【別以爲孩子不完美就不能有自己的成功】
Don't Assume That An Imperfect Child Will Never Have His Own Success

我教書，從小學到中學級別，斷斷續續有十年。

我學命理堪輿超過十五年。

在我家族裡的孩子，還未到十歲，每個幾乎都有十八般武藝，生活能力特別強，就算是女生也特別獨立。

因為這幾種經驗的結合，對於如何栽培孩子的潛能我特別有心得。

在我眼裡，每個人都是佛，所以有無限的可能，孩子也一樣。

但諷刺的是，有時父母反而成為孩子的絆腳石。他們會把自己思維的侷限套在孩子的身上，斷了孩子未激發出來的潛能。

怎麼會這樣？

因為父母本身的八字潛能，也從來沒有被他們的父母激發過，因此成了這惡性循環。在忙於工作和兼顧家庭的無頭蒼蠅日子裡，他們又有何能耐和知識去做這些看似吃力不討好的事呢？

我批的孩童八字當中，有自閉兒、過動兒，有先天缺陷如聽力障礙、語言障礙等，學習過程會比一般孩子來得艱辛。

孩子還未進小學，要嘛就是父母因為這孩子而影響了婚姻，要嘛就父母覺得這孩子不行了，將來做什麼工作就將就吧！

今世的先天缺陷是前世惡因結的果，不該代表孩子的這一世就是死刑。

六歲前為孩子看八字和風水，對孩子的學習人生有很大的補助。三歲前，更佳。

破繭而出的蝴蝶，才能展翅高飛，而不是你打著真愛的口號，拿把剪刀去剪破毛毛蟲的繭。

父母是孩子的第一任老師，如果你們不懂得改善自己的命，你的孩子也會很容易向命運低頭。

愛孩子，就請告訴他們，人生的選項沒有必要鎖在ABCD，我們可以自己創造XYZ。

成功不只是有一種定義。

無論您是一位老師還是一位家長，我大力推薦大家去看這部適合一家大小一起看，由鄧超主演，挑戰我們華人社會對教育和親情習以為常的觀念的大陸電影《銀河補習班》。

看了之後，深入的去思考：我們追求有個孩子真正的意義應該是什麼？

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I have ten years of intermittent teaching experience, from primary school level to secondary school level.

I have also learnt Chinese Metaphysics for over 15 years.

In my family, before the age of ten, almost every child would have acquired a lot of life skills. Even the girls in our family are especially independent.

Because of these myriad experiences, I have my unique insight on how to cultivate the potential of children.

I see everyone as a Buddha, thus having infinite potential. The same goes for children.

Yet ironically, sometimes parents, the people who proclaimed the loudest that they love their children, are the exact ones who tripped their children in Life. They impose their limiting mindset on their children, disrupting the undiscovered potential of their children.

Why so?

Because the potential in the adults' Bazi was also never unearthed by their parents, thus forming a vicious cycle. In the daily grind of juggling family and work, running around like a headless chicken, how will they have the patience and knowledge to do such seemingly thankless acts?

In the children's Bazi I have analysed, some have autism, ADHD, listening or speech disabilities etc. Their learning process will understandably be more difficult than normal children.

Thus even before the child enters primary school, the parents would either face marriage disharmony or think that the child should just settle for any decent job in the future.

Born disabilities of this life are the fruits of our past-life karmic deeds, but this should not mark a death penalty in the child's destiny this lifetime.

To get the child's Bazi analysed and Feng Shui audited before age 6 can have enormous positive effects on the child's learning path. Even better if before age 3.

The butterfly that breaks out of its cocoon on its own is able to take flight, but will be crippled when you cut the caterpillar's cocoon with a scissors in the name of supposed true love.

Parents are the first teachers in a child's life. If you do not know how to change your destiny, your child will bow down to Life easily.

If you love them, please let them know life does not have to be restricted to ABCD options. We can create our own XYZ choices.

Success has more than one definition.

Whether you are a teacher or a parent, I recommend you and your children to watch this inspirational China movie on challenging Chinese societal norms in parenting and education, Looking Up (銀河補習班), starring Deng Chao.

And think in depth, what should be the real meaning in having children?

每次拍克韋的作品都覺得很細膩，這個案子的每個環節也都好厲害 <3

Design： 劉克韋 （Cowei Liu）
Client： 葭 CHIA _ 葭敻時裝工作室
Costume shooting： CHOU MO - 周墨
Makeup：Shin Tsai
Hair：蔡朋諺
Model：蘇容瑩
Flower Design： ＣＩＡＯ！Flower Design 巧偶花藝‧設計
Product shooting：劉俊佑 （Junyou Liu）

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詩經．蒹葭：「蒹葭蒼蒼，白露爲霜。所謂伊人，在水一方，溯洄從之，道阻且長。溯游從之，宛在水中央。」

葭，取自詩經，表述初生之蘆葦。
品牌取其柔軟纖細之意象，其輕其重於轉瞬之間。
強調人造構築的自然美學，闡述在城市內的微型世界觀。
品牌以刺繡與布料的結合作為主要的設計核心，藉由每一個主題延伸出敘事刺繡，並以限定數量的款式，將系列主題做最為精髓的演繹。

CHIA, the Chinese character adopted from the < Shi Jing >, meaning the new born reed.
We chose the delicate imagery from this character.
We emphasize the artificial nature aesthetics, and the miniature world view in the urban world.
The brand focus on the embroidery and the integration of the fabric. We interpret the theme of the collection from the narrative embroidery of the story, and limited number of the look to express the essence of the collection.

