如果一直遇不到好的命理師，還能改到命嗎？

If you can never find a good Master to analyse your Bazi, can you still change your Destiny?

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【別以爲孩子不完美就不能有自己的成功】
Don't Assume That An Imperfect Child Will Never Have His Own Success

我教書，從小學到中學級別，斷斷續續有十年。

我學命理堪輿超過十五年。

在我家族裡的孩子，還未到十歲，每個幾乎都有十八般武藝，生活能力特別強，就算是女生也特別獨立。

因為這幾種經驗的結合，對於如何栽培孩子的潛能我特別有心得。

在我眼裡，每個人都是佛，所以有無限的可能，孩子也一樣。

但諷刺的是，有時父母反而成為孩子的絆腳石。他們會把自己思維的侷限套在孩子的身上，斷了孩子未激發出來的潛能。

怎麼會這樣？

因為父母本身的八字潛能，也從來沒有被他們的父母激發過，因此成了這惡性循環。在忙於工作和兼顧家庭的無頭蒼蠅日子裡，他們又有何能耐和知識去做這些看似吃力不討好的事呢？

我批的孩童八字當中，有自閉兒、過動兒，有先天缺陷如聽力障礙、語言障礙等，學習過程會比一般孩子來得艱辛。

孩子還未進小學，要嘛就是父母因為這孩子而影響了婚姻，要嘛就父母覺得這孩子不行了，將來做什麼工作就將就吧！

今世的先天缺陷是前世惡因結的果，不該代表孩子的這一世就是死刑。

六歲前為孩子看八字和風水，對孩子的學習人生有很大的補助。三歲前，更佳。

破繭而出的蝴蝶，才能展翅高飛，而不是你打著真愛的口號，拿把剪刀去剪破毛毛蟲的繭。

父母是孩子的第一任老師，如果你們不懂得改善自己的命，你的孩子也會很容易向命運低頭。

愛孩子，就請告訴他們，人生的選項沒有必要鎖在ABCD，我們可以自己創造XYZ。

成功不只是有一種定義。

無論您是一位老師還是一位家長，我大力推薦大家去看這部適合一家大小一起看，由鄧超主演，挑戰我們華人社會對教育和親情習以為常的觀念的大陸電影《銀河補習班》。

看了之後，深入的去思考：我們追求有個孩子真正的意義應該是什麼？

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I have ten years of intermittent teaching experience, from primary school level to secondary school level.

I have also learnt Chinese Metaphysics for over 15 years.

In my family, before the age of ten, almost every child would have acquired a lot of life skills. Even the girls in our family are especially independent.

Because of these myriad experiences, I have my unique insight on how to cultivate the potential of children.

I see everyone as a Buddha, thus having infinite potential. The same goes for children.

Yet ironically, sometimes parents, the people who proclaimed the loudest that they love their children, are the exact ones who tripped their children in Life. They impose their limiting mindset on their children, disrupting the undiscovered potential of their children.

Why so?

Because the potential in the adults' Bazi was also never unearthed by their parents, thus forming a vicious cycle. In the daily grind of juggling family and work, running around like a headless chicken, how will they have the patience and knowledge to do such seemingly thankless acts?

In the children's Bazi I have analysed, some have autism, ADHD, listening or speech disabilities etc. Their learning process will understandably be more difficult than normal children.

Thus even before the child enters primary school, the parents would either face marriage disharmony or think that the child should just settle for any decent job in the future.

Born disabilities of this life are the fruits of our past-life karmic deeds, but this should not mark a death penalty in the child's destiny this lifetime.

To get the child's Bazi analysed and Feng Shui audited before age 6 can have enormous positive effects on the child's learning path. Even better if before age 3.

The butterfly that breaks out of its cocoon on its own is able to take flight, but will be crippled when you cut the caterpillar's cocoon with a scissors in the name of supposed true love.

Parents are the first teachers in a child's life. If you do not know how to change your destiny, your child will bow down to Life easily.

