It’s always baffled me that we think it’s appropriate to remark about changes in someone’s weight when we see them... this video has been a long time coming.
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Do we think they have no mirrors in their house and they haven’t noticed?
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I’ve used a few examples here that are closest to my personal experiences, but it’s an issue that affects people young and old, skinny, fat and everything in between.
Everyone seems incapable of putting themselves in the other person’s shoes.
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It’s really fucking simple. Just shut the fuck up and keep your observations the fuck to yourself.
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Maybe it’s a dear friend and you’re concerned about what the changes in their physique indicate about their lifestyle and their happiness... well then find a way to ask them about that! There are plenty of ways to ask someone how they’re doing and if they’re taking care of themselves without highlighting how it shows to everyone who looks at them.
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I live behind the scenes these days, working with people who struggle with their physiques and as a confident for friends. I know how sensitive a subject it is, even if they don’t show it and nervously laugh off comments.
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I grew up thinking it was an Asian thing, but then I realised that in Asia people (particularly older relatives) are particularly blunt about it with “Wah, so fat now ah?” whereas in the West people like to make it a joke with a “Ooh heck, you’ve let yourself go a bit eh mate!”.
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Both parties can go fuck themselves, and I’d love it if as many of you as possible who ever get made even slightly self-conscious about such remarks would take it upon yourselves to tell them so 🖕🏽
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Spread the word. Maybe, if it happens enough, we can sway the culture.

fam din 嘅對話

me：dad我次次同人游水一想到要戴泳帽相見我就好self-conscious
dad：做人最緊要唔介意，就可以輕鬆

omg wtf is that ok dad.

I have been working on many things on many directions. Somehow I felt so down last week despite I have been making a lot of efforts. Have you been there?

But I feel pretty good today (Monday) somehow. I just kept moving forward without too much push and too much worrying.

I organized some photos and videos on my computer last night which I really wanted to do. I kept working out everyday even small amount of time.

Especially musicians and creative people are so self conscious about ourselves! Please be kind to yourself and take it easy! Don’t think too much and don’t worry! You are doing good! Little tiny efforts everyday and sometimes you don’t feel any improvement but that’s very normal!

Especially if you see social media too much then it’s so easy to compare yourself others so I alway say this. Don’t compare! Don’t expect too fast! Be patient is the key to success.

One thing was a great decision for me last week. I booked photo session two days with my friend @vicbrazen Vic is not only a talented photographer but he is a sweet human being! That’s so important for me as a person! Be a nice person behind guitar playing! We got so many great photos to share with you!

How about this one? I am standing in front of my big shed behind my house. I never ever though this shed is good for my photo! @vicbrazen had a great 👁 and wonderful 💡 with my @kanjikawabata #kanjiguitar ...

Hope everyone have a good Monday!! I am so thankful today!!

#monday #mondaymood #mondaymotivation #dontworry #dontcompare #dontexpecttoofast #bekindtoyourself #takeiteasy #keepupthegoodwork #beanicehuman #beaniceperson #kanjiguitar #guitar #redguitar #guitarphotography #guitarphotos #guitarphoto #shed #backyard #guitarphotoshoot #thankful #grateful #guitarwisdom #vicbrazen #tomofujita

詞Lyrics：毛恩Morpheus
曲Composer：毛恩Morpheus
編曲Beat Arrangement :證介
製作Producer：阿吉A JI
錄音Recording Engineer : 阿吉A JI
混音Mixing：阿吉A JI
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人都是自私的產物，都會做出對自己對好的決定
你可以選擇在谷底沉淪，不斷輪迴
或選擇放下過去，變成更好的自己。
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Its not a fairytale but true story in life
feels like nightmare corrupt me a hundred times
destiny is brutal no matter how I tried
whispers from the devil interferes my mind
she’s the redemption the antidote just arrived
Heart beat was taken didn’t even realize
Give me love the best present of all time
Bring me courage to face the fear deep inside

Things changed without awareness unexpected
Losing faith no doubt dramatic got abandoned
all assumes ain't no truth don’t know how to do
Damn I’m screwed no more clue difficult to choose I
Can’t read between the lines may be foolish or blind
hard to see through what’s behind this made me terrified
after all the pain its all in vain
I loved u once but nothing remained

There is no more turning back Pearl harbor under attack
Now its time to fight it back no more questions need to ask
Better watch out every step its gonna end up bloody
Hand down something before death missile launcher is ready

I’m drown its dark and still fallin’
the world is in slow motion
light it up flames on you can feel my surge
Strike out enemy down killin like this purge
Its dawn here comes a new legend risin’
Setting up a revolution
You’ll be getting a taste of your own medicine.
Revenge is never too late for all that u have done

Same surroundings different feelings is confusing me
keep on lying she starts crying saying sorry please
Hands tied in this combat relationship is complex
u got hurt from ur ex and choose me to hurt next
Frustration and compassion I’m stuck inside the middle
struggle in my self-conscious let me make it more simple
My girl's been playing games make sure she’s gonna pay for it
I Gotta move and make moves its time I buy my ticket

