy without hurting anyone. Spread love not hate. Be your best self but you can trip and fall. There’s one thing I can promise you all - this page only contains straight facts and my emotional rollercoaster journey, maybe also some memes and music that I enjoy. If you can’t face the brutal reality, it’s time for you to leave. Thanks y’all that’s all I got for now. My face is all good without any surgery / injection. Just with shit tons of concealer on & no lipstick. One more thing, fuck you hypocrites & karma would be biting back any seconds ;) I’m thankful for what I have now and I don’t ask for more.