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同時也有1部Youtube影片，追蹤數超過38萬的網紅CH Music Channel，也在其Youtube影片中提到，《daydream》 for ロンリー / 致孤獨 / for lonely 作詞 / Lyricist：阿部真央 作曲 / Composer：阿部真央 編曲 / Arranger：玉井健二・大西省吾 歌 / Singer：Aimer with 阿部真央 翻譯：澄野（CH Music Channel...
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【#編輯ooxx】 昨天下三場急雨，我剛跑完一圈體育館外圍，只得穿上雨衣回去，車子甫到巷口，雨停了，思量片刻我又掉轉頭騎車回去，想說神啊，再跑兩圈就好、好不好。 跟自己辯論很累，一下子懷疑自己是不是真有病，而且是永遠不會好起來那種病。一下子又想好好照顧自己，就算是自己理虧的情緒，也想好好理解自己，...
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2021-06-16 02:42:13
People come and go. People do tell you stories you want to hear, when the time comes, words can become promises, and promises can become lies. When ...
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2020-08-06 19:00:08《daydream》
for ロンリー / 致孤獨 / for lonely
作詞 / Lyricist：阿部真央
作曲 / Composer：阿部真央
編曲 / Arranger：玉井健二・大西省吾
歌 / Singer：Aimer with 阿部真央
翻譯：澄野（CH Music Channel）
意譯：CH（CH Music Channel）
English Translation: Thaerin
背景 / Background - 私には君の味がわからない - おむたつ :
https://www.pixiv.net/artworks/74584294
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中文翻譯 / Chinese Translation :
https://home.gamer.com.tw/creationDetail.php?sn=4872250
英文翻譯 / English Translation :
https://www.lyrical-nonsense.com/lyrics/aimer/for-lonely-with-mao-abe/
日文歌詞 / Japanese Lyrics :
大好きな人 君はどう思う？
些細なことでぶつかり合う僕らを
僕の意地っぱりも 君の強がりも
全部会えないことのせいにしてしまおう
大好きな人 知っているか？
今日も君への想いで僕は揺れてる
ちょっととぼけた 可愛い人
今君に会いたくて僕は泣いてる
触れられない 触れ合えないことに かなり参ってる
不安なんだよ Baby 口にはできないけど
抱き締めたなら ただそれだけで済んでしまうことなのに
for ロンリー
大好きな人 なんでそう思う？
自分ばかりが好きなんじゃないかって
驚いたよ 大好きな人
今の僕にその言葉はないだろう？
電話越し 突然に泣き出す君にどぎまぎしている
どうしろっての Baby こんなに好きなのに…
他の何かじゃ 満たせそうにないから困っているのに
for ロンリー
for ロンリー
for ロンリー
大半が 下らない
すれ違い 想い合うが故の憂さ
抱き締めたなら ただそれだけで済んでしまうことなのに
for ロンリー
for ロンリー
Lonely you
Lonely girl
Lonely you
中文歌詞 / Chinese Lyrics :
最摯愛的人，你是怎麼想的呢？
因微不足道的小事而爭吵的我們
將我那不退讓的固執和你那不認輸的逞強
全歸在無法相見的錯上吧
我那最摯愛的人，你知道嗎？
今日又因對你的思念使我的心難以平復
有些許笨拙且可愛的人
我因過於渴望與你相見而落淚
無法觸及你、無法彼此相觸，使我十分挫折懊惱
「我其實很不安，Baby。」即使這種話難以說出口
即便僅是彼此緊緊相擁，便能令我感到滿足
致這份孤獨
我那最摯愛的人，為何會這麼認為呢？
「僅有你任性地沉浸在自己的世界。」
我很驚訝，我那最摯愛的人
為什麼你這時候能對我說出那種傷人的話？
電話那頭，因突然哭出聲的你而深感焦慮慌張
你是想要我怎麼做才好，Baby？明明我是如此地喜歡你......
明明除了你以外，不再有任何事物可以滿足我的內心，令我百般困擾
致你承擔的孤獨
致我擔負的孤獨
致這份屬於兩人的孤獨
其實全都是些枯燥乏味的事
心中的陰鬱全因彼此交錯擦身的思念而生
即便僅是彼此緊緊相擁，便能令我感到滿足
致孤獨
致這份孤獨
致孤單的你
致孤單的女孩
致孤單的你
英文歌詞 / English Lyrics :
Dear, my beloved. What do you think
About us fighting over the slightest things?
