【補回失蹤的手指】
Getting Back The Missing Finger

這位男客人在去年九月初來找我批八字。

當時他問的是個人事業的發展。

後來他提到妻子懷孕了六個月，多次超聲波掃描，卻看不到胎兒的手有完整的五根手指。

醫生告訴他們，要有心理準備，這嬰兒出世後，手可能只有四根手指。

我聽了驚駭，問了他太太的生日，便向他解說為何他們八字的結合會導致這個問題。我也提到一些方法，希望他去做。

諮詢結束後，我一直在想著這問題。看看他們夫婦倆的八字，這孩子還有三個月才出世，還有時間扭轉乾坤。

在我跟師父出差的那十多年裡，我依稀記得師父曾經以風水解決類似的問題。

某晚，我打了電話給師父，請教他。師父慈悲再一次教我他用的方法，並提醒我客人的太太不能吃的食物。

人要改命，要懂得集合天時地利人和的力量，效果才會更快更顯著。

幾天後，我寫了電郵給男客人，交代了三件事，來幫助胎兒：

一、天時：
依客人妻子的八字，我列出哪些食物是她在這三個月必須避開的。

二、地利：
在他們家中的某個方位，擇良辰吉日貼上一張男嬰的海報。這男嬰的海報必須有的特徵及那個方位要注意的地方，我都清楚交代他。

這一段話，我打上粗體字 「盡快完成」。

三、人和：
從現在到孩子出生前，夫妻倆每天各唸至少108遍「南無地藏王菩薩」，迴向：祈願迴向給我的兒子身心健康，一切健全。

在我的經驗當中，有些客人比較講心情來過自己的人生，因此靠天時改命，自律和恆持力比較差的，無法得到理想成績。

靠人和，時勤時懶，又或者猜疑心重、猶豫不決的客人，也無法見效。

唯有地利，只要客人願意做一次的改變，不去更動那風水，這力量就能出來了。

今年一月七日，男客人寫了封簡短的電郵感謝我和師父，也說孩子剛出世一切OK。

他的感謝電郵和見他本尊時一樣 - 一樣木訥。😄

就因為客人表達能力不強，一封電郵多聲謝謝更顯得驚奇。我問他是做了哪些事，他說三件事都照辦了。我告訴他這事得他自己撥電感謝師父，因為這不全是我的功勞，也是 玳瑚師父 Master Dai Hu 的慈悲救渡。

看一個八字，能生出健全的孩子，太值得了！賀！🎉

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This male client had a Bazi consultation with me in last September in 2020.

At that time, he was asking about his career development.

Later on, he mentioned that his wife was already 6 months pregnant. However, despite several ultrasounds, they couldn’t see complete five fingers on the baby’s hand.

The doctor told them to be mentally prepared that their baby when born may have only four fingers on his hand.

I was shocked when I heard it. I asked for his wife’s birthday and explained why the combination of their Bazi would cause such an issue. I gave him some solutions and hoped that he would heed my words.

After the consultation ended, I kept thinking of this issue. I examined the couple’s Bazi back home. 3 more months before the baby is due, there is still time to turn the tide around.

In the 12 years I learnt under Shifu, I vaguely remembered he once resolved a similar problem with Feng Shui.

I gave Shifu a call one night and sought his teaching. Shifu compassionately taught me again what he did for his client, and reminded me the foods that the wife must avoid.

When you wish to transform your destiny, you must know how to gather the trinity powers of the Heaven, Earth and Human, and the result will be faster and more obvious.

A few days later, I wrote an email to the male client and gave him three things to do to help his baby:

1. Heavenly Time
Based on the client’s wife Bazi, I listed which foods his wife must avoid in the remaining three months.

2. Land Advantage
In a particular sector of their home, choose an auspicious date & time to put up a poster of a baby boy. I laid down clearly the characteristics of baby in the poster and the conditions of the sector.

I wrote in bold “Get this done AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.”

3. Human Harmony
From now till the child’s birth, the client and his wife should each recite 108 times daily “南無地藏王菩薩” and dedicate the merits to their son: May my son be born healthy physically and emotionally, and able-bodied.

In my experience, some clients are more temperamental when it comes to living their lives. Thus to rely on their Heavenly Time to change their destiny, it is hard to achieve desirable results with poor self-discipline and perseverance.

To rely on Human Harmony, if the client is lazy at times and diligent at others, or easily doubtful and hesitant, whatever effort also come to a naught.

But the only factor that can work in such times will be Land Advantage. As long as the client is willing to make a change once, and does not alter the Feng Shui after that, the power to transform his destiny will arise.

On Jan 7, 2021, the male client wrote a short email to thank Shifu and I, and said that things looked okay with his newborn.

