我早排先見到個case係interview好滿意，但做完reference check唔請😅

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試過有一位candidate曾經對住我喊，因為我哋傾緊佢上一份工。呢個女仔好坦白咁話自己其實係被炒，原因係得罪咗個上司，處處被針對。

其實佢張reference letter並冇mention係炒魷魚抑或自己走，不過佢愈講愈委屈，愈講愈激動，情緒開始崩潰，喊到完全收唔到聲，我就忙住遞紙巾畀佢。

當時我同佢講嘅說話，正正係呢個IG post嗰幾句：「保持正面就得，見工時唔好bad-mouth前任老闆同埋同事，最重要係代入對方心態，佢或者會認同你之前嘅慘痛經歷，但同時一定會想像你第日離開佢公司，又會向下一任僱主唱佢哋。」

安排咗佢上去我個客度interview，對方HR見完後打畀我：「嘩，你個candidate好慘喎，上一份工畀個阿head針對，頭先係咁喊，我安慰佢嘅時間仲多過做interview。」

我都心知不妙，盡力sell啦！Focus返candidate嘅工作能力，又講下際遇啲嘢乜乜乜，不過HR最後都揀咗另一位應徵者。

個HR同我講：「如果係真都幾慘嘅，問題係佢嘅抗壓能力似乎麻麻地，我驚第日招架唔住我哋啲客，同埋呢，前上司點解淨係針對佢一個嘅？」

前上司未必只係針對佢一個，但係呢啲interview嘅場合，你又可以解釋到幾多？而從HR嘅語氣中可以聽得出有懷疑，合理嘅，嚴格嚟講佢兩個係唔相識，頂盡咪做咗幾十分鐘「朋友」，你又期望佢會幾體諒同埋幾信任你吖～～

有心事、有鬱結、有冤屈，唔係叫你收埋喺心，只係呢啲嘢同自己朋友或者親人講就夠㗎喇！Interview絕對唔係同對方傾心同申冤嘅場合，更加唔值得因為對前公司嘅恨意，糟蹋咗加入另一間新公司嘅機會。

當然，我知道總有人係照鬧舊公司都一樣有人請，故此以上係講一般情況，講緊穩陣嘅方式同應對，唔係個個咁好彩去interview會撞到一個陪你同悲同喜嘅HR嘛！

講舊公司嘅缺點同埋不足係可以嘅，謹記一樣嘢就得－－－「對事不對人」❤️

Peh Bercabang :( Moga kita jaga lidah kerana ia akan dihisab. Hanya orang kena mulut jahat sedara sahaja faham pedihnya, sabar sahaja.
Peh Branched :(May we take care of our tongue because it will be given. Only people who have bad mouth understand the pain, just be patient.Translated

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Have you ever spent time with someone and you feel like your energy has been drained? If all that person do most of the time is to bad-mouth someone, or judge your life or discourage you from achieving what you truly want, then you're with a toxic person.


Trust me, I don't mind spending a fortune to just STAY AWAY from this type of people.






Why You Should Avoid Toxic People?


1. They will drain your positive energy


Constant negativity from them creates a very negative vibe. So you won't feel lifted or elevated with their presence in your life. Them complaining about their life, giving up easily and always blaming others will create a very bad vibe around you.


It will feel completely opposite when you're with positive people. They will elevate your energy and make you not to give up easily and ask you to keep trying when things don't go how it should be.














2. They alter your thinking


Toxic people have their way to your brain where they will make you believe that it's better to give up than to try other ways. The more you spend your time around them, the more you will start to behave like them. Basically, your attitude will be changed.


You will be prone to do the bare minimum as you don't have the energy to fight the negative vibe. As I have mentioned earlier, congratulations, your energy has been fully sucked by those toxic people.






3. They love drama


Have you seen a group of people get together and gossip about others? They are toxic! Positive people usually won't have time to ridicule or gossip about others. They will be more into knowing your progress or they will be sharing their experiences and talk about beneficial stuff than waste the time to talk bad about others.


