我叫KIKI桑 #取個名字怎麼那麼難

KIKI桑已經取好名字了~我們是自己用取名APP和網站去算字，
想說這樣可以自己挑字，給老師算可能也是差不多的系統吧!
第一次取名字，才知道取名字好多眉角👇

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⚠【生肖、筆畫、八字要吉祥】
KIKI桑的名字最後一個字想要取ㄑ一ˊ音，
原本打定要選"奇"或是"琪"，
不過都剛好跟"🐷"的生肖衝到🙄，
備案"齊"又跟喜用神衝到😭
不過還好最後還有一個順眼的字可以選~

選了字，就要開始湊筆畫，筆畫還要湊五格，
還要搭三才配置、紫微等等😵

告訴自己放寬心，但看到結果還是不免會被影響😑
結果還是盡力在湊符合吉祥的名字🐷

⚠【不能跟爸媽同音】
好不容易湊到幾個喜歡的，又剛好跟我們，或是爺爺奶奶有同音字!
儘管喜歡也只能放棄😞

⚠【避免被取綽號】
還要避免諧音被取不好聽的綽號～
在取名時候都會自己在那邊想不好聽的聯想，
如果有想到就會放棄這個名字🤔

⚠【單純討厭這個字】
還有一種狀況就是，這個名字組合一切都很吉祥！
只是你剛好認識一個很ＧＹ的人也有這個字🙄
你就會不管這個名字再好，你也不會想取😂
誰要一念自己小孩的名字就聯想到討厭的人啊！😤

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以上就是我們的取名的心路歷程啦！
就是這樣困難重重地取了一個月才決定好最後的名字！😅

雖然我們最後取了一個很諧音的名字😂
不過想想也算是正面的詞，念起來也很親切！
就還是決定是取那個名字囉！
（什麼名字就不特別公佈囉）
（雖然有在Follow我們的可能都知道了😅）

你們取名字有什麼心路歷程嗎？
或是最後決定什麼名字呢？

一起在下面聊聊吧！😉

#我叫KIKI桑 #KIKI桑 #育兒日誌 #新手爸媽日記

「名不正，而言不順，言不順，則事不成。」

孔子的名言，眾所皆知也。可還是有爲人父母者，不去研究，固執己見，跳不出家譜，胡亂的給了自己子女，極凶的名字。

這麼多年來，吾看了實在有夠多。今吾，玳瑚師父，特別再闡示此姓名學，依舊是憐憫，無知的眾生。但願有緣觀讀到的妳你，悉發菩提心，大家告知大家，共襄盛舉，廣結善緣，即是美事功德一樁。善哉!善哉!

何謂不正？字形不端，字意不好，字音不雅，字之剛柔不濟，字之五行相剋，三才配置不吉，五格帶凶等等，謂之不正是也。倘若這些方面，皆無完全顧及到，妳你的子女肯定凶多吉少。當然，若她他不知其名，乃是妳你的賦於，妳你們之間就不會，有任何的不妥。

不過，當悲劇發生時，妳你又於心何忍呢?心平氣和的想一想，這到底是愛，還是害啊!不要將妳你的面子，不要將妳你的執著，不要將妳你的銭財，變成一種賭注，變成一種毒素，變成一種禍害，殃及妳妳的子女。好好地遵守，以上姓名學的準則，給於妳你的愛情結晶，無私偉大的愛。

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"If the name is not proper, then the speech will not be in order, and if speech is not in order, then nothing will be accomplished"

This famous adage of Confucius is well-known by everybody. However, there are still parents who refuse to research and remain stubborn to their own views. They are unable to escape from the confines of their genealogy book and carelessly give their sons and daughters a dangerously inauspicious name.

I have indeed seen a lot of such parents all these years. Now Master Dai Hu is going to specially talk about anthroponymy, out of compassion for ignorant sentient beings as always. I hope that you with the affinity to read this also generate bodhichitta and tell more people about this, partaking and forming more virtuous affinities in the process. That will be an wonderful act of merits. Sadhu! Sadhu!

What is an improper name? It is one with irregular external form, bad meaning, indecent pronunciation, inequilbrium in strength and gentleness, clashes in the five elements, inauspiciousness in configuration of the Three Talents, inauspiciousness in the Five Formations etc. If all these are not taken care of, your children will definitely encounter more disasters than good fortune. Naturally, if he or she does not know that the name is given by you, there will not be any friction between you.

However, when tragedy strikes, how can you bear in your heart?

Think over it calmly. Is this love or harm?

Do not use your pride, your attachment and your wealth as gambling stakes, and allow it to become toxic, eventually bringing harm to your children. Adhere to the above rules of Chinese Name Analysis well, and you will be able to give your children great selfless love.