However at that time, I didn't really want to have any special relationship. Although I liked him as person, I was only open for friendship. It took me a while to really open up to him and accepted him as someone more. He definitely did a lot in the beginning- the chasing, the ignores, unreplied texts and stuff. But in the end, he was still there patiently trying and waiting for me to open the door. Never once he rushed me for anything. Always told me it's okay, I didn't need to answer right away. He had always treated me with respect. Along the way I'd learned that he's the most dedicated, consistent and a hardworking person. And he's a direct person. He knows what he wants and he goes for it. He was the first one who confessed first and asked me to be his girlfriend. I remember he said that I didn't have to say yes or respond to him right away. When he met my family, he told them he would marry me within 2 years and that just showed how serious he was about us. He told me he wanted me to be his last. To be honest, I did doubt that I mean pfft men always say things right? The thing is, he's honest with me. He's always very honest. He tells me everything and he never makes me doubt his feelings for me. Back then he never failed to text me every morning before he went off to work and when he got off, not once. He would come and meet me on every off day, sometimes even on his working day if he missed me that much. So many things to list out and these little things are the ones that eventually made me fall for him. Slowly falling head over heels for the man that he is. I was never attracted to over-coated flirty words, luxury or gifts. I prefer directness, effort and gestures. I told him firmly in the beginning that I didn't want his money because I could buy whatever I want on my own. I forbade him from buying things for me except for treating me food which he always happily did. ❤️

🐉簡單. 直接. 自由. 🐉 Simplicity. Directness. Freedom.

如果我視整個世界也是家人，我只可能直接。對任何人也同等直接。 直接不等同於無禮，其實因為尊重，所以不會轉彎末角。尊重的是你是很棒的；而我也是沒有多餘時間去假裝。 我絕對不會因為陌生人、甚至對有好感的對象去「扮」一個不是自己但想做的人，對不起，我不會這樣不尊重你，更也無法這樣不尊重自己。 你要聽我的直言？這就是願意去接受我和其實，更重要是你對自己的愛。 19/10 的有型快樂女人課程，有我和廖生的直接對話。我們的婚姻和關係就是由每天更去加深直接。報名啦。 If I treat the whole world as family, I can only express honestly and directly, equally with everyone. Communicating this way is not disrespect, actually it is because of respect that I do not beat around the bush. What I respect is that you are awesome and very capable and I respect my time to not pretend. I would not because of anyone such as a stranger or even someone I have feelings for, become someone I want to be but am not, I could not disrespect you this way nor myself. If you accept my way of communication, you are just accepting my love, but more importantly, you are accepting your own love. 19/10 the class of 有型快樂女人 will have an honest and open conversation with Tavin Liu and Adele Liu. Our marriage and relationship is based on this directness. Register now. . . . #NeverTooMuch #LoveIsNotWhatYouThinkItIs #Relationship #LoveBomb #NeverHoldBack Photography: Winnie Mok