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山海述異。

內在世界的虛幻之獸。
原始概念取自於山海經所闡述之未知獸類物種之意向。
將素材布料與版型整合，創造疊合出嶄新的生物樣貌。
敘述品牌所想像的，虛幻世界裡的虛幻獸相。
我們與之而生，與之對照。
現代世界的朦朧幻影。

THE FICTION: Illusion of the Inner Creatures

The creatures in the inner world.
The Original concept is from the < Shan Hai Jing >, the part of the depiction about the mythological creatures.
We integrate different material, fabric and pattern to create the new appearance of the creature.
It narrates the concept of “the surreal creatures in the surreal world”.
We live and reflect with them.
The illusion in the modern world.

承蒙新地邀請，小弟往後會在新地公益垂直跑SHKP VERTICAL RUN FOR CHARITY每月介紹一本關於體育的好書，希望大家多多支持！

打頭炮的是足球。英超剛完，英國大選又如箭在弦，此刻閱讀這本談論英格蘭足球與社會關係的著作最是合適。這本書，真心值得推薦。披閱之際，除了使自己對英格蘭社會認識加深之外，更想起自己這二十幾年看英超的無數經典片段。

老球迷哦，以前球星比自己大，現在球星都是小朋友了。
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《足球帝國——一窺英格蘭社會的華麗與蒼涼》
The Game of Our Lives: The Meaning and Making of English Football
作者：大衛．哥德布拉特（David Goldblatt）

布萊克（William Blake）的名句：「從一粒沙看世界，從一朵花見天堂。」（To see a World in a Grain of Sand. And a Heaven in a Wild Flower.）這位英倫詩人想說的是：見微，足以知著。用一個新穎角度觀察，使我們對事情了解得更透徹之餘，其實也饒富趣味。

舉個例吧，英格蘭足球在香港有不少球迷，又有沒有想過藉著它可洞察英國社會的方方面面？今次為大家介紹的《足球帝國》，就是如此一部著作。

足球號稱英國國技，而它的影響力在英國社會亦是年深月久。作者大衛‧哥德布拉特是知名的英國運動作家，尤精於足球題材寫作。他在這本書以足球為鏡，洋洋灑灑大談在足球世界反映出來「後戴卓爾年代」的英國面貌，當中包括經濟、城市身份、種族、統獨、管治與性別等議題。

400多頁的厚重篇幅下，作者充分展示了他對英國足球與社會的認識。不讀不知道，原來英國社會的諸多現象都可在足球世界中洞察。例如作者直指英格蘭國家隊近年表現疲弱根源是足總管理不善，情況一如近代英國政府水平。不難看出，這是作者「愛之深，責之切」的呼聲了。

此書中譯本面世不久，但其實原書早於2015年初出版。球迷讀者如果將新近兩年發生的英國足壇大事（例如李斯特城奇蹟奪冠）對照閱讀，相信更會另有一番體會。英國大選在即，脫歐也是如箭在弦，在這個歷史關口下，《足球帝國》這本書讀來實在別具意味。

筆者簡介：蝦叔，愛閱讀，愛寫作，愛運動。期待未來以一雙腳和一枝筆，繼續從體育探索世界。

「Exercise and Read」 - #UncleShrimp @蝦叔跑步 Uncle Shrimp Running
The Game of Our Lives: The Meaning and Making of English Football by David Goldblatt

The quote “To see a world in a grain of sand and a heaven in a wild flower” from English poet William Blake muses about getting an understanding of the larger condition by observing small things, and in the same way the English football can be said to reflect the development of British society. Sports writer David Goldblatt tells how the national sport mirrors the state of affairs in post-Thatcher Britain in The Game of Our Lives: The Meaning and Making of English Football.

The book of over 400 pages covers the British economy, city identity, nationality, unification and independence, along with governance and gender, with Goldblatt’s observations demonstrating his familiarity with football trends and British society. At one point he compares the ineffectiveness of the British government with the mismanagement in the English Football Association that has produced poor performances by the England national team in recent years. His criticisms echo a Chinese saying: love well, chide well.

As the book was published in early 2015, football fans will find the book even more illuminating if they look back on major happenings in the English football world over the last two years such as Leicester City’s shock Premier League win that surprised many. With Britain about to hold a general election and Brexit looking inevitable, The Game of Our Lives: The Meaning and Making of English Football may give readers food for thought.

About the writer: Uncle Shrimp loves reading, writing and athletics and hopes he can continue exploring the world through sports.