Bounce back from depression from all bad moods
looking forward to the future make dreams come true
Its Now or never cover the scars with new tattoos
Rebirth comes after the darkness we passed through
Grinding all my life building up my own business
Not even scared of height watch you all hater speechless
show no mercy bitch im sorry there will be no-where safe
I’ll be watchin can’t stop laughin u dig ur own grave

lion is waken new king comin can’t be tamed crowds all insane
Im a monster getting higher lips on fire I’m spitting flame
Bad decision how dare u messin with a beast broke down the cage
In position my gun is aiming pull the trigger blow up ur face

Im drown its dark and I’m still fallin
the world is in slow motion
light it up flames on you can feel my surge
Strike out enemy down killin like this purge
Its dawn here comes a new legend risin’
Setting up a revolution
You’ll be getting a taste of your own medicine.
Revenge is never too late for all that u have done

one day when u try to keep someone close
this curse shows and leave u on your own
u are not innocent
but a player with prayer hands till the end
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#trap#hiphop#infinitecycle

AWESOME NEWS! So Ghoopshi (the dermaroller brand I used) JUST contacted me and offered a 10% discount code. Visit: https://www.ghoopshi.com/discount/Bubz?redirect=%2Fproducts%2Fdermaskin and use 'BUBZ' at checkout.


Hello everyone!

Ok, I love being a mummy and I love my little ones but cannot deny that the pregnancies took a toll on my body and confidence.

I’ve never been shy to show how my saggy tummy as I knew it was just one of the many faces of post pregnancy. I was never ashamed of my body because I was so flipping proud of what it could do so why should I hide it? In fact, it felt so freeing and liberating to share to people around me.

That’s not to say thatI don’t get bad days. I’ve never been so upset with my saggy belly that I’ve cried or fell into depression but I did realise I would be self conscious in the bedroom. My mentality was, if there was something I can do about it, why not? Still, surgical treatment was never something I took seriously on my radar. I couldn’t afford the recovery time and mentally and physically, I knew I was not strong enough to go through with it. Then my cosmetic surgeon friend asked me if I tried derma rolling on my body.

I’ve previously heard wonderful results from those who used it on their acne scars and fine lines but never have I pondered with the idea of derma rolling my tummy. It was relatively low cost and at this rate, I figured I’ll have nothing to lose since my tummy was already a lost cause. So I went on a 6 month journey and decided to document the results.

The results have been positively surprising. I never expected my tummy to go back to it’s former glory but I can do see the subtle changes throughout the months of rolling. I’ve recently progressed on to a 2mm roller. I’m going to keep rolling and we will see how things look in another 6 months time.

Maybe there is somebody out there just like me so here I am sharing this video.

Edit:
I've had some questions asking if my exercising helped to improve the appearance of my tummy. My exercising certainly helped to tighten my muscles (improved my muscle separation by MILES) but it did not improve the appearance of my skin. You can look up the affects on exercise and saggy skin online too but the short answer is, it cannot stimulate production of new skin. If exercising did the job for me (and others who hit their fitness goals), many would not resort to tummy tucks. I actually started rolling in June and it was at the height of my fitness where I was working out at least 4-5 times a week and eating most clean yet my stomach was still visibly wrinkly. I don't work out as often (about twice a week) and intense as before and I am still seeing my tummy improve bit by bit. I KNOW my skin feels smoother too and exercise cannot do this. I hope this helps.

NOTE: This video reveals my very own experience and so please understand that results will be different for everybody. I’m not encouraging everyone to run and buy a derma roller. I invite you to watch this video with an open mind. I researched for weeks before I made the purchase of a roller. If you do decide to try out derma rolling, never ever share your derma rollers and make sure you put hygiene and safety first.


AWESOME NEWS! So the Ghoopshi (the brand I used for my derma rollers) eventually contacted me and offered a discount code;


Best of luck everyone!!!

Music by MJ Lee: https://mjleedot.com/

Love, Lindy









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我放空吃着拉麫 如果今天
可以看到你的臉
And my heart started to race
And my hands started to shake, yeah
I heard you asked about me through a friend
我的心藏快不行
'Cause I've been askin' 'bout you too
And now we're out here in this room




就是有點緊張around you
不要說我誇張 when I think about you
Get a little excited
Baby, when I think about you, yeah




放開你的雙手 around you (I talk a little too much, yeah)
想起你的微笑 (I get a little self-conscious)
When I think about you
Get a little excited (I get a little excited)
Baby, when I think about you
Yeah, when I think about you, babe




窗外下着雨
你聼着歌經過了窗邊
心裡偷偷告訴我
其實你也在意我
And I'm not usually like this
But I like what you're doing to me
Ah, what you're doing to me




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