His thank-you email was just like his persona in real-life - woody and reserved. 😄

Yet because the client was not expressive, it is even more surprising to get an email with many thank-you. I asked which of the 3 recommendations he took up, and he replied he did all 3. I told him to give Shifu a call to thank him personally. Firstly, out of sincerity. Secondly, this wasn’t all due to my effort.

If getting a Bazi read can result into a healthy baby born, what a great value! 😄 This deserves a celebration! 🎉

發生關係前要三思，確保是安全，負責任的關係才好發生。

懷孕前後，多唸地藏經，普門品，拜佛，可幫助保佑母子健康安全。

題外話，墮胎前……真係請三思。基本上一旦成胎，就是一個人了。
能成為腹中胎兒，那是有多深的緣分……
如果選擇放棄，她/他會有多大的怨恨……

【#親子蜜語】胎死腹中的BB，並不是醫療廢物......

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#媽媽 #母愛 #懷孕

早前看到一篇新聞，說一對夫婦做足產檢，仍生下患有嚴重基因突變疾病的嬰孩，為照顧孩子心力交瘁，儘管如此也沒有打算要放棄孩子，努力將他撫養成人。

確實，一旦懷孕，無論幾艱難都應該將其生下以及盡全力把他教育撫養成人。

這裡有個小分享，希望大家的孩兒都能安樂易養，健康成長。

按照經典的記載，懷孕期間適合的佛經有：《地藏菩薩本願經》，《妙法蓮花經觀世音菩薩普門品》和《藥師琉璃光如來本願功德就經》，其功德如下：

《地藏菩薩本願經》
「若未來世中，閻浮提內，刹利，婆羅門，長者，居士，一切人等，及異性種族，有新產者，或男或女，七日之內，早與讀誦此不思議經典，更為念菩薩名，可滿萬遍，是新生子或男或女，宿有殃報，更得解脫，安樂易養，壽命增長。若是承福生者，轉增安樂，及於壽命。」

《妙法蓮華經觀世音菩薩普門品》
「若有女人、設欲求男，禮拜供養觀世音菩薩，便生福德智慧之男，設欲求女，便生端正有相之女，宿植德本，眾人愛敬。無盡意，觀世音菩薩有如是力，若有眾生、恭敬禮拜觀世音菩薩，福不唐捐，是故眾生皆應受持觀世音菩薩名號。」

《藥師琉璃光如來本願功德就經》
「或有女人臨當產時．受於極苦．若能志心稱名、禮贊．恭敬供養彼如來者．眾苦皆除。所生之子．身分具足．形色端正．見者歡喜。利根聰明．安隱少病．無有非人奪其精氣。」

1、所有的佛經都有無量無邊的功德，懷孕期間可以讀到佛經不僅限於這幾部佛經。具體讀哪部經，是讀一部還是多部一起讀，完全可根據個人緣份，其利益和功德沒有分別。

《地藏經》是最能幫孩子消業障的經，建議懷孕期間能每天讀，如果地藏經一時學不會可以每天念《普門品》，經文短對於沒有學佛的准媽媽比較容易開始，然後漸漸開始讀《地藏經》孕期最好能讀七七49遍以上，並且在寶寶出生後的7天內也每天至少讀誦一遍。

2、懷孕期間可隨時隨地或出聲或默念諸佛菩薩名號，如南無阿彌陀佛、南無觀世音菩薩或南無地藏菩薩聖號。佛菩薩的聖號也沒有分別，關鍵要用真誠心念聖號、念經！

3、懷孕期間還可聽一些佛曲（心經、觀音菩薩偈、懺悔文、普門頌、大悲咒等佛曲）來給寶寶做胎教也是很好的哦。

4、懷孕期間還要多行善事，最好能夠助印佛經、佛像、放生動物等，並把行善的功德回向寶寶、寶寶的怨親債主（就是過去生生世世中結怨的眾生）和法界眾生，來為寶寶消業積福。

5、懷孕期間如果能吃素也是非常了不起的一個大功德，能為寶寶和自己以及家人消災、積福。如果很難吃全素，也可以在初一、十五或十齋日等日子吃（十齋日：初一、八、十四、十五、十八、二十三、二十四、二十八、二十九、三十），但孕期及產後千萬不要殺生進補，對母子無益！

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讀完經後改如何回向給寶寶?

如下版本供大家參考，關鍵在於真誠心，可以說自己對寶寶的祝福！

（合掌）弟子________，願以此功德，回向新生兒(未生兒)，仰仗菩薩力，眾罪得消滅，轉增福壽慧，相好並莊嚴，萬般皆如意，圓成勝善根。

弟子_____，祈請_____菩薩大慈大悲佛力加被（念三遍）!

最後，簡單總結就是供養佛菩薩，唸經以及守戒。