Let’s blame my stubbornness, and your false strength,
On the fact we can’t see one another right now.
Dear, my beloved. Did you already know
That even today, I’m still shaken by my feelings for you?
You slightly aloof, precious thing…
Wishing to see you, I’m steeped in tears.
I’m pretty defeated, unable to touch you… and be touched by you.
I’m feeling so uneasy, baby… though I can’t quite speak the words.
Even though it would solve everything… if you just took me in your arms.
Dear, my beloved. Why is it you think
That I’m merely self-absorbed?
I’m so surprised, my beloved –
You shouldn’t be able to say those things to me now…
From the other side of the phone, I’m getting flustered from your outburst of tears.
What do you expect me to do, baby? Despite loving you this much…
I’m in a bind ’cause I can’t imagine anything fulfilling me like you do.
Most of our reasons are foolish;
This melancholy is born of crossed wires and caring intent.
Even though it would solve everything… if you just took me in your arms.![post-title]()
self-absorbed 在 寶瓶文化 Facebook 的最佳貼文
【#編輯ooxx】
昨天下三場急雨，我剛跑完一圈體育館外圍，只得穿上雨衣回去，車子甫到巷口，雨停了，思量片刻我又掉轉頭騎車回去，想說神啊，再跑兩圈就好、好不好。
跟自己辯論很累，一下子懷疑自己是不是真有病，而且是永遠不會好起來那種病。一下子又想好好照顧自己，就算是自己理虧的情緒，也想好好理解自己，可是要站在自己這邊其實好難，我從小被訓練得很徹底，站在自己這邊的念頭都是自私，為自己花掉的時間都是無恥，想取悅自己的念頭都是卑鄙。我連躺在沙發上看一部只有自己一人想看的電影都沒法子輕鬆、深感愧疚，我沒有去陪任何人，或是讓任何人高興，居然可恥的把時間用在自己身上。
騎回體育館，第二場急雨又下下來，我只得又騎回去。
辯論一整天，而且我不知道那一邊是對的，我很急，我很煩，我很需要一場放空的跑步，或是一整包菸，而我已經戒菸一整年。過去我自暴自棄跌到厭棄人生之際我開始抽菸，——我允許，在尋死與抽菸之間做選擇，我選抽菸。在這種前提下任誰都配抽根菸。
但在尋常日子裡的我、還配抽菸嗎，這個抽菸的理由夠充分嗎？會不會其實很自私。很怕自己是一個自私的人。
很想抽菸，但不確定可以抽。這一類的問題常常困擾著我。
去歐洲玩的時候我多喜愛旅館外有一個小露台，倚在樓上的矮鐵柵欄上，看街景或遠處的夜景抽根菸，在人煙中又在人煙外，是我最想複製的事物之一，台灣沒有這種公寓。
而今我自己住，我有個小露台，街景不怎麼美，但遼闊，而且安靜。遺世獨立，只可惜我遲遲無法決定能不能抽根菸，我很焦慮。
忽然想起很久以前，同事搖撼著我很想把我罵醒的一天，她說你去讀《被剝削的童年》。
我後來讀了，總是不勝負荷，不用編輯的角度去讀一本書（其實編輯會議前我已經讀過），而是用覺察者的心情去讀它，便覺得有無數的拳頭掄到自己身上，無數的碎豆花澆在臉上，還有一些理解在裡面，好像書裡的句子也參與過我的一些事、如同目擊者。
推薦給老是一直掙扎，無法決定一些小事，掙扎的很累的人——《被剝削的童年——如何面對自戀型父母, 修復童年創傷, 迎向新生 Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-Up's Guide to Getting Over Narcissistic Parents (2 Ed.)》
（後記，這原本我是某一天的日記，如今似乎比較放膽，掀開一直企圖掩飾的事，曾經生存的很糟也許不是我的過失吧，也許不用掩飾吧。我還是沒決定我可不可以抽根菸。）
（小娘）
self-absorbed 在 Facebook 的最佳解答
Be Who You Are, Not What Others Want You To Be!❤
Why are you single? When are you going to get married? When are you having kids? Why you don't have kids? Why is she/he divorced? What happened to them? Why are they like that? Why and why and why people like to ask these insensitive questions, being prejudice, stereotyping, speculates, gossips, and make inappropriate judgments.
