TOXIC THINGS WE’RE (girls) TAUGHT ABOUT SHAADI - Disclaimer: All these are my personal opinions. If you disagree with any of these, feel free to comment down below. - “Bacha karlogi tou future secure hojaefa” This one’s a classic. I’ve been listening to this since a very early age from different women in my life. Kay shaadi kay pehle saal mei bacha karlogi tou shohar kahin nai jaega. What does that mean? Are we not enough for this man’s loyalties & faithfulness? Was not leaving our homes & family enough? Why do we have to depend on another life in order to get the bare minimum? This needs to stop. ✋ “Talaaq shuda larkion ko boorhay aadmi he milte hain” This one’s majorly used to scare us. To not ever consider divorce. To keep suffering & compromising. Jab shaadi karte hway khuda nay joriyon mei banaya tha tou talaaq kay badh 2sri shaadi kee bhe tou jori banai he hogi? “24 saal se bari larkion ko achay rishtey nai milte” As if ek acha rishta he ek 24 saal se choti bandi ki sabse bari achievement hogi? Again, yeh bhe sirf humare andar ek darr payda kerne kay lye kaha jaata hai. “ Larkion ka asal ghar usska susraal hota hai “ GOD KNOWS HOW MUCH I HATE THIS. Matlab ek bandi ne apni zindagi kay 18-20 saal ek gher mei guzaaray with her parents & siblings and now you’re telling her it was never her house? I’m so glad that my parents never believed in this. Your daughter’s already leaving her house to go & live in a new house & a new family. I swear this is the last thing she needs to hear. I know my mama baba’s gher will forever be my gher too & I know they’ll have my back hemesha. . . . #reel #browngirlproblems #trends #tiktok #desiculture #brownculture #desiparents #desimom #brownparentsbelike #tiktokindiaofficial #sanyayx #sanyayxbeauty #indianparenting #pakistanimedia #tiktokpakistan

G I F T Considering they stock over 200 kinds of single origin, blended and flavoured coffees, I think the “Navigator Coffee Bag Taster” is a smart way to get acquainted and find your bearings in the big, big world of @bachacoffeeofficial. Thoughtfully curated, I counted 10 different types of coffee bags in the gorgeous golden box (if that doesn’t scream “great gift idea” I don’t know what does) containing coffee originating from South America to Africa and Asia. To top it off, the packaging design is such that brewing a cup of coffee couldn’t get any easier. Which is, as you probably know, of utmost importance since we tend to do that half-asleep 😆. If you’re keen to buy it for yourself or as a gift, please visit the Bacha stores at @ion_orchard or in the basement of @takashimayasg. Alternatively, you can shop online by tapping on @bachacoffeeofficial’s link-in-bio. #veronicaphuadrinks #veronicaphuaeats #bachacoffee #bachacoffeesg #readytodrink #coffeesg #caffeine #burpproved #burppletastemaker #burpple #sgfoodies #sgfoodie #instasg #coffeelover #coffeetime #instacoffee #coffeesg #foodiesofinstagram #coffeegram #foodie #singapore #cafesg #ionorchard #takashimayasg

If you love coffee don’t come to this place however if you are into dessert and selfie this is your heaven#bacha