You grow with positive people and your growth will come to a halt with toxic people.












How I identify toxic people?


Once you feel like somebody is giving you the negative vibes, pressuring you to do something you're not comfortable with, or creating too much unnecessary drama, then they are toxic,


It's time to avoid them.










Have you been with toxic people before? Comment below on your experiences!

#DLLM Charity Part 3! Many people have given everything in their life for charity but their motives and morals are being questioned by the others. I really don’t understand those people with bad mouth, so what have you done to help? Typing?

其實做慈善的事情不容易，拿了大家的捐款要提心吊膽，怕不見，怕人懷疑，怕交給錯的人。然後還要被外界質疑，攻擊．．．

這種事情我現在完全可以感同身受，我之前開演唱會說了要把盈利捐出去，結果演唱會結束一個禮拜後，就開始要被一些人質問，窮追猛打錢的下落，一直到我把紀錄片放出來才罷休。然而他們連一句道歉都沒有，謠言就像潑出去的水，再也收不回了．．．然而更妙的是，我把影片公開了之後，卻又有人來批評說我拍紀錄片是為了作秀，假好心，真的很無言，進退兩難。
我平時做善事是不公開的，這一次這麼做是為了想給大家一個交代。然而讓我欣慰的是，這些慈善團體因為我的影片而被更多人看到了，因此能得到更多的關注和幫忙，我覺得就夠了。

你要求別人公開所有的帳目在網路上是很好笑的事情，難到去7-11買東西的帳單都要全部拍照放在網路上，一個月就有上千張帳單要怎樣公布呢？一些沒有帳單的店家或攤位買的東西，甚至還有一些under table給黑白兩道解決問題的，一樣沒有帳單，又要怎樣公開呢？

我建議各位，當你把錢捐出去了，就代表你信任他們，也就不需要再去質疑別人了。就算別人買名車買房子，也可能是他自己做生意成功買的，做慈善團體的不代表就不能有自己的事業，不代表不能賺錢對吧。不如你先想清楚，你捐錢給人是要給人家方便？還是為了刁難別人？信就捐，不過問也不懷疑，不信那就不要捐，就這麼簡單。別人做到半死，犧牲了多少時間和精神，你永遠都不知道．．．

大家看了三集，我們一共去了十幾個地方，接下來我們還剩下一半的行程準備要走下去。敬請期待吧！

喔對了，我前兩天舉辦了歌唱比賽，接下來我們會捐出一萬塊給三位獲勝的朋友，然後幫他們把錢捐給他們指定的慈善團體，想參加比賽的朋友，詳情這裡 ＞＞＞https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LEL73aPBDDI

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「影片裡的慈善中心資料」：
1. 老人院 Pertubuhan Kebajikan Warga Emas Emmanuel Taiping (The Golden Home)
Contact: 012-556 8245
Bank Acc: Maybank 5083-0021-4554
Address: No.61, Jalan Unta, Kawasan Rumah Hijau, 34000 Taiping, Perak.

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2. 孤儿院 Pertubuhan Penyayang Chi Yun
Contact: 012-483 9988
Bank Acc: Maybank 5573-2605-0571
Address: 1653, Lorong Nenas 1, Jalan Pengkalan, Bukit Tengah 14000 Bukit Mertajam.

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3. 吉中慈恩殘障協會 Persatuan Orang Cacat Ci En Kedah Tengah
Contact: 017-460 6880
Bank Acc: Hong Leong Islamic Bank 0440-100-4508
Address: No. 126, Tingkat Bawah, Taman Kampian, Jalan Sekerat, Sungai Petani, 08000, Sungai Petani, Kedah.

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4. 蓮花生慈愛之家 Padmasambhawa Children Loving Association Klang Selangor
Contact: 017-256 4732
Bank Acc: UOB Bank 126-3000-310
Address: No. 23 & 25, Jalan Harmoni 1B/KU3, Krital Klang Commercial Centre, Batu Belah, 41400 Klang.

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