How can you ask something that someone can't 100% control, just like death? Some things are unknown, it's like asking, when are you going to die? It's common sense. If you don't know this answer, means you won't know the exact why for such questions.
When someone is single by choice or it's not just the right time for them, let it be. So what if that person wants to be or will be single forever? It may be better for the person than being with the wrong partner for the rest of the person's life. You don't meddle with God's plan or even someone's choices. You can't force people to get into relationships, what's more marriage. If it is forced, how can a marriage be happy and whole? Love is a huge topic. Again it's not just about relationships and marriage.
People should not pretend to be stupid, play dumb, needy, spoiled, or fake just to attract/be with a life partner. Women and men should have their own intelligence, personality, independence, and truthfulness in life. We want to be real and genuine, and if someone wants us to be part of their life, it's better for them to know the real us from the get-go. Not presenting a false front.
A healthy relationship should be two individuals who love and care for each other, support, motivate, respect, be kind, honest, loyal, help, guide, communicate well, listen and give the very best to each other, by also being the best version of themselves. Not one person should be superior to the other or vice versa. If you feel forced and put yourself down for another person, you are probably in the wrong relationship.
Put aside status, education level, salary, or position in career, a partner and a healthy relationship should be side by side, be supportive, help each other, understand each other strengths and weaknesses, able to give and take/compromise, and open to learning from each other when it comes to marriage or any relationship.
A woman's or man's characteristics for example being soft or strong, and men prefer soft/more feminine women, and women who are less intelligent/educated than them, should not be generalized. Some men admire women who are intelligent/educated, strong, and independent and women have their preferences too. Different people are attracted to different traits. No one size fits all.
No one should pretend to be less than she/he is for the opposite partner to feel desirable or dominant. If a person desperately and constantly trying to boost their ego, be dominant or prove power especially in a relationship, this may lead to negative behavioral patterns and impacts such as emotional instability, harassment, abuse, bullying, verbal and physical violence, unhappiness, and depression.
We are all individuals in the end and have our differences. As a human being, one of the goals in life is trying to be better than we were yesterday. Trying to change ourselves for the sake of pleasing someone and pretending just to make someone feel happy or superior is not healthy and can jeopardize our own mental health and also the relationship in the long run.
If we want to change something, for example, I want to be more fitter, healthier, happier, smarter, financially independent, and so forth, it is for ourselves (without being selfish or self-absorbed). If we take care of ourselves first then we can take care of others better. Do for yourself and the motivation will be sustainable than doing for other people.
Respect and love yourself. Respect the people around you. Then we should not be degrading or intimidate anyone. This will make you a better person. We attract what we are.
Life is unique, so does human beings. Life itself is bigger than getting married, having kids, make tons of money, and so forth. This is the typical life cycles, stages and goals we all have learned in our life. The strong pressures in society dictate what is better and not just because that's what it is for the past generations have been. The pressure to fit in with society's standards and expectations is also there.
As a society and individual, let's understand deeper that not everyone will have the same life cycles and even life goals. There are things we can control and can't control. Not everything that is good for you is going to be good for other people. Having or not having something can be a blessing and sometimes only God knows why.
In life, some may walk their path of life and make choices completely different from us and that's perfectly fine. We all have our own unique journey and that makes us different, and we can use that differences to make life better for ourselves and the life of others.
Let this sink in.
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self-absorbed 在 Facebook 的最佳貼文
People come and go. People do tell you stories you want to hear, when the time comes, words can become promises, and promises can become lies.
When we get closer to people, trust their actions and character. Not everybody is your friend. Not everybody loves you. Not everyone has a big heart as you do. When people treat you like an option, believe them. Continue to be real even if it takes you one step at a time.
When you put other people first, you have thought them you come second. So put yourself first in whatever you do (without becoming selfish or self-absorbed), because at the end of the day, you are responsible to live and take care of yourself, not others.
There might be several individuals in your life that will support, motivate and go through hurdles with you, so keep them close, and closer. The haters, mean, fake people and those who talk behind your back, ignore them, behind your back are exactly where they belong.
Be a person of value wherever you go and the right people will follow.💓
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