If you love them, please let them know life does not have to be restricted to ABCD options. We can create our own XYZ choices.

Success has more than one definition.

Whether you are a teacher or a parent, I recommend you and your children to watch this inspirational China movie on challenging Chinese societal norms in parenting and education, Looking Up (銀河補習班), starring Deng Chao.

And think in depth, what should be the real meaning in having children?

【你是在隨緣，還是在隨便？】

每一季處理完所有報名者的電郵後，讀完他們的人生遭遇，總有些感概。

多年前，我拍影片的方式就是看到觀眾的留言，自己有些想法，就直接開直播。這一支影片是2017年在台灣桃園國際機場，要飛回新加坡時，在候機室開的直播。事因前一天晚上，有觀眾提倡看命理清未來的方向，另一邊有觀眾留言，認為對待自己孩子的命運應該隨緣。

我說：這裡隨順命運的人如過江之鯽，但成功又開心的人有多少？想成功，雖然不一定要看命，但無論是自己的命運，或孩子的命運，隨緣與隨便，一線之差而已。

「隨緣」二字聽起來很灑脫，事實上，不一定是你悟性高，看透十二因緣，而是你不能面對命運的真實相，也自認沒辦法改變，沒打這場戰之前便已認輸。

所以，你只好選擇随便了。

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After I am done handling the emails from every season of bookings, I tend to feel regretful for my clients upon reading their life encounters.

Many years, my videos were all Facebook Lives, which were done after reading comments from the audience, and me wanting to add my two cents' worth.

This video was a FB Live done in 2017 at the boarding gate of Taiwan Taoyuan International Airport, while I was waiting for my flight back to Singapore. The night before, one viewer commented that he advocated knowing his children's destiny to gain clarity on their life directions. Another viewer felt that we should just leave it to fate.

My take: we aren't lacking people who follow what their destiny dicate, but how many successful and happy ones do we see? Yes, to get your destiny read isn't a prerequisite for success. But it is a fine line between leaving you life to fate and just being careless about it.

The Chinese term 隨緣 is often used freely when we think we should let nature takes it own course. Fact is, you may not be saying this because of your higher perception of the Twelve Links of Dependant Origination, but because you do not know how to face up to the reality of Destiny, and think nothing can be changed. Before the war is even fought, you have admitted defeat.

So the only thing you could do now is to let life happen to you, instead of you making life happen for you.

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Through my videos and online writing, I hope to share my journey with you. So that you too can break free from the limits of your destiny and truly live a life you can call fulfilling. My destiny is in my own hands, not Heaven. So is yours.

It does not matter whether we can live a long or short life.
What matters most is living a life of value and contribution.

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阿彌陀佛，你好！我是李季謙，來自新加坡的風水命理師。我將我的一生貢獻於弘揚佛法和中華玄學。這過程曲折離奇，卻也充滿了許多人生的領悟。

通過我的影音與寫作，盼你也能夠突破自己命運的束縛，真正活得精彩。

我命在我，不在天。人生長短無所謂，最重要的是活得有價值，有貢獻。

??‍? 服務諮詢 ：
https://qianyu.sg/consultations/?lang=zh-hant
聯絡我：
https://qianyu.sg/contact-us/?lang=zh-hant

***********

Hi, I am Lee Ji Qian, a Chinese Metaphysics practitioner from Singapore. This journey in propagating Buddhism and Chinese Metaphysics has been full of hard knocks and exciting discoveries.

Through my videos and online writing, I hope to share my journey with you. So that you too can break free from the limits of your destiny and truly live a life you can call fulfilling. My destiny is in my own hands, not Heaven. So is yours.

It does not matter whether we can live a long or short life.
What matters most is living a life of value and contribution.

??‍? FOR MY SERVICES：
https://qianyu.sg/consultations/

CONTACT ME:
https://qianyu.sg/contact-us/

? CONNECT WITH ME HERE:
http://www.facebook.com/qianyuSG
https://www.instagram.com/qianyusg/