◎New Digital Single [嘘じゃない] ( English Title : "Believe" )
【Listen＆DL】​https://soushi.lnk.to/3gDs3bWS

崎山蒼志 - [嘘じゃない ("Bilieve")] Music Video
7/31(土)18:00 プレミア公開！

TVアニメ「僕のヒーローアカデミア」第5期（2クール目）エンディングテーマ
“"My Hero Academia” Season 5 Second Ending Theme Song
毎週土曜夕方5:30 読売テレビ・日本テレビ系全国29局ネット(※一部地域を除く)
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【嘘じゃない Special Site | "Believe" Special Site】
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【嘘じゃない（Anime Size Lyric ver.）】
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EZ-crtDkHJc

【『僕のヒーローアカデミア』TVアニメ5期第2クールノンクレジットエンディングムービー】
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNfXxvS8ZjA

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-Cast-
崎山蒼志
haru

-Staff-
Director: 大喜多正毅
Camera: 安田光
Camera Assistant: 高橋慶太
Light: 杉山泰則
Light Assistant: 鈴木裕介, 水足萌香
Hair&Make-up: 根本亜沙美
Stylist: 釘宮一彰 (崎山蒼志)
Textile Monster: NATSUKI HANYU (haru)
Casting: Oi-Chan
Production Manager: 池田飛鳥, 師田悠三
Driver: 鈴木令, 生田潤一郎, 古橋広美
Producer: 梅田知子

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9月22日(水) 「崎山蒼志「嘘じゃない」Release One-Man Live」
開場：東京・EX THEATER ROPPONGI
出演：崎山蒼志
時間：＜開場＞18:00 / ＜開演＞ 19:00
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◎Digital Single [逆行 | Gyakkou]
【Listen】​https://soushi.lnk.to/rYhw3ZAY
【MV】https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aFR7TjHtG7s

◎Major Debut Album [find fuse in youth]
【CD】 https://soushi.lnk.to/OSiXhsx4
【AL LISTEN】 https://soushi.lnk.to/find_fuse_in_youth_YC
【[Samidare] MV】 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jjswrh3agE
【[Heaven] MV】 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_czo_mif1-4
【[Undulation] MV】 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgS9eZM_ABM
【[そのままどこか] MV】 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=axhqitECl1Y
【[花火] MV】 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fcOzyWb1gKE

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■嘘じゃない

Words & Music: 崎山蒼志
Arrange: Naoki Itai, モチヅキヤスノリ

Acoustic Guitar: 崎山蒼志
Piano: モチヅキヤスノリ
Bass: 北村雄太
Drums: 坂本暁良
Electric Guitar: サトウカツシロ
Strings: MIZ, 三國茉莉, 館泉礼一, 渡邉雅弦
Programming & All other Instruments: Naoki Itai

Recorded & Mixed by 村上宣之
Vocal Recorded by 渥美隆三

息をして触れてきた優しさが
いつの日か 蓄えた優しさになる
一人を越えて 君と繋がれたなら
瞬きの間に 二度とない千を見るよ

誰かが伝う 意味のない と
捨てられた 悲しみに
湛えられた炎を見ろよ
嘘じゃないよ 
嘘じゃない

これからの未来は
何処へでも
繋がれる気がしてるの
悪夢の根源に
居た君を いつか必ず
救い出すから
救い出せるから

擦りきれた心と闇の中へ
今綻んだ関係を辿る途中で
枯れ果てたと感じてた記憶も
枯れちゃいない
そう微かに気づいたのさ

空がほら 広がってく
余計なものも 愛しく
泣けるほどに 痛ましいさ
笑顔を突き立てよう

これからの未来は
何処にでも
繋がれる気がしてるの
悪夢の根源に
居た君を いつか必ず
救い出すから

揺らぎあるものの為に
生きてきたんじゃないし
でもこの振動は
私を確かに 呼んでる
嘘じゃない
嘘じゃない

歪みある世界に立っている
心崩れ落ちる音
溢さぬよう 何度も作ったダムも忘れはしないよ

これからの未来は
何処へでも
繋がれる気がしてるの
悪夢の根源に
居た君を いつか必ず
救い出すから
救い出せるから


■"Believe" - Lyric

The pieces of warmth I've breathed and touched
will someday be amassed
If my path goes beyond alone and leads to you
I will see the vast scenery of a lifetime while I blink

Someone says it has no meaning
and throws away the sorrow
Look at the fire within it
Take my word
Take my word

The future from now
I feel that
my path can link to anywhere
The root of nightmare
where you have been, I promise that someday
I will get you out of there
I can get you out of there

Into the rusty mind and darkness
I trace back the frayed ties now, and
the memories I thought I have exhausted
are still there
I subtly knew

Look, the sky is stretching out
Even the frills seem so dear
and wrenching to make me cry
I will thrust a smile

The future from now
I feel that
it can lead to anywhere
The root of nightmare
where you have been, I promise that someday
I will get you out of there

The flickering things
are not what I have lived for
But this vibration
is indeed calling me
Take my word
Take my word

Standing on a distorted world
I hear the heart falling apart
I've made dams many times to keep it together

The future from now
I feel that
it can lead to anywhere
The root of nightmare
where you have been, I promise that someday
I will get you out of there
I can get you out of there


#崎山蒼志 #嘘じゃない #Usojanai #Believe #ヒロアカ